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#1 SHIZNITTTT

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:18 AM

Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:20 AM

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:21 AM

Rewind 12 years and tell her to raise her daughter to respect the rules, maybe 13 years and not have a kid, or somewhere in between and not screw up her marriage (or don't let a jerk knock you up).

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:21 AM

short of going to the cops and reporting their sexual activities (if its happening and illegal in your state) i dont see what can be done. Sure, they can ground her, but she'll still try and sneak out. He's under 18, so you cant just go beat him up.

He's 16. If he's messing with a 12 year old he's either A) extremely immature or B) getting what he wants from her. If its B, then the daughter's decision making is the root of the problem.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:22 AM

Have Mom start hitting on the 16yr old boy ...do it in a real creepy way- he'll run.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:24 AM

Don't worry. I'm sure he'll disappear once the girl gets knocked up, which is only a matter of time in this scenario.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:28 AM

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:29 AM

Scan the state statute on statutory rape and post it on his facebook page.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:29 AM

Single mother needs to have some sort of a father-figure have a sit-down with the boy. She also needs to get the girl on birth control.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:29 AM

1) Plant meth in boy's car
2) Call cops
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:35 AM

Scan the state statute on statutory rape and post it on his facebook page.

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Also, spy on the kid. Lead the cops directly to them when the punk's breaking the law.

Plus, I'd recommend giving the girl a new nickname, such as "jailbait."
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:38 AM


Have Mom start hitting on the 16yr old boy ...do it in a real creepy way- he'll run.

this happened when i was in HS. The kid ended up banging the mom. The daughter, her brother and the boyfriend all went to our HS. Needless to say, things got interesting after that.

After that?
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:41 AM

DO NOT call the police. If you do, the boy could get arrested for rape and spend the next 10 years in jail. Maybe there's a part of you who would like nothing better than that, but your daughter would never forgive you (and you probably wouldn't forgive yourself 8-9 years from now when the boy is still in jail).

Better option: go to the parents and remind them that their son could get arrested for rape and do some serious jail time.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:41 AM



Have Mom start hitting on the 16yr old boy ...do it in a real creepy way- he'll run.

this happened when i was in HS. The kid ended up banging the mom. The daughter, her brother and the boyfriend all went to our HS. Needless to say, things got interesting after that.

After that?

well, things got interesting for the rest of us as it all unfolded publicly.

Also, the daughter was an absolute mess over it and several upper class males took full advantage.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:49 AM

Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

Does the girl turn 13 before the boy turns 17? If so, there is some really bizarre statutory effects. I'm assuming a) you're in Tennessee, and b) they're having sex:

Girl is 12, Boy is 16 - Tennessee 39-13-522. Rape of a Child - Applied to any sexual penetration of a girl under the age of 13. For the defendant - Minimum of twenty-five (25) years in prison, satellite monitoring upon release.

Girl turns 13, Boy still 16 - Not just no jail time. No violation of any law because the girl is at least 13 and the boy is less than 4 years apart in age.

Girl is 13, Boy turns 17 - Tennessee 39-13-506. Statutory rape. (b)(1) - Applied to any sexual penetration of a girl at least 13 years of age but less than 15, and the defendant is between 4 and 10 years older. For the defendant - Not less than one (1) year nor more than six (6) years in prison.

Edited by Orange Crush, 20 October 2009 - 10:52 AM.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:50 AM

Do the boys parent(s) know their 16 year old son is dating a 12 year old? When my son was a Freshman he had this little girlfriend that was still in 8th grade. I called him Roman Polanski.

Why? Because I'm an idiot on a messageboard?


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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:52 AM

Boys parents are not involved with their son. Mother tried to speak with parents and the boy's parents didn't seem concerned. Mother did speak with the boy and asked him if he was emabarrased or did his friends make fun of him for dating someone so young. Didn't work, they are still sneaking around seeing each other. I think Mom is going to place the daughter on BC. Will update when I know more...

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:53 AM


Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

Does the girl turn 13 before the boy turns 17? If so, there is some really bizarre statutory effects. I'm assuming a) you're in Tennessee, and b) they're having sex:

Girl is 12, Boy is 16 - Tennessee 39-13-522. Rape of a Child - Applied to any sexual penetration of a girl under the age of 13. For the defendant - Minimum of twenty-five (25) years in prison, satellite monitoring upon release.

Girl turns 13, Boy still 16 - Not just no jail time. No violation of any law because the girl is at least 13 and the boy is less than 4 years apart in age.

Girl is 13, Boy turns 17 - Tennessee 39-13-506. Statutory rape. (b)(1) - Applied to any sexual penetration of a girl at least 13 years of age but less than 15, and the defendant is between 4 and 10 years older. For the defendant - Not less than one (1) year nor more than six (6) years in prison.

No girl and boy are in Oklahoma

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:54 AM

Install an alarm system to prevent sneaking out - have an older friend talk to the girl and try to get through to her = if not send a different friend to "talk" to the 16 yr old boy.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:56 AM

No girl and boy are in Oklahoma

So why not have the kids' grandfather settle it?

Why? Because I'm an idiot on a messageboard?


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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:59 AM

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:03 AM

Start a rumor that the girl was born a boy, problem solved until she leaves for college.


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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:04 AM



Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

Does the girl turn 13 before the boy turns 17? If so, there is some really bizarre statutory effects. I'm assuming a) you're in Tennessee, and b) they're having sex:

Girl is 12, Boy is 16 - Tennessee 39-13-522. Rape of a Child - Applied to any sexual penetration of a girl under the age of 13. For the defendant - Minimum of twenty-five (25) years in prison, satellite monitoring upon release.

