Major
Footballguy
I had tiramisu for dessert followed by a double espresso. Not sure if that answers your question.
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Major
Footballguy
ChainsawU
Footballguy
Yo I just got tinder on my phone for the first time. I uploaded my pics, filled out a little personal info, and left/right swiped on like 60 different chicks.
I need help. I just need to know if I'm good, what to do next, and so on.. because all I know about this thing is what I've seen on sitcoms and crap.
I need help. I just need to know if I'm good, what to do next, and so on.. because all I know about this thing is what I've seen on sitcoms and crap.
mozzy84
Footballguy
Combo of 1&3. I'm thinking the last couple guys really were into it and she figures all guys love that.
Its been a couple weeks, did you let her have at it again?
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
ChainsawU
Footballguy
It has my name, job title (CFO), and then:
"Business school graduate, started my own .... company in Austin in 2015."
Thats it.
sbonomo
Footballguy
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
I personally like to include more "personality" but I suppose that's up to you and your style. Also never hurts to put something that can prompt some discussion (a question, quote, etc.).
I have accidentally "super liked" a couple of times too. Only once did they return the like, and I just quietly unmatched
I think the free version works fine. It should be good enough to get you started anyway. You can always upgrade later if you feel the need. 
McGarnicle
Footballguy
ChainsawU
Footballguy
I'm staying at my place downtown tonight and then my chick is coming over in the morning to exercise and eat brunch together and stuff. But in the meantime - when I'm by myself down there tonight - is this how it works.. do I just open the tinder on the phone at midnight and let the booty calls start coming in at like 2AM?
Major
Footballguy
Bumble's much better in terms of quality but not the immediate gratification you could get with Tinder. I stopped using Tinder b/c the quality went way down. It was glorious in say 2014.
Major
Footballguy
NotSmart
Footballguy
McGarnicle
Footballguy
I'd be all over Miranda.ChainsawU said:
Baloney Sandwich
Footballguy
knowledge dropper
Footballguy
Natalie is not that bad if she is the chick with glasses, but you can't risk she might be the red-headed Sloth from goonies or that she brings it with her.ChainsawU said:
ChainsawU
Footballguy
A personal trainer said, "How is your day going. Looking at your pics." And I was just like be careful with those pics girl those pics kinda sexy. And then not five minutes later a nutritional specialist wants to know how I am doing. So basically I'm taking to this like a duck takes to water and it's a good thing I know how to swim good because it looks like a tidal wave of ##### is headed my way.
Johnny Rock
Footballguy
Skipdog77
Footballguy
McGarnicle
Footballguy
mr. furley
Footballguy
Binky The Doormat
Footballguy
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Bored at work update to bump this thread....Date #3 (with aforementioned chick #1) in the books. Picked her up about 9 and we head to a little hole in the wall place that has pool tables and darts. There are 2 other people there besides the bartender and they would leave shortly, so we had the whole place to ourselves. She loads up the jukebox and tries to stump me on Name that Tune while we are shooting pool and having some beverages. Scored pretty big points with her when I guessed Got You Where I Want You.We close the place down at midnight and head back to take her home (I still had to drive a little over an hour back home). She's fairly drunkish, but I had slowed down since I knew I had a long drive coming up. I walked her to the door and we talked for a bit, then (hugged, of course) kissed for a little while. Told her I had to hit the road soon, but she insisted I come in for a few minutes so she could fix me up with some snacks for the road (a running joke between us), just had to be quiet because her kids were asleep. We chatted for a bit. Then she walked me out and we kissed more and she started grinding on me, which made it extremely difficult to leave. I might still be there this morning if her kids hadn't been home. Said goodbye and told her we should do it again very soon, which she agreed with. Next week could be epic. I'm running on 3 hours of sleep, but it was well worth it. Laughed more than I have in a long time and it was much needed.
