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Loaning a chick money 9/9/16 - Bye (1 Viewer)

'Arizona Ron said:
My wife texted me yesterday:

Wife: Can you pick up <kid>? I want meet up with Amber.

Me: Sure.

I leave work, pick up my daughter and head home. We do the standard dinner/homework thing then we played a few math card games. “School tomorrow, tubby time and bed”.

After I get my daughter to bed, I hit the couch to catch up on the last episode of Homeland.

Wife gets in about 9:30, she says "can we talk?"

Me: "Sure, what’s up?"

Wife: "Amber told me you gave Angie $3k. Is that true?"

Me: "No"

Wife: "Why would she say such a random lie?"

Me: "I loaned Angie 3k"

Wife: "So Amber wasn’t lying"

Me: "I didn’t say Amber was lying, I said I didn’t give Angie 3k – I loaned her 3k. And tell Amber it’s really none of her ####ing business what I do with my money."

Wife: "Amber said you would be like this"

Me: "like what???" :confused:

Wife: "You make a lot more than me so you feel like you have more power and can do whatever you want. I wouldn’t give someone 3k without talking to you."

Me: "Loan! :rant: – also, if you want to loan someone 3k, just take it out of one of your checks. Oh wait, your checks don’t get to 3k let alone enough to loan it to someone else. So if you wanted to do it, you would HAVE to ask me. See the difference?"

Wife: "###hole"

She leaves pissed, goes up stairs.
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:lmao: :lmao: nobody could have seen that coming

 
'The Dude said:
My guess would be your wife thinks the loan extends your relationship with the tramp beyond casual sex.
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That may be, but my guess is that she's got someone in her ear making a big deal out of what might not have been an issue before. We already know that Amber is recently at loose ends, because her girlfriend gave her up for :pickle: . One may assume that Amber not only doesn't like :pickle: --but also resents it when "her" girl does like it. No question the amount of the loan is enough to make a big deal if it's done artfully, and odds are Amber is laying it on pretty thick. Ron's got some delicate damage control to work out, because he's got to address the issue of the loan without allowing Amber to keep it confrontational.
 
'Kool-Aid Larry said:
'Arizona Ron said:
My wife texted me yesterday:

Wife: Can you pick up <kid>? I want meet up with Amber.

Me: Sure.

I leave work, pick up my daughter and head home. We do the standard dinner/homework thing then we played a few math card games. “School tomorrow, tubby time and bed”.

After I get my daughter to bed, I hit the couch to catch up on the last episode of Homeland.

Wife gets in about 9:30, she says "can we talk?"

Me: "Sure, what’s up?"

Wife: "Amber told me you gave Angie $3k. Is that true?"

Me: "No"

Wife: "Why would she say such a random lie?"

Me: "I loaned Angie 3k"

Wife: "So Amber wasn’t lying"

Me: "I didn’t say Amber was lying, I said I didn’t give Angie 3k – I loaned her 3k. And tell Amber it’s really none of her ####ing business what I do with my money."

Wife: "Amber said you would be like this"

Me: "like what???" :confused:

Wife: "You make a lot more than me so you feel like you have more power and can do whatever you want. I wouldn’t give someone 3k without talking to you."

Me: "Loan! :rant: – also, if you want to loan someone 3k, just take it out of one of your checks. Oh wait, your checks don’t get to 3k let alone enough to loan it to someone else. So if you wanted to do it, you would HAVE to ask me. See the difference?"

Wife: "###hole"

She leaves pissed, goes up stairs.
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:lmao: :lmao:
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:lmao:

 
'Arizona Ron said:
'larry_boy_44 said:
Marriage isn't supposed to work like that and, long term, it can't work like that.
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Says who?
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Says everybody. This may work for now but eventually your wife is going to get tired of this and want a normal life. She'll find someone else and take half your money plus child support and alimony. If you were some poor dude I would get it but this is stupid (no offense GB) for a guy with money.
 
