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Child injured at day camp- what to do legally with the camp? (1 Viewer)

I think when you threaten to sue them they will definitely welcome your son back with open arms next summer.

 
Kid being a kid. You could ask if you could get some credit for next year for the time he missed, but I doubt that will get you anything as I don't think they owe you anything.

 
And since we're trying to point fingers and assign blame here, just curious, did you as his parent talk to him about water safety and what not to do by the pool? Or did you expect someone else to do all that for you?

 
why were't inflatable edge guards in place around the perimeter of the pool? If they are necessary when kids go bowling, clearly they are necessary for pools.

I demand to know why this thing I just thought of wasn't in place.

 
Not sure I understand what the first half of this sentence has to do with anything...it implies to me that you think this had something to do with the accident but I'm not sure what that would be.

Seeing as how there were no other campers in his swim group and only the lifeguard in the pool, he turned so that his back was facing the pool
I'm also not sure why you feel he wasn't properly supervised. Not saying he wasn't, but can't really tell from the details provided. There was a lifeguard on duty. I don't know how a lifeguard would be guaranteed to stop a kid from doing what your son did anyway. Were his counselors present? If so, I'm not sure where they went wrong there either.
FWIW, we spoke to one of the counselors after he got hurt.

Prior to him getting hurt the camp said that non-pool counselors were permitted to sit by the pool deck and watch the kids, whereas after the injury, they were required to be in the pool. I know that remedial measures do not establish liability, but they can show that other more careful measures were available.
I might not be understanding the logistics, but what difference would it have made if there were counselors in the pool when your son jumped?
Potentially-" Hey, Ned Jr. What the hell are you doing attempting to jump into the pool backwards" is easier to do from in the pool than 10 feet away.
Asked upthread but not answered. Were kids in your son's group allowed to jump into the pool at that time?

 
Did the lifeguard drag your kid out of the pool?
His counselor did, and carried him to the nurse's office, where he was "boarded" to check for a neck injury.
Oof, thats insanely wrong. You put them on the backboard in the pool if you think there may be a spinal injury.

Had there been a spinal injury, you'd have a legit gripe. As is, you don't.
Yes, I have been informed that after the fact. Thankfully he is fine on that front.

 
Not sure I understand what the first half of this sentence has to do with anything...it implies to me that you think this had something to do with the accident but I'm not sure what that would be.

Seeing as how there were no other campers in his swim group and only the lifeguard in the pool, he turned so that his back was facing the pool
I'm also not sure why you feel he wasn't properly supervised. Not saying he wasn't, but can't really tell from the details provided. There was a lifeguard on duty. I don't know how a lifeguard would be guaranteed to stop a kid from doing what your son did anyway. Were his counselors present? If so, I'm not sure where they went wrong there either.
FWIW, we spoke to one of the counselors after he got hurt.

Prior to him getting hurt the camp said that non-pool counselors were permitted to sit by the pool deck and watch the kids, whereas after the injury, they were required to be in the pool. I know that remedial measures do not establish liability, but they can show that other more careful measures were available.
I might not be understanding the logistics, but what difference would it have made if there were counselors in the pool when your son jumped?
Potentially-" Hey, Ned Jr. What the hell are you doing attempting to jump into the pool backwards" is easier to do from in the pool than 10 feet away.
Asked upthread but not answered. Were kids in your son's group allowed to jump into the pool at that time?
Don't know.

 
Kid being a kid. You could ask if you could get some credit for next year for the time he missed, but I doubt that will get you anything as I don't think they owe you anything.
In all seriousness though, wouldn't you think they would ask for a release from me?

I can't imagine they would agree to anything without it, no?

 
Not sure I understand what the first half of this sentence has to do with anything...it implies to me that you think this had something to do with the accident but I'm not sure what that would be.

Seeing as how there were no other campers in his swim group and only the lifeguard in the pool, he turned so that his back was facing the pool
I'm also not sure why you feel he wasn't properly supervised. Not saying he wasn't, but can't really tell from the details provided. There was a lifeguard on duty. I don't know how a lifeguard would be guaranteed to stop a kid from doing what your son did anyway. Were his counselors present? If so, I'm not sure where they went wrong there either.
FWIW, we spoke to one of the counselors after he got hurt.

Prior to him getting hurt the camp said that non-pool counselors were permitted to sit by the pool deck and watch the kids, whereas after the injury, they were required to be in the pool. I know that remedial measures do not establish liability, but they can show that other more careful measures were available.
I might not be understanding the logistics, but what difference would it have made if there were counselors in the pool when your son jumped?
Potentially-" Hey, Ned Jr. What the hell are you doing attempting to jump into the pool backwards" is easier to do from in the pool than 10 feet away.
As a former camp counselor, I don't really think that's the case. If I'm 10 feet away and see a kid walking backwards, I could easily tell the kid not to jump from where I am; I don't need to be in the pool. I think a remedial change that might bolster any claim you have (which probably isn't worth making) is if the camp doesn't let kids do reverse cannonballs anymore.