So in the past several months, this chick and I kinda settled on the fact that we were basically best friends. Basic physical chemistry was good, but I'm just not sure full-on romantic chemistry was there. But we have literally talked almost every single day since we matched on April 3rd. We had 5 or 6 official dates, then kinda had the "chemistry" talk, but agreed that we both really loved each other's personalities, so we have kept in touch. I even drove over and helped her move to a new place about a month ago. Just a cool chick. So we hadn't gotten to hang out in a while since she moved and I've been busy with kids, etc. She text me Tuesday and asked if I was busy Wednesday night (yesterday), she was cooking a new recipe a friend had given her, and we could hang out at her new place and catch up. I could really use a night out of the house, so I get kids arranged for the evening and tell her I'm in. I drove over after work, and get there and her attractive BFF was there, and for a moment I thought this might be a "set me up with the BFF" covert op. But the BFF soon hugged me (
) and left us alone. We talk for a long time about all kinds of stuff, eat dinner, talk some more, sipping on drinks throughout the night. So it's about 1AM and I have a 1.5 hour drive so I tell her I should hit the road. We hugged (of course) and just kinda stood there listening to some music for a few minutes. Hugging turned into swaying. Swaying turned into slow dancing. Slow dancing brought on some grinding, and eventually we started kissing. (At this point, I'm letting her lead the show, as I didn't want to be the overly aggressive "friend" here, even though she had kinda been giving me some signals, like standing super close to me when we were in the kitchen, etc.) Things got handsy and we ended up on her bed, her without a stitch of clothing on. We didn't go all the way, due to her being a little drunk, and me unwilling to take advantage of her in that state, especially given our current "friendship" status, but let's just say a good time was had by all. Got back home at 5AM and running on 1 hour of sleep today and pretty much hating everything Would do it again in a heartbeat though, I definitely needed that night out. on other fronts....
---Dental hygienist and I have been out a few more times, but just hanging out as friends. I think she really likes me and I definitely like her and view her as probably the leader in the clubhouse for long term relationship material. She hasn't said a whole lot, but I just think she's scared to death (as much for anyone getting close again to her daughters (HS and middle school) because she has been burned badly twice (twice divorced, both were the guys' doing...confirmed from multiple sources, not just her). So I am keeping communication open there, texting once or twice a week and extending invites to hangout once every 2 or 3 weeks. She and her daughter went with my kids and I to the local college FB game last weekend and we had a great time. I'm still holding out hope for this one. I told her we need to go back to a Mexican place we went to on another outing, but this time we are both having margarita. Gotta get her talking.
---the chick I matched with on Match a while back: we've had communication here and there. I did meet her (and her 3yo) for coffee one morning, and it was strictly conversation, but it went well. She is gorgeous. She is in the final steps of getting divorced, so i'm not pushing the issueon this one. She's a single mom of 2 young ones and works from home, so along with the divorce, I think she just has lots of irons in the fire, and not much free time. I haven't heard from her in a couple of weeks, other than her commenting on a couple of my FB posts. I text her earlier this week and she replies that we are overdue for coffee. I said "Yes ma'am. agreed!" but I am letting her make the effort there. I made several attempts along the way that got thwarted, so if she wants to hang out with the Colonel, she's going to have to show some effort and availability.
---have since deactivated Match, as besides the aforementioned match, it was complete garbage in my area. Got a few other matches on Bumble, but conversation has been stagnant, so I get bored with that pretty quickly.
Joe T
Footballguy
FFA advice needed:
So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months or so. We have been dating long distance which is hard, but everything has been going well. She stays in a hotel for a week each month for work and I have been flying up and staying with her during parts of these weeks. And I'm leaving tonight to meet her there again for a few nights.
Last night, she called me after work and we talked for about 45 minutes. I told her I'd call her back before bed. So I call at around 9:30 her time and she is giggling and acting weird. I ask her if everything is okay and she says everything is great. I was getting the weird vibe someone was with her given how she was talking. It just seemed like someone else was there. After about a minute, she says she needs to go to the bathroom and she'll call me back. Well, no call back. I didn't call her either. But I did text about an hour later to ask what was going on. Then late night I texted her basically saying just forget it. Around 5 am, I start getting calls from her, but I don't bother to answer.
So today, via text I've been asking her what the hell happened and saying it sounded like she was with someone else. She claims she went down to the bar had too many drinks. When I called she went back up to the room intending to call me back but passed out. Have to be honest, I don't really believe her.
