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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (5 Viewers)
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the rover
Footballguy
lol//placeholder// i'm might be jumping into this game soon.
first relationship with ex wife - met in person - together for 12 years
second relationship with current girlfriend - met in person - together for 9 years (we are gracefully ending the relationship over the next month or two)
I just turned 50.How young can I go when searching for women on tinder, etc.?
James Daulton
Footballguy
1/2 + 7 bro.//placeholder// i'm might be jumping into this game soon.
first relationship with ex wife - met in person - together for 12 years
second relationship with current girlfriend - met in person - together for 9 years (we are gracefully ending the relationship over the next month or two)
I just turned 50.
Have fun out there.
There are more women out there with daddy issues than I ever thought possible. I’m 56 and get matched more with women under 35 than I do with women over 50.
Latest was a 20-year-old who contacted me on a Sunday morning. Regaled me about her hookup with the 63 yo owner of the restaurant she worked at the night before.
We we went out a few days later and it was instant smashville. The young ones have no inhibitions. Probably will go out again this week.
Latest was a 20-year-old who contacted me on a Sunday morning. Regaled me about her hookup with the 63 yo owner of the restaurant she worked at the night before.
We we went out a few days later and it was instant smashville. The young ones have no inhibitions. Probably will go out again this week.
urbanhack
Fight The Power!
ThaPenguin
Footballguy
A 56 year old saying "instant smashville". What a time to be alive.
dhockster
Footballguy
Angry Beavers
Footballguy
ALL of them!dhockster said:
Worm
slimy ninja
1. Download Tinder. Throw together a profile. Use your best judgment in making it casual and witty and use whatever pictures you have.dhockster said:
2. Once you have some conversations under your belt, refine your profile to what works, get your best pictures together, and go on bumble.
3. ?
4. Profit.
dhockster
Footballguy
EYLive
Footballguy
I think this formula is intended for younger guys that want to be "safe". But for older guys that aren't looking for a life partner, I don't see why he shouldn't go for that 18 year old. Sure it's creepy, but who cares what other people think.
Socrates11
Footballguy
irish eyes
Footballguy
Wow 18 , that's pretty creepy.Walking Boot said:
irish eyes
Footballguy
Beyond creepyEYLive said:
McGarnicle
Footballguy
Here’s the thing, Meemaw. It’s not 1890 anymore. It’s modern day, and women have sex before marriage, and I think we need to celebrate that. And I know in your day, she would be considered a whore. But now, women go out, and they have sex, and they get wild, and they take their tops off, and they have pictures taken of them. And we need to encourage that. That’s part of life!
NutterButter
Footballguy
For the guys that have been through this more with the goal of meeting someone beyond just a hookup, do you think its a bad idea to be actively pursuing two women at the same time? Wife and I finally separated 6 months ago and I've for some unknown reason decided to start talking to both women in the same period and now I'm planning dates with both of them.
NutterButter
Footballguy
Is that something you would bring up or more of if the question is posed to answer it truthfully?
NutterButter
Footballguy
I can see it. I've been out of the game for 20 years and to be honest I wasn't a star player back then. Hopefully it ends up the way it does in the trailer. Clear eyes, full hearts, can't lose.
Johnny Rock
Footballguy
We’re gonna need more of you single iDaters jazzing things up in this thread. It’s really hit a dry spell.
Haven't been in here for a while but it looks like it's time for me to jump in again and defend this type of thing from the "creepy" crowd. Totally worth it and absolutely nothing wrong with it.
I've got you beat. I was 45.
ProstheticRGK
Footballguy
Placeholder. Tinder is ridiculously easy, and surprisingly full of cool, down-to-earth women. Of course, i am devastatingly handsome, so that helps. I have 2 dates tomorrow.
John Bender
Footballguy
I'm now officially a sugar daddy. AMA. It's been fun and interesting and exactly what I need to get the hell away from relationships.
ProstheticRGK
Footballguy
John Bender
Footballguy
I'm 36. My Las Vegas girl is 22 (I travel to Vegas about once a month).
My local girl is 29
My Southeast/Florida/Atlanta girl is 42 (and looks better than the younger ones).
John Bender
Footballguy
Metting a new girl in Charleston next weekend. Shes 40, busty blonde, wants to be treated and taken care of, promises good sex. Will update here. If things work out, she'll accompany me to vegas in 3 weeks and we'll meet up with my girl there and all have some fun (Vegas girl is already in, just need to work on the South Carolina one).
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James Daulton
Footballguy
John Bender
Footballguy
Not much, I insist on a pay per meet. not an allowance. My best girl right now just want to travel, I pay, we have sex, she goes home, It's pretty easy
John Bender
Footballguy
but they all understand I have someone else in a different city. It gives me leverage to pay less.
NotSmart
Footballguy
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John Bender
Footballguy
no joke. life is soo much better.I thought you were just joking about being a sugar daddy.
WDIK2
Footballguy
Um, you sure that's being a sugar daddy? Sounds more like a client/escort relationship. Not judging. Your name is John after all.
Major
Footballguy
He's paying them to leave. Probably cheaper in the long run and less taxing emotionally than balancing a bunch of girls that all want a relationship.
Angry Beavers
Footballguy
A strict escort relationship would involve just $ for sechs. This is dating, but dating where both parties get what they want, besides a relationship. The one lady wants to travel. He pays for the trip and she provides companionship. In other cases, he probably pays for a nice meal, maybe a shopping trip or a show etc and they spend adult time together. There is no expectation on either party that the relationship is progressing towards exclusivity, marriage or moving in together etc.WDIK2 said:
If you think about it, either way, the guy is going to pay for it. Whether it is a strict cash transaction to a marriage where the dude supports the household and/or makes other contributions. I realize that there are relationships where the wife is the sole bread winner and the man stays at home without any responsibility, that seems incredibly rare. In fact, if anyone knows of a sugar mama looking for someone, send her my way, this working thing is getting old. Thanks!
