My younger brother is a alcholic. Has been living with me for the last year. This is the third time I've moved him in. This last time he was basically homeless. He is a 35 year old man-child who has been fired from nearly every job he's had for drinking. I realize that I have only be enabling his behavior, but I have always feared that if I didnt he would be end up dead. Our father died (drank himself to death when he was 14, I was 20) so I always felt like I needed to look out for him. Our mom is at her wits end and has all but written him off. He is moving to Costa Rica at th end of November with a buddy, and i feel like this has to be the point where I cut the chord and he either makes it or doesnt. thoughts?