Girl turns 13, Boy still 16 - Not just no jail time. No violation of any law because the girl is at least 13 and the boy is less than 4 years apart in age.

Girl is 13, Boy turns 17 - Tennessee 39-13-506. Statutory rape. (b)(1) - Applied to any sexual penetration of a girl at least 13 years of age but less than 15, and the defendant is between 4 and 10 years older. For the defendant - Not less than one (1) year nor more than six (6) years in prison.

No girl and boy are in Oklahoma

Ah. Much better for the boy then. It's just second degree rape until the girl turns 16. That's just anywhere from 1 to 15 years in prison.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:04 AM

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:07 AM

If talking/reasoning does not work then send her off to boarding school.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:19 AM

Since when is 12 a teenager?

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:22 AM

Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:22 AM

Since when is 12 a teenager?

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:25 AM


Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:28 AM


No girl and boy are in Oklahoma

So why not have the kids' grandfather settle it?

I would have screwed up the apostrophe and completely ruined the joke. Very well done.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:30 AM

Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

the girl has Daddy issues from the break up of her parents. the 16 year old boy is not the problem, he is a symptom.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:55 AM


Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

the girl has Daddy issues from the break up of her parents. the 16 year old boy is not the problem, he is a symptom.

Even if your analysis is correct, that's not a solution.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:00 PM



Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

the girl has Daddy issues from the break up of her parents. the 16 year old boy is not the problem, he is a symptom.

Even if your analysis is correct, that's not a solution.

my point numbnuts is that the issue is much broader than the current 16 year old boyfriend. figuring out a way to chase this current guy away is like putting a band aid on a bullet wound, the only way to cure things is to get a the root cause of the teenage girl having a jones for an older guy to replace her wayward father.
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:07 PM

DO NOT call the police. If you do, the boy could get arrested for rape and spend the next 10 years in jail. Maybe there's a part of you who would like nothing better than that, but your daughter would never forgive you (and you probably wouldn't forgive yourself 8-9 years from now when the boy is still in jail).Better option: go to the parents and remind them that their son could get arrested for rape and do some serious jail time.

:lmao: Mother should go to the boys' parents and simply say this is unacceptable and if the situation was reversed they would agree. I would stress that if this doesn't stop then your only option will be to report it to the police where their son can then get into serious trouble.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:09 PM

Boys parents are not involved with their son. Mother tried to speak with parents and the boy's parents didn't seem concerned. Mother did speak with the boy and asked him if he was emabarrased or did his friends make fun of him for dating someone so young. Didn't work, they are still sneaking around seeing each other. I think Mom is going to place the daughter on BC. Will update when I know more...

Retract my prior posting then. Tell boy if it doesn't end NOW she'll go to the cops and he better watch his corn hole when he gets sent to jail. Definitely give daughter birth control and make sure she takes it.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:10 PM




Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

the girl has Daddy issues from the break up of her parents. the 16 year old boy is not the problem, he is a symptom.

Even if your analysis is correct, that's not a solution.

my point numbnuts is that the issue is much broader than the current 16 year old boyfriend. figuring out a way to chase this current guy away is like putting a band aid on a bullet wound, the only way to cure things is to get a the root cause of the teenage girl having a jones for an older guy to replace her wayward father.

Uh-huh. And how does the mom do that?
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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:11 PM




Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

the girl has Daddy issues from the break up of her parents. the 16 year old boy is not the problem, he is a symptom.

Even if your analysis is correct, that's not a solution.

my point numbnuts is that the issue is much broader than the current 16 year old boyfriend. figuring out a way to chase this current guy away is like putting a band aid on a bullet wound, the only way to cure things is to get a the root cause of the teenage girl having a jones for an older guy to replace her wayward father.

True but if you don't correct the problem at an earlier age it's pretty much too late to start acting like a parent. Live and learn and hope she stays on birth control.

#38 Hatfield

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:14 PM





Background - Single mother I work with has a daughter who is 12 and seeing a 16 year old boy. Boy needs to go away. Daughter has sneaked out of the house to meet the boyfriend. Thought I would ask on here since some of you guys have daughters/sons this age. TIA

the girl has Daddy issues from the break up of her parents. the 16 year old boy is not the problem, he is a symptom.

Even if your analysis is correct, that's not a solution.

my point numbnuts is that the issue is much broader than the current 16 year old boyfriend. figuring out a way to chase this current guy away is like putting a band aid on a bullet wound, the only way to cure things is to get a the root cause of the teenage girl having a jones for an older guy to replace her wayward father.

Uh-huh. And how does the mom do that?

therapy would be a good start and i would make sure she stays away from reading sylvia plath poems
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#39 trogg78

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:35 PM

make it look like an accident.

Edited by trogg78, 20 October 2009 - 12:35 PM.

A herd of buffalo can only move as fast as the slowest buffalo, and when the herd is hunted, it is the slowest and weakest ones at the back that are killed first. This natural selection is good for the herd as a whole, because the general speed and health of the whole group keeps improving by the regular killing of the weakest members. In much the same way, the human brain can only operate as fast as the slowest brain cells. Excessive intake of alcohol, as we know, kills brain cells, but naturally it attacks the slowest and weakest brain cells first. In this way, regular consumption of beer eliminates the weaker brain cells, making the brain a faster and more efficient machine. That's why you always feel smarter after a few beers.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:54 PM

Do the boys parent(s) know their 16 year old son is dating a 12 year old? When my son was a Freshman he had this little girlfriend that was still in 8th grade. I called him Roman Polanski.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:55 PM

Build a large Mylar balloon.

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 01:15 PM

I agree we both Oti :confused:

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