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  1. I just disagree with the whole big block party BBQ need for all that. Just casually say "the kids and I are planning to grill out dinner one of these and the kids should join us. All you need to bring is the wine!" (in a charming sarcastic way)
  2. Can't wait til he's telling us that she's like a house without gutters...
  3. Good chance it gets rained out.
  4. Before you leave in morning, just leave a set of new gutters at her doorstep for a good morning surprise!
  5. Find something going on with the outside of her house that needs a MAN to fix. Hell, even just make up that something was wrong. It's raining a lot lately?.....leave her a little note that when you were taking out the trash you noticed her front gutter was filling up with gunk so took care of it for her quick. Hope you're having a great week! Short, simple and sweet. Then action is on her. Scenarios: 1) no reply or ignores = she's not interested (just let it be) 2) she writes a reply note back = she wants to just be friends (just let it be) 3) she comes by in person to say thanks = she's curiously interested and comfortable approaching you. In this scenario, then just make that your quick first date...just be charming, make her laugh, be confident, make it clear you're single but just because you haven't met the right woman for you and your kids yet and overall just enjoying a full and exciting life (make her feel like she wants to be a part of that). No mention of wanting to go out on a date or anything like that. Just leave her with a good lasting impression of you and things will start to fall in place after that. It's all about making her feel comfortable and at ease around you right now. Once that hurdle is cleared, then just gradually up the flirting until things become obvious and then smooth sailing GB.
  6. Normally I agree, but tonight she looked like a regular ole plain jane. Tent dress and no makeup....put a little effort in.
  7. A girl just doesn't suddenly decide this...she's been thinking about it in her head for a while if she's really being serious about moving forward with it. She just "suddenly" mentioned it to you.
  8. And every time he is hit he acts like he just took a baseball bat to the stomach
  9. When I was 37, I had a 21 yr old waitress I met as a fun sex toy for a couple months and even that seemed strange to me. Not strange enough to abstain, of course. Those youngins' are nympho freaks.
  10. Still stand by original 7.5. She's the perfect mix between cute (7) and hot (8)....but trending up towards 8
  11. 7.5 (trending towards 8...and wouldn't fault anybody giving that) --- 8: One of the hotter women at the club, one of the hotter girls at school (upper class of hot women) 7: Cute girl at the club, in classes, at work, in apt building. Definitely cute, but not tops locally.
  12. So, I opened up the first 2 face shots and was like "uhhh, no". Then I opened up the third pic of the body in bra in panties and was like "woah, what the hell?!", had to recheck other two pics again to make sure it was the same girl. I have to assume for rating purposes that the body is maintained like that and it wasn't just a good snapshot in time. Now this is all science GB, so reporting it like it is... - Face (and knowing she's 6'1") = 4.5 5: Starting to be unattractive, but certain qualities work in her favor. Nothing major, but minor problems are more common 4: Not attractive. Major flaws start piling up (overweight, blemishes, etc.) - Body = 7.5 8: One of the hotter women at the club, one of the hotter girls at school (upper class of hot women) 7: Cute girl at the club, in classes, at work, in apt building. Definitely cute, but not tops locally. OVERALL: Above averages out to an offdee official 6 which I think is very appropriate, and she falls in line exactly with that rating's definition. 6: Fairly attractive, no major flaws but maybe minor ones ---- With all that said you are definitely overthinking this. You are in a slump and you have a great body being offered up on a platter. Move forward and use it to build up your confidence. Be very up front with her that you're just enjoying dating right now and not looking for anything will actually make her want you more. Rome wasn't built in a day GB, start small and dream big! Have fun!
  13. All the more reason to just swing for the fences. If you're attracted to her than there isn't much downside. Good dating practice, most likely some sex on the regular with a cute woman and will also up your confidence for all of your other women because this is one you will probably not ended up caring that much about. And the harsh reality is that by doing all of this she will want you even more!
  14. Do you like her and attracted to her or is this just more of practice for dating world again? My suggestion would be to invite her over to your place to hang out over a bottle of wine and some simple apps like cheese and crackers. This is an acceptable suggestion for a 3rd date and minimal cost to you. Up the flirtation leading up to the date and make a point at your place to be a bit more forward sexually. If success, than great! If she ends up being a prude or the vibe just ends up being strange than oh well, you tried, now you know...move on.