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'cstu said:
If you were some poor dude I would get it but this is stupid (no offense GB) for a guy with money.
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So you're calling Will Smith stupid?http://hollywoodlife.com/2011/08/25/jada-pinkett-smith-will-smith-open-marriage-marc-anthony/
 
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'Arizona Ron said:
TL;DR: A semi-hot asian girl that I've known just from being around the area for about 2 years or so is asking to borrow 3 racks from me (that's $3000, guy).Back story - I decided to go out to the bar early just go grab a beer before meeting up with my wife for dinner this past weekend and hit a spot that I frequent. I pulled up in front and parked literally in front of the bar. I walked in a saw this chick that I've chatted with a few times; she's asian, maybe an FBG 7; if you dig asian chicks maybe hotter, like a buddy of mine who swears this girl is a 10 (he's obviously not a FBG).Anyway, I go in and sit at the bar. She gets up from her seat and sits next to me and says, "didn't I see you in a different Lexus last weekend?" I said, "yes, that's my other car (wife's)". She says, "damn, it must be nice". I order a drink, ask if she wants one on me (of course she does).The bartender who I know pretty well says – "AZ, how's work going; did you hit the big score you were working on last time I saw you?" I said yes, bonus topped out this year, Christmas will be nice (and laughed). About another 30 mins or so went by, just shooting the #### with the bartender and this chick. The bartender starts to get busy with other guests; the chick leans into me and says, Chick: "Can I ask you for a favor? "Me: "Sure, what's up?"Chick: "I hate to bother you with this but do you think you could loan me 3,000? I swear I'll pay you back next month, it's just things are tight right now."Me: "I don't lend money sorry, it's never worked out for me in the past".Chick: "Well, I'm not other people and you were just bragging about how much money you have. I don't see the problem."Me: "Let me think about it"She gets up and goes to the bathroom a bit later; while she's gone, I say to the bartender "dude, this chick just asked to borrow 3 racks from me". The bartender says, "She's good for it, she's good people man; if I had it, I would have no problem loaning it to her". The chick comes back later; the topic didn't come up again until I got ready to leave – she gives me her number and asks me to reconsider and call her to let her know either way. She give me a long hug with a kiss as I'm going out the door.Do it?
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Have not read the updates, 1st time catching this thread. :thumbup: to AZRonYou're crazy if you loan her money being married. I don't loan my call girls money, I either give it or I don't, loans get complicated.
 
'Arizona Ron said:
My wife texted me yesterday:

Wife: Can you pick up <kid>? I want meet up with Amber.

Me: Sure.

I leave work, pick up my daughter and head home. We do the standard dinner/homework thing then we played a few math card games. “School tomorrow, tubby time and bed”.

After I get my daughter to bed, I hit the couch to catch up on the last episode of Homeland.

Wife gets in about 9:30, she says "can we talk?"

Me: "Sure, what’s up?"

Wife: "Amber told me you gave Angie $3k. Is that true?"

Me: "No"

Wife: "Why would she say such a random lie?"

Me: "I loaned Angie 3k"

Wife: "So Amber wasn’t lying"

Me: "I didn’t say Amber was lying, I said I didn’t give Angie 3k – I loaned her 3k. And tell Amber it’s really none of her ####ing business what I do with my money."

Wife: "Amber said you would be like this"

Me: "like what???" :confused:

Wife: "You make a lot more than me so you feel like you have more power and can do whatever you want. I wouldn’t give someone 3k without talking to you."

Me: "Loan! :rant: – also, if you want to loan someone 3k, just take it out of one of your checks. Oh wait, your checks don’t get to 3k let alone enough to loan it to someone else. So if you wanted to do it, you would HAVE to ask me. See the difference?"

Wife: "###hole"

She leaves pissed, goes up stairs. I sit on the couch for a bit, I feel like ####. I push play to restart Homeland; then I push stop...…#### this, I need a beer. I go the the restaurant where Angie works and have a seat at the bar. Order a beer and not to long someone walks up and puts their small arms around my back.

