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I've always been fairly inflexible and when I let my diet go a few years ago I've developed a problem where I'd routinely develop painful knots in my muscles. My wife had me try getting massages on several different occasions, but they've always seemed expensive and my pain threshold is so weak that they weren't worth it and I could never get comfortable enough with a therapist. However, a few months ago I finally started going to a local therapist. I had known her before through work so I was able to be more comfortable (by comfortable I mean not being embarrassed to whine like a little #####). I've noticed it's definitely begun to help my flexibility and reduce muscle soreness. I got my wife to start going too and I'll usually book her appointments and pre-pay for her, which scores me points. We've been going 1x-2x/month for the past few month. So far, it's been totally worth it and my wife is all for it because she knows how bad my back can get. And, for me personally, there is absolutely nothing erotic about the whole experience - I'm basically in writhing pain the entire time.
However, the therapist is pretty open and forward. She's always very complimentary (which is funny because I'm kinda fat now) and has increasingly made some questionable statements. For example, in my first few visits she commented several times that it's too bad I'm married and that my wife is lucky. She'll then ask for dating advice, want to swap dating stories, etc. She's also very open about her past marriage and isn't shy to admit that she cheated (and has indicated the same to my wife). She's also gotten a bit more "feely" with each session. Now, initially, I chalked these statements up to nothing and just assumed I was being a typical married dude who thinks he could get any girl now that he's married. But, after my wife's last session my wife came home and said that the therapist was a bit cold and wanted to talk only about me. Also, the therapist has recently closed her office and is now working out of a casita on her personal property - a fact which has my wife very skeptical. Today, the therapist commented on my underwear (I always wear them for massages) and, giggling, indicated that she thinks it is "funny" that I wear them and said I didn't need to. She also kept me 30 minutes over time for free. Again, I'm freely willing to admit these things could all be nothing and I'm just the average client, but since my wife independently drew the same conclusions whether I'm right or wrong here is probably irrelevant.
Other facts pertinent to this situation are that the therapist is the same age as my wife, the therapist is probably a 7 or 8 on the offdee scale, looks a lot like my wife, and, if I were single and didn't thoroughly love my wife, she would be a would smash.
So, the question for you married guys is what's the best way to handle this situation? Conservative play is probably to stop going, but, well, I'm not worried about myself doing anything wrong should the situation escalate and my wife isn't either, and, selfishly, I'd like to keep going because the massages are helpful and affordable and I don't think they could be replaced. Right now I'm leaning towards just telling my wife what the therapist said and letting her make the call. I just fear not being able to find a similar quality therapist with such reasonable prices.
Cliff's notes:
1. My wife and I get good and affordable massages from an attractive girl.
2. Said girl possibly wants to massage more than just my knots.
3. Wife is leery of girl.
4. I'm aware now that I'm an idiot and am not sure how to handle this.
5. HEY LOOK AT ME, I'M MARRIED AND ATTRACTIVE GIRLS STILL WANT ME!
However, the therapist is pretty open and forward. She's always very complimentary (which is funny because I'm kinda fat now) and has increasingly made some questionable statements. For example, in my first few visits she commented several times that it's too bad I'm married and that my wife is lucky. She'll then ask for dating advice, want to swap dating stories, etc. She's also very open about her past marriage and isn't shy to admit that she cheated (and has indicated the same to my wife). She's also gotten a bit more "feely" with each session. Now, initially, I chalked these statements up to nothing and just assumed I was being a typical married dude who thinks he could get any girl now that he's married. But, after my wife's last session my wife came home and said that the therapist was a bit cold and wanted to talk only about me. Also, the therapist has recently closed her office and is now working out of a casita on her personal property - a fact which has my wife very skeptical. Today, the therapist commented on my underwear (I always wear them for massages) and, giggling, indicated that she thinks it is "funny" that I wear them and said I didn't need to. She also kept me 30 minutes over time for free. Again, I'm freely willing to admit these things could all be nothing and I'm just the average client, but since my wife independently drew the same conclusions whether I'm right or wrong here is probably irrelevant.
Other facts pertinent to this situation are that the therapist is the same age as my wife, the therapist is probably a 7 or 8 on the offdee scale, looks a lot like my wife, and, if I were single and didn't thoroughly love my wife, she would be a would smash.
So, the question for you married guys is what's the best way to handle this situation? Conservative play is probably to stop going, but, well, I'm not worried about myself doing anything wrong should the situation escalate and my wife isn't either, and, selfishly, I'd like to keep going because the massages are helpful and affordable and I don't think they could be replaced. Right now I'm leaning towards just telling my wife what the therapist said and letting her make the call. I just fear not being able to find a similar quality therapist with such reasonable prices.
Cliff's notes:
1. My wife and I get good and affordable massages from an attractive girl.
2. Said girl possibly wants to massage more than just my knots.
3. Wife is leery of girl.
4. I'm aware now that I'm an idiot and am not sure how to handle this.
5. HEY LOOK AT ME, I'M MARRIED AND ATTRACTIVE GIRLS STILL WANT ME!
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