A few years ago my family and I moved several states away from any immediate family. We decided we didn't want to slave over a stove for a day and a half, eat for a half hour, then clean up for 2 hours.
We are going to eat at Ryans this year. No cooking, no clean up, and I still get to watch Cowboy game with no interruption.
I feel no shame or guilt. I'm sure I should though.