It’s Angie – "hey sweety, you’re here late. Long day?"

Me: "yes, kinda. Let me know when you have a minute to talk."

Angie: "We can talk now. I have no tables, just waiting for the manager to cash me out."

Me: "Amber made a big deal to <my wife> about me loaning you money. Why would Amber know that?"

Angie: "I know her and Jen don’t get along so I asked if she was looking for a roommate etc."

Me: "I get it but do me a favor, don’t tell anyone else. 3k is big deal to some people."

Angie: "I’m sorry I don’t want to cause trouble"

Me: "It’s no trouble at all."

Angie: "You want to hang out tonight?"

Me: "Neah, I’m tired. I just came out to have one then I’m heading home. Maybe tomorrow"

Angie: "ok I’ll text you tomorrow."

I go home, wife is already asleep so I just do the same.

Today I feel like I was a little too combative with my wife. I'm going to try to meet her for lunch to smooth things over.

Still never saw the end to Homeland.
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Those exchanges are the most important part of this...dude, what are you doing? Momentary lapse in reality? You can't talk to your wife like that unless you want it to be over which it sounds like you do. Either something really bad has to happen to you or you are getting a divorce. The bad would have to snap you out of this and short of knocking up the mistress I don't see much standing in your own way of yourself. Good luck AZ, always a fan.
 
Sounds like open marriages are just as susceptible to strain over money/trust issues as any other.

 
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OP asks for advise.

Overwhelming say don't do it.

OP ignores advise.

Things go to ####.

:popcorn:

What's next?

Is AR a woz alias?

 
OP asks for advise.

Overwhelming say don't do it.

OP ignores advise.

Things go to ####.

:popcorn:

What's next?

Is AR a woz alias?

 
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TL;DR I use Pawns to take back my Queen. Checkmate

Friday:

Angie texted me and wants to hang out; I said sure since my wife said she’ll be out for the night and my daughter is having a sleepover. We decide on the bar that has hip-hop night on Friday’s (I’m usually the blackest person there). I throw on my Andrew Marc bomber, blue jeans and wallabees .

I meet up with Angie at the bar, Jen showed up a little earlier and both were at our normal table when I arrived. “Hey Ron” (in unison), “hey ladies”. We were shooting the breeze for a bit about nothing when Lance and his girlfriend showed up, we exchange pleasantries and they join our table. At one point, I think all five of us were talking at once about absolutely nothing.

I glance over to the door and notice a chick walk in who I haven’t seen since the summer…IT’S CANDICE! (aside: Candice is about ~28, mixed Spanish and Italian. She came into a little money when a family member passed away a year or so ago. She decided to use the money to take off from work and go back to school fulltime to finish her MBA at Rice in Houston. Candice and my wife were madly in love with each other and if I ever thought she would run away with someone, it’s Candice. My wife literally cried when Candice went away to college. Candice is back in town for the holidays.)

I get up to greet Candice, exchange hellos and invite her to join our table. “Candice, you already know Lance and <Lance’s girlfriend> right? ...this is Angie and Jen – friends of mine. We’re chatting and drinking for a while when the server walks by, Lance says “where is the DJ?” No DJ tonight due to holidays – lame. About the same time, I notice my notification on my security system iPhone app go off. I open it and look on the living room camera – Wife, Amber and three other girls (two I recognize, one that I don’t – known later as Girl 1, Girl 2 and Girl 3) are there dancing in my living room.

Candice: “How’s Wife? Tell her to come out”

Jen: “She’s probably with Amber”

Candice: “Who’s Amber?”

Angie: “A sneaky conniving #####”

Jen: “Yeah, Ron you need to keep an eye on her”

Me: (acting clueless) “Really? Why? :confused:

Lance’s girlfriend: “Wait what?”

<Everyone leans in to Angie>

Angie: “Ron helped me out with my security deposit to get me moved into my place and Amber told Wife. Now Ron’s wife is pissed”.

Lance: “Wait, Ron…you gave Angie money without telling your wife?

