Run It Up
Footballguy
I'm finding it real hard to handle pretty much everything in my life all of a sudden. I've had in my past conflicts, obstacles and barriers I've had to overcome and until now I have, but its not even about failure or success anymore -- I just don't feel anything but disappointment, in life, in others and especially in myself.
When I retreat into myself all I think about is this person I'm not, reaffirming what I already know, I'm not special -- what I'm going through is nothing special, people have gone through much worse before and will long after I'm gone, but I'm so tired.
I knew from since I could comprehend the concept of death, that what we have is all we will ever have and how we use our time here is all we will leave behind, be exceptional to each other, a simple credo. My best friend, biggest role model and person I admired the most died suddenly tonight and I'm filled with nothing but regrets. I can't even grieve for them, because I feel so ### ####ed selfish -- I'm more upset that I won't get to spend more of my life with them than the tragedy that they died suddenly. Its not dissimilar to how I felt when I was diagnosed with cancer a couple months ago, I was so upset with life, I've done nothing but work or go to school my entire life and then suddenly my mortality came into question without warning and I couldn't help but simultaneously play the victim and the critic, so upset with myself for being upset about having cancer.
I wanted to be more than who I turned out to be to them, I wanted to show them my potential as the secretly arrogant ##### that I am and my underachieving outpaced me in glorious fashion, I know what I'm capable of and I honestly have no interest in proving it to myself which has been my biggest handicap in life and now that I have no one to prove it to but myself I just don't see the ####### point. Six months ago the only thing I was more afraid of than death was being in debt, and now add to that living without purpose.
I'm just so tired of regret, disappointment, bitterness and indignation. I really don't feel like 25 is old enough for a ####### midlife crisis.
When I retreat into myself all I think about is this person I'm not, reaffirming what I already know, I'm not special -- what I'm going through is nothing special, people have gone through much worse before and will long after I'm gone, but I'm so tired.
I knew from since I could comprehend the concept of death, that what we have is all we will ever have and how we use our time here is all we will leave behind, be exceptional to each other, a simple credo. My best friend, biggest role model and person I admired the most died suddenly tonight and I'm filled with nothing but regrets. I can't even grieve for them, because I feel so ### ####ed selfish -- I'm more upset that I won't get to spend more of my life with them than the tragedy that they died suddenly. Its not dissimilar to how I felt when I was diagnosed with cancer a couple months ago, I was so upset with life, I've done nothing but work or go to school my entire life and then suddenly my mortality came into question without warning and I couldn't help but simultaneously play the victim and the critic, so upset with myself for being upset about having cancer.
I wanted to be more than who I turned out to be to them, I wanted to show them my potential as the secretly arrogant ##### that I am and my underachieving outpaced me in glorious fashion, I know what I'm capable of and I honestly have no interest in proving it to myself which has been my biggest handicap in life and now that I have no one to prove it to but myself I just don't see the ####### point. Six months ago the only thing I was more afraid of than death was being in debt, and now add to that living without purpose.
I'm just so tired of regret, disappointment, bitterness and indignation. I really don't feel like 25 is old enough for a ####### midlife crisis.