 
Not sure I understand what the first half of this sentence has to do with anything...it implies to me that you think this had something to do with the accident but I'm not sure what that would be.

Seeing as how there were no other campers in his swim group and only the lifeguard in the pool, he turned so that his back was facing the pool
I'm also not sure why you feel he wasn't properly supervised. Not saying he wasn't, but can't really tell from the details provided. There was a lifeguard on duty. I don't know how a lifeguard would be guaranteed to stop a kid from doing what your son did anyway. Were his counselors present? If so, I'm not sure where they went wrong there either.
FWIW, we spoke to one of the counselors after he got hurt.

Prior to him getting hurt the camp said that non-pool counselors were permitted to sit by the pool deck and watch the kids, whereas after the injury, they were required to be in the pool. I know that remedial measures do not establish liability, but they can show that other more careful measures were available.
I might not be understanding the logistics, but what difference would it have made if there were counselors in the pool when your son jumped?
Potentially-" Hey, Ned Jr. What the hell are you doing attempting to jump into the pool backwards" is easier to do from in the pool than 10 feet away.
Asked upthread but not answered. Were kids in your son's group allowed to jump into the pool at that time?
Don't know.
I think this is a key piece to the determination of whether there was any negligence. Because your kid had already jumped into the pool. If he wasn't supposed to (because it was unsafe, or they hadn't trained the kids about how to jump safely, or because there was insufficient supervision), and they let him jump once, exit the pool and jump again, there may be some fault. But if it permissible and otherwise safe to jump at the time, and the danger arose because your kid turned around just before jumping, it's hard to see how that could have been stopped in time even through the exercise of reasonable care.

 
I would say the best case is you go in with your hat in your hand and ask if they can discount some of your fees since he cant fully participate.

Anything else is ridiculous.

 
I think asking to apply this years fees to fully cover next year camp is a reasonable request.

 
Not sure I understand what the first half of this sentence has to do with anything...it implies to me that you think this had something to do with the accident but I'm not sure what that would be.

Seeing as how there were no other campers in his swim group and only the lifeguard in the pool, he turned so that his back was facing the pool
I'm also not sure why you feel he wasn't properly supervised. Not saying he wasn't, but can't really tell from the details provided. There was a lifeguard on duty. I don't know how a lifeguard would be guaranteed to stop a kid from doing what your son did anyway. Were his counselors present? If so, I'm not sure where they went wrong there either.
FWIW, we spoke to one of the counselors after he got hurt.

Prior to him getting hurt the camp said that non-pool counselors were permitted to sit by the pool deck and watch the kids, whereas after the injury, they were required to be in the pool. I know that remedial measures do not establish liability, but they can show that other more careful measures were available.
Lets say that the lifeguard was in the pool. How would this have changed anything?

There was no negligence on the part of the Lifeguard from your statement. The camp should not be help liable for any medical bills. Missed camp time could be compensated as a courtesy (and imo should) but even that isn't obligated. Everything reasonably done, was done.

 
I think asking to apply this years fees to fully cover next year camp is a reasonable request.
No one else here seems to agree with you at all. Nor do I, but seeking lost camp time and bills does not seem crazy.

 
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Did your son's blood stain the pool's concrete? Did any of the staff suffer trauma from seeing the accident? They may have a case against you here.

 
I'm positive that for a $10k retainer you can get an attorney to write a letter demanding whatever the hell you want. You should go this route and report back.

Heck somebody here might do it.

 
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I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.

 
I think you need to sue them and put the camp out of business. I'm sure the other kids probably wouldn't mind.

 
Show him film of Greg Louganis hitting his head on the board at the Olympics. And then stress that despite this, Louganis didn't curl up in a ball and sue. He overcame, went on to win the gold, came out as gay, came down with HIV, and went on to a long and prosperous lifetime of whoring himself out on daytime television and in made-for-TV movies about his life.

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Dude why are you yelling. Between this and you trying to sue the camp, you may want to look into anger management.

 
so youre asking if you should sue the camp for your kid doing something stupid...

bigger question is why does your kid not know the dangers of doing something like that? got to love people who are ####ty parents blaming their failures on others.

btw...how do you get compensation without suing? threatening to sue and then settling? semantics really.

 
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Have you been keeping track of all your correspondence with the camp? I'm sure all of this will be requested during the discovery when you sue.

 
This type of thing is the reason that products have the stupidest warning labels and commercials for drugs contain more side effect and warnings than actual information about the drug.

If you had been watching the kid you'd be saying "he jumped in the pool. How was I supposed to know he'd screw up the reverse cannonball so bad?"

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Do you really think it's even a small leap to assume that a lawsuit is a potential outcome?

