shadyridr
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I have a long time "friend". Lets call him Bob. Bob is a selfish #####. Has been as long as Ive known him. Only cares about himself and doesnt care how any of his decisions impact other people.
I have numerous examples of him not giving a ####. Over the years Ive basically stopped hanging out with Bob because of how selfish he is but he still gets roped into a few things among our circle of friends. Also, most people realize Bob is a selefish ##### too but still invite him for whatever reason.
So here's the latest example of what a selfish ##### Bob is...
We were invited to a bachelor party of a mutual friend of ours. Mutual friend (lets call him Tim) debated inviting Bob because of how he is but decided to invite him anyway. Attending this bachelor party requires an overnight stay at a hotel. Tim's friend Otis is the one planning the whole bachelor party. He mass texted everyone telling them the plans and Bob didnt respond until weeks later that he was in. So now with headcount in mind, Otis booked 3 rooms. The cost of the 3 rooms was divided by 12 people and include's Bob. Otis mass texted everyone the cost pp and asked everyone to confirm that they were staying (Otis can still cancel rooms until 24 hours prior to the event if people back out). A few people backed out, most people confirmed as is often the case with these things. What did Bob do? He never responded. 2 weeks have passed. I saw Bob last week and he asks me if I am staying over night and I said I am and he tells me he's still undecided. WTF? Does he not realize if he backs out now the cost will go up pp? Does he not think other people should know this going into the event? Heck if more people back out Otis might be able to cancel one of the rooms and everyone's cost would go down? No because he's selfish. And FYI Ive known Bob a really long time and he has ZERO intention of staying. He never wants to stay over night. So instead of just saying hes not staying, he will wait until day of event and basically just leave at the end of the night and drive all the way home leaving all of us to pick up the extra $ owed for the rooms.
*FYI names have been changed to protect the innocent and this has nothing to do with any FBGs.
I have numerous examples of him not giving a ####. Over the years Ive basically stopped hanging out with Bob because of how selfish he is but he still gets roped into a few things among our circle of friends. Also, most people realize Bob is a selefish ##### too but still invite him for whatever reason.
So here's the latest example of what a selfish ##### Bob is...
We were invited to a bachelor party of a mutual friend of ours. Mutual friend (lets call him Tim) debated inviting Bob because of how he is but decided to invite him anyway. Attending this bachelor party requires an overnight stay at a hotel. Tim's friend Otis is the one planning the whole bachelor party. He mass texted everyone telling them the plans and Bob didnt respond until weeks later that he was in. So now with headcount in mind, Otis booked 3 rooms. The cost of the 3 rooms was divided by 12 people and include's Bob. Otis mass texted everyone the cost pp and asked everyone to confirm that they were staying (Otis can still cancel rooms until 24 hours prior to the event if people back out). A few people backed out, most people confirmed as is often the case with these things. What did Bob do? He never responded. 2 weeks have passed. I saw Bob last week and he asks me if I am staying over night and I said I am and he tells me he's still undecided. WTF? Does he not realize if he backs out now the cost will go up pp? Does he not think other people should know this going into the event? Heck if more people back out Otis might be able to cancel one of the rooms and everyone's cost would go down? No because he's selfish. And FYI Ive known Bob a really long time and he has ZERO intention of staying. He never wants to stay over night. So instead of just saying hes not staying, he will wait until day of event and basically just leave at the end of the night and drive all the way home leaving all of us to pick up the extra $ owed for the rooms.
*FYI names have been changed to protect the innocent and this has nothing to do with any FBGs.
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sharing rooms with 4 dudes? 