But, I'll let the FFA decide.
Anyway, I'm heading there tonight. Need advice on what to do / how to act.
TIA
So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months or so. We have been dating long distance which is hard, but everything has been going well. She stays in a hotel for a week each month for work and I have been flying up and staying with her during parts of these weeks. And I'm leaving tonight to meet her there again for a few nights.
Last night, she called me after work and we talked for about 45 minutes. I told her I'd call her back before bed. So I call at around 9:30 her time and she is giggling and acting weird. I ask her if everything is okay and she says everything is great. I was getting the weird vibe someone was with her given how she was talking. It just seemed like someone else was there. After about a minute, she says she needs to go to the bathroom and she'll call me back. Well, no call back. I didn't call her either. But I did text about an hour later to ask what was going on. Then late night I texted her basically saying just forget it. Around 5 am, I start getting calls from her, but I don't bother to answer.
So today, via text I've been asking her what the hell happened and saying it sounded like she was with someone else. She claims she went down to the bar had too many drinks. When I called she went back up to the room intending to call me back but passed out. Have to be honest, I don't really believe her.
But, I'll let the FFA decide.
Anyway, I'm heading there tonight. Need advice on what to do / how to act.
TIA
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
You guys are exclusive or no?
I'd guess that you might be able to tell if anything strange is going on with her, by her behavior. Get a couple of drinks in her and get her talking. Truth will come out. GL.
Hell no don't believe her. Long distance relationship only two months and then only a few days at a time when you do meet.
Enjoy it for what it is....two ships passing in the night. Put her on the list to ring up when you hit a dry spell locally.
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James Daulton
Footballguy
I can't remember, does Marissa still live across the street? If so, do you have much interaction with her at all?Bored at work update to bump this thread....
So in the past several months, this chick and I kinda settled on the fact that we were basically best friends. Basic physical chemistry was good, but I'm just not sure full-on romantic chemistry was there. But we have literally talked almost every single day since we matched on April 3rd. We had 5 or 6 official dates, then kinda had the "chemistry" talk, but agreed that we both really loved each other's personalities, so we have kept in touch. I even drove over and helped her move to a new place about a month ago. Just a cool chick. So we hadn't gotten to hang out in a while since she moved and I've been busy with kids, etc. She text me Tuesday and asked if I was busy Wednesday night (yesterday), she was cooking a new recipe a friend had given her, and we could hang out at her new place and catch up. I could really use a night out of the house, so I get kids arranged for the evening and tell her I'm in. I drove over after work, and get there and her attractive BFF was there, and for a moment I thought this might be a "set me up with the BFF" covert op. But the BFF soon hugged me (
on other fronts....
---Dental hygienist and I have been out a few more times, but just hanging out as friends. I think she really likes me and I definitely like her and view her as probably the leader in the clubhouse for long term relationship material. She hasn't said a whole lot, but I just think she's scared to death (as much for anyone getting close again to her daughters (HS and middle school) because she has been burned badly twice (twice divorced, both were the guys' doing...confirmed from multiple sources, not just her). So I am keeping communication open there, texting once or twice a week and extending invites to hangout once every 2 or 3 weeks. She and her daughter went with my kids and I to the local college FB game last weekend and we had a great time. I'm still holding out hope for this one. I told her we need to go back to a Mexican place we went to on another outing, but this time we are both having margarita. Gotta get her talking.
---the chick I matched with on Match a while back: we've had communication here and there. I did meet her (and her 3yo) for coffee one morning, and it was strictly conversation, but it went well. She is gorgeous. She is in the final steps of getting divorced, so i'm not pushing the issueon this one. She's a single mom of 2 young ones and works from home, so along with the divorce, I think she just has lots of irons in the fire, and not much free time. I haven't heard from her in a couple of weeks, other than her commenting on a couple of my FB posts. I text her earlier this week and she replies that we are overdue for coffee. I said "Yes ma'am. agreed!" but I am letting her make the effort there. I made several attempts along the way that got thwarted, so if she wants to hang out with the Colonel, she's going to have to show some effort and availability.