Lance’s girlfriend: “No wonder she’s pissed”.

Me: "Loaned" :rant: (I shoot Angie the eye that says without speaking, “didn’t I say not to bring this up to other people?”)

Candice: “That doesn’t sound like Wife, Ron dropped 8k when we were all together in Atlantic City and Wife didn’t blink an eye. She said it’s his money, he can do what he wants with it.

Me: “Exactly”

Candice: “I don’t know Amber but it sounds like she needs to mind her own business”

Jen: “She’s a drama queen”

Candice: “I need to talk to my girl (Wife)”

Angie and Jen continue to talk trash about Amber, the whole group basically hates Amber now (I love it). :thumbup:

Me: “Well, there’s no DJ tonight, you guys want to go to my house? I’m only 10mins away, we can party there”

Everyone agrees to leave and a convoy of cars heads to my house. As we pull up to my house, I can hear music, load music. I wait for everyone to get parked and we all head into my house,

is banging loud as hell while my Wife, Amber and the other girls are dancing in the living room. Lance is right behind me as we all walk in and yells, “Hell yeah, it’s a party now!”I see Amber looking salty as hell, my wife doesn’t look that happy that we all showed up until Candice walks in – Wife: “OH MY GOD”, runs over and embraces Candice. Amber really looks like her ### is chapped now. Girl 1 and Girl 3 also know Candice – at this point we’re all grouped around Candice and Amber is the only one now sitting on the couch looking pissy.

I go say hi to everyone that was already there (even Amber who barely acknowledged me in my own ####ing house) as I’m walk through on the way to the kitchen. I grab a bunch of beers and hand them out to everyone with a free hand. Lance and I are off to the side now as the girls (except Amber ) are all talking about how great each other look; Lance says to me: “Ron, we need to hang out more”. I :lol: .

This goes on for a while then I see Amber walk up to my wife, I can’t hear what their saying but Amber is basically pulling at my wife’s arm. My Wife shoots Amber a look that says “don’t pull me”, looks back to give her total attention to Candice. Amber moped around a bit then she said loudly to my wife “I’m leaving”, Girl 2 “Me too”, Wife “Have a good night” and turns right back to Candice like she didn't really care. Amber and Girl 2 leave.

The party went on, I gave my wife her space and made a point not to give any of the other girls there too much of my attention. I just played host all night, made sure people had drinks and engaged in pointless conversation.

By the end of the night my wife, Candice, Girl 1 and Girl 3 crashed upstairs; Lance and his girlfriend left late. Jen passed out on the couch and Angie and I head to the couch in the basement for :football: :pickle: :sleep:

Saturday

I woke up early to clean up; by about 9:00am there was a line at my Keurig. Everyone was gone by 11:00 when my wife comes in the kitchen while I’m cleaning up.

Wife: “Do you want me to get <kid> or are you picking her up?”

Me: “I’ll get her and hey it’s great to have Candice back in town, right?”

Wife: “Yes, I’m glad you invited her over. Amber was pissed but whatever, I've known Candice forever. She’s been sending me crazy ### texted messages all night. I told she needs to back off a bit.

Me: “I’m sure you know how to handle her. Also, again I’m sorry for blacking out on you the other day. I just felt Amber was poking her nose in our business. I was wrong, I should have told you about loaning the money to Angie.”

Wife: “I really don’t care about the money; I was just shocked that Amber knew about it and I didn’t”

Me: “Amber seems like a pot stirrer”.

Wife: “I am going to cut Amber off until she chill out. I really don’t need the drama”.

Me: “How about we spend the next few days with just you, <kid> and me. No outside stress”

Wife: “Sounds good.” Hugs me.

Between Saturday and today, my wife as basically told Amber to stop calling/texting.

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This is so the opposite of anything I do in my life.

What does it mean when you told your wife that you were sorry for blacking out on her?

 
Reading this thread all at once has been like discovering a great TV show in Season 4 and watching Seasons 1-3 in like a week.

Now I want to fast forward to Season 5!

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