MC Gas Money
Footballguy
As I had mentioned recently, I recieved my CDL a little over two months ago. My girlfriend and I live on opposite ends of NYC, pretty much as far apart as two people can be while within the city limits. Because of the distance we do not get to spend a great deal of time together, which is quite a strain on us because we have grown to love eachother very deeply. This has been a significant factor in regards to me making a decision on which area of the city to seek employment.
My goal is to find work in Brooklyn and save up enough money to move out of the Bronx and reside closer to her and eventually live together. It has been difficult for me to make the decision to work so far from where I currently live because I fear that the long daily commute combined with the potential of having to work overtime and weekends, thus reducing the little quality time we currently spend together, would be enough of a physical and emotional drain on me that it would quickly cause me to have another nervous breakdown. Working close to where I live now is just as unthinkable because it would make the transition to Brooklyn nearly impossible any time in the near future.
Now, after much discussion with her parents, they have agreed to let me move in with them once I acquire a job in the area so that her and I can save enough money to rent a place of our own. This makes me incredibly happy because it will allow me to see her every day, move out of this disgusting halfway house and even have enough free time to pursue my art and writing.
I have not been this happy in a very long time, if ever, and I am very hopeful that with all this enormous stress lifted off me that I will be able to keep myself mentally stable enough to maintain a prosperous existence. My girlfriend truly is the best thing to ever happen to me and its wonderful that we no longer have to worry about our relationship being deteriorated due to outside factors. I cant wait to one day give her a beautiful engagement ring and devote myself to her fully.
I know there will be quite a few posts coming of people trying to ruin my mood and bash me by accusing me of being a leech on them or that I am a bad person for saying I did not like her mothers cooking. I was in no way trying to be derogatory towards her, I was simply trying to avoid hurting her feelings because she is one the nicest people ive ever met. You will not rain on my parade either by calling me a leech because I will be helping with chores at every oppurtunity, as well as purchasing groceries and contributing financially in any way needed.
Just wanted to say that I feel great inside and that I appreciate all of you that have been supportive of me. It helps a lot.
My goal is to find work in Brooklyn and save up enough money to move out of the Bronx and reside closer to her and eventually live together. It has been difficult for me to make the decision to work so far from where I currently live because I fear that the long daily commute combined with the potential of having to work overtime and weekends, thus reducing the little quality time we currently spend together, would be enough of a physical and emotional drain on me that it would quickly cause me to have another nervous breakdown. Working close to where I live now is just as unthinkable because it would make the transition to Brooklyn nearly impossible any time in the near future.
Now, after much discussion with her parents, they have agreed to let me move in with them once I acquire a job in the area so that her and I can save enough money to rent a place of our own. This makes me incredibly happy because it will allow me to see her every day, move out of this disgusting halfway house and even have enough free time to pursue my art and writing.
I have not been this happy in a very long time, if ever, and I am very hopeful that with all this enormous stress lifted off me that I will be able to keep myself mentally stable enough to maintain a prosperous existence. My girlfriend truly is the best thing to ever happen to me and its wonderful that we no longer have to worry about our relationship being deteriorated due to outside factors. I cant wait to one day give her a beautiful engagement ring and devote myself to her fully.
I know there will be quite a few posts coming of people trying to ruin my mood and bash me by accusing me of being a leech on them or that I am a bad person for saying I did not like her mothers cooking. I was in no way trying to be derogatory towards her, I was simply trying to avoid hurting her feelings because she is one the nicest people ive ever met. You will not rain on my parade either by calling me a leech because I will be helping with chores at every oppurtunity, as well as purchasing groceries and contributing financially in any way needed.
Just wanted to say that I feel great inside and that I appreciate all of you that have been supportive of me. It helps a lot.