I think 100% this is a kids being kids accident, and while you certainly are within your rights to ask for compensation for the bills and lost time, anything the camp gives you would be good will and they owe you zero $$.

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Never even implied? The title of your thread is "what to do legally with the camp".

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Never even implied? The title of your thread is "what to do legally with the camp".
:goodposting: Was just going to add that to my post :highfive:

 
Asking for compensation seems petty to me the more I think about it. Missing camp is a sunk cost. There was no negligence on their part. Its an accident attributed to a kid being a kid. You might be able to get some compensation but I wouldn't ask if I was in your shoes. Its all part of the cost of having a kid. Just be grateful that he wasn't seriously injured.

 
Obviously, you know that writing a letter might provide you with some compensation depending on how threatened the camp feels. That's the way the game is played. I think a lot of people here don't think that's kosher, particularly since you concede that you probably wouldn't take the step to sue for negligence.

I think even within the profession, different lawyers have different levels of tolerance for all the Kabuki-theater bull####. I wouldn't ask for compensation unless I was convinced the camp was negligent (or at least that I felt like it was question I needed answered). I don't have all the information (and I doubt I care enough to really find out), but I'm not convinced of that. Others' mileage may vary.

 
so youre asking if you should sue the camp for your kid doing something stupid...

bigger question is why does your kid not know the dangers of doing something like that? got to love people who are ####ty parents blaming their failures on others.

btw...how do you get compensation without suing? threatening to sue and then settling? semantics really.
If I called them and said-

Hi Camp Owner- This happened at your camp, under your supervision. That said, I think it is reasonable under the circumstances that you cover our medical bills and time missed from camp which will probably be about three weeks in the form of a credit to next summer, which I know you do not have to, but it seems that as a courtesy you should.

Honest question- What do you think the camp owner says in response?

 
Already been said by others that it's part of having a kid.

In all honesty, what would you have expected someone to do? Jump toward him while he's mid jump and swoop him away from the ledge?
...or not take him to the emergency room after it happened?! They did what they had to do - they (likely) don't know that your medical insurance plan has a $500 copay for ER visits, nor do they care. There was a child in need of medical attention immediately (don't F around with concussions) and they did the best thing possible under the circumstances.

 
I would say the best case is you go in with your hat in your hand and ask if they can discount some of your fees since he cant fully participate.

Anything else is ridiculous.
Even medical fees?
Anyone else here visualizing Ned chasing the ambulance his son is on?

Your son choose poorly and was offered a learning opportunity, so now its your turn to penalize the people you think should be smart enough to know your challenged child needed to be carried from location to location (as walking or god forbid running AND jumping into a non moving body of water is an iffy thing for him). Good thing he wasn't chewing gum as well, he might have killed someone...

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Never even implied? The title of your thread is "what to do legally with the camp".
#######IT. Good catch biggie. I feel quite the fool.

 
so youre asking if you should sue the camp for your kid doing something stupid...

bigger question is why does your kid not know the dangers of doing something like that? got to love people who are ####ty parents blaming their failures on others.

btw...how do you get compensation without suing? threatening to sue and then settling? semantics really.
If I called them and said-

Hi Camp Owner- This happened at your camp, under your supervision. That said, I think it is reasonable under the circumstances that you cover our medical bills and time missed from camp which will probably be about three weeks in the form of a credit to next summer, which I know you do not have to, but it seems that as a courtesy you should.

Honest question- What do you think the camp owner says in response?
He says: "I'll need to notify my insurance carrier."

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Never even implied? The title of your thread is "what to do legally with the camp".
#######IT. Good catch biggie. I feel quite the fool.
i'm gonna sue you

 
I AM NOT GOING TO SUE THE CAMP. I WAS NEVER GOING TO SUE THE CAMP! I NEVER EVEN IMPLIED THAT I WAS GOING TO SUE THE CAMP.

I was asking for people's opinions, as several friends and family have advocated seeking some compensation for his injuries which happened at the camp.
Isn't asking for monetary reimbursement pretty close to the same thing = same result?

 
Love these threads. Despite the overwhelming response that it should just be let go and thankful he wasn't hurt worse, we're still trying to find some "nice" way to ask the camp to cover some of the bills.

 
so youre asking if you should sue the camp for your kid doing something stupid...

bigger question is why does your kid not know the dangers of doing something like that? got to love people who are ####ty parents blaming their failures on others.

btw...how do you get compensation without suing? threatening to sue and then settling? semantics really.
If I called them and said-

Hi Camp Owner- This happened at your camp, under your supervision. That said, I think it is reasonable under the circumstances that you cover our medical bills and time missed from camp which will probably be about three weeks in the form of a credit to next summer, which I know you do not have to, but it seems that as a courtesy you should.

Honest question- What do you think the camp owner says in response?
He says: "I'll need to notify my insurance carrier."
And, "This is why we have you sign a waiver."

 

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