---have since deactivated Match, as besides the aforementioned match, it was complete garbage in my area. Got a few other matches on Bumble, but conversation has been stagnant, so I get bored with that pretty quickly.
And I'm assuming you're sporting cargo shorts and a Saints jersey at all of these dates?
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Next door, yes. And nope, basically none other than a wave in passing on our street.
And nope, but there haven't been any backyard BBQs either, so, stay tuned.
James Daulton
Footballguy
She back with the ex or something?Next door, yes. And nope, basically none other than a wave in passing on our street.
And nope, but there haven't been any backyard BBQs either, so, stay tuned.
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
More than I'd like to go into, but no, nothing with her ex. And there was no drama between us. Just nothingness.
James Daulton
Footballguy
It had to be the Saints gear then. Well, at least you stayed true to yourself.More than I'd like to go into, but no, nothing with her ex. And there was no drama between us. Just nothingness.
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
James Daulton
Footballguy
Ha! Next you'll expect us to believe you're not a conesoir of hugs.
chet
Footballguy
I am long removed from the dating pool but even I know it's not a good idea to refer to a possible love interest as "Ma'am". Not throwing rocks but just trying to help a brother out.Bored at work update to bump this thread....
So in the past several months, this chick and I kinda settled on the fact that we were basically best friends. Basic physical chemistry was good, but I'm just not sure full-on romantic chemistry was there. But we have literally talked almost every single day since we matched on April 3rd. We had 5 or 6 official dates, then kinda had the "chemistry" talk, but agreed that we both really loved each other's personalities, so we have kept in touch. I even drove over and helped her move to a new place about a month ago. Just a cool chick. So we hadn't gotten to hang out in a while since she moved and I've been busy with kids, etc. She text me Tuesday and asked if I was busy Wednesday night (yesterday), she was cooking a new recipe a friend had given her, and we could hang out at her new place and catch up. I could really use a night out of the house, so I get kids arranged for the evening and tell her I'm in. I drove over after work, and get there and her attractive BFF was there, and for a moment I thought this might be a "set me up with the BFF" covert op. But the BFF soon hugged me (
on other fronts....
---Dental hygienist and I have been out a few more times, but just hanging out as friends. I think she really likes me and I definitely like her and view her as probably the leader in the clubhouse for long term relationship material. She hasn't said a whole lot, but I just think she's scared to death (as much for anyone getting close again to her daughters (HS and middle school) because she has been burned badly twice (twice divorced, both were the guys' doing...confirmed from multiple sources, not just her). So I am keeping communication open there, texting once or twice a week and extending invites to hangout once every 2 or 3 weeks. She and her daughter went with my kids and I to the local college FB game last weekend and we had a great time. I'm still holding out hope for this one. I told her we need to go back to a Mexican place we went to on another outing, but this time we are both having margarita. Gotta get her talking.
---the chick I matched with on Match a while back: we've had communication here and there. I did meet her (and her 3yo) for coffee one morning, and it was strictly conversation, but it went well. She is gorgeous. She is in the final steps of getting divorced, so i'm not pushing the issueon this one. She's a single mom of 2 young ones and works from home, so along with the divorce, I think she just has lots of irons in the fire, and not much free time. I haven't heard from her in a couple of weeks, other than her commenting on a couple of my FB posts. I text her earlier this week and she replies that we are overdue for coffee. I said "Yes ma'am. agreed!" but I am letting her make the effort there. I made several attempts along the way that got thwarted, so if she wants to hang out with the Colonel, she's going to have to show some effort and availability.
---have since deactivated Match, as besides the aforementioned match, it was complete garbage in my area. Got a few other matches on Bumble, but conversation has been stagnant, so I get bored with that pretty quickly.
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Trust me, GB. Southern charm. Gets 'em every time. I believe this discussion has been hashed over in this thread or another.
chet
Footballguy
Rirruto
Footballguy
What's the consensus on having pics with pretty women on your profile? One female friend of mine told me she hates when a woman is obviously cut out of the pic, so I started wondering what if I include the chick (if she's good looking)? Does that hit some sort of competition nerve or anything?
Yeaaaaaah... I could have like 6 hot sisters! Am I the only one who thinks that would be funny?
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