WDIK2
Footballguy
No first hand knowledge, but I'm pretty sure you can hire escorts for dates and to attend events/travel with you. In most cases I'm sure escort is just a synonym for prostitute, but I don't believe the strict definition of the two is the same.
Again, not judging at all. Live like you wanna live.
Major
Footballguy
Yep. The GFE's are very popular. It's really semantics imo. Some women are comfortable calling themselves escorts or prostitutes while some would rather have the sugar baby title.No first hand knowledge, but I'm pretty sure you can hire escorts for dates and to attend events/travel with you. In most cases I'm sure escort is just a synonym for prostitute, but I don't believe the strict definition of the two is the same.
Again, not judging at all. Live like you wanna live.
John Bender
Footballguy
yeah I should clear up my situation. Im twice divorced at a young age. Im wealthy, I love to travel. So what I described last night sounds like prostitution and in many ways it is.
That said, I'm fine with it. I dont want a LTR at all. I travel, I pay for ####, I pay her, we go out for dinner, in between of travel she gives me lots of attention, sex is pretty much implied and is always mind blowing. I think somebody said earlier, I'm paying them to go away after. That's exactly it. I don't want a girlfriend, but when I travel, I want a date/compianion and somebody to have sex with.
Most sugar babys ask for an "allowance" so monthly you pay them a stipend. I have insisted on a pay per meet. You travel with me somewhere, I pay on the front, we act as a couple, have sex and then go out separate ways.
I dunno, it works for me You get way better looking women I don't want a reltationship and I have the money to cover it.
That said, I'm fine with it. I dont want a LTR at all. I travel, I pay for ####, I pay her, we go out for dinner, in between of travel she gives me lots of attention, sex is pretty much implied and is always mind blowing. I think somebody said earlier, I'm paying them to go away after. That's exactly it. I don't want a girlfriend, but when I travel, I want a date/compianion and somebody to have sex with.
Most sugar babys ask for an "allowance" so monthly you pay them a stipend. I have insisted on a pay per meet. You travel with me somewhere, I pay on the front, we act as a couple, have sex and then go out separate ways.
I dunno, it works for me You get way better looking women I don't want a reltationship and I have the money to cover it.
Major
Footballguy
Sounds like a great situation for all parties involved. I never understood the monthly allowance thing from the male perspective. Seems like it would make them complacent and eventually ungrateful. How much are you usually dropping on them during these outings/getaways?yeah I should clear up my situation. Im twice divorced at a young age. Im wealthy, I love to travel. So what I described last night sounds like prostitution and in many ways it is.
That said, I'm fine with it. I dont want a LTR at all. I travel, I pay for ####, I pay her, we go out for dinner, in between of travel she gives me lots of attention, sex is pretty much implied and is always mind blowing. I think somebody said earlier, I'm paying them to go away after. That's exactly it. I don't want a girlfriend, but when I travel, I want a date/compianion and somebody to have sex with.
Most sugar babys ask for an "allowance" so monthly you pay them a stipend. I have insisted on a pay per meet. You travel with me somewhere, I pay on the front, we act as a couple, have sex and then go out separate ways.
I dunno, it works for me You get way better looking women I don't want a reltationship and I have the money to cover it.
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Insoxicated
You’re all paying for it, guy
He’s just guaranteeing getting something for his dinner and drinks. Keep posting Bender
Apple Jack
Footballguy
:subscribe:
ETA: Assuming this women all work for themselves. The pimp construct turns my stomach.
ETA: Assuming this women all work for themselves. The pimp construct turns my stomach.
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Major
Footballguy
I'm interested in both worlds and often see the two colliding. The amount of sugar baby types that show up on my tinder/bumble feed has definitely peaked my interest. And don't think for a second a lot of these Instagram 'models' are paying for all these fabulous vacations with influencer money. There's normally a John Bender lurking in the background somewhere
John Bender
Footballguy
Of course. With my Vegas gal sometimes there is no sex at all. She gets dressed up we go drinking dancing eating and gambling. In many ways it's similar to prostitution. In many ways it is not. Clear as mud. Local gal, sometimes we just sit on the couch and eat take out and watch TV (we've genuinely built a really good friendship over the months, she is cool as hell, wasn't even looking for an "arrangement" but I offered to pay for the time she'd have to take off work to spend time with me). The southern gal is my travel companion more than anyone else. If I want to go to a foreign country (I LOVE to travel) she comes with me, I pay her for the days she'd be away from work (hairdresser I think) plus for the trip etc. Sex isn't necessarily guaranteed or expected on either side. You sort of set those types of ground rules up front with what you both expect and come to an agreement. (I dont want to have sex with a girl who finds me unattractive. If she does find me attractive (middle aged overweight whale) then we do it. If she doesn't then the arrangement doesn't last too long - if she doesn't like me, why would I bring her places and buy her stuff?
Last time I was with the Vegas girl I didn't even pay her. I got a great massage and old fashion, and gave her one in return. We both agreed that was mutually beneficial and enough. So again - clear as mud. To be fair I was wasted for most of the trip and probably couldn't perform anyway.
My last gal from the south/travel partner was also older. We went to Vegas a few times I paid for the trip bought her an expensive purse for her and her daughter (she didn't ask for it either, I just did it). Never gave her a dime otherwise. We had a wonderful time together, she just couldn't keep up with the travel.
Also, sex with older women waaaaaaaaaay better than with younger in my experience. They know what they're doing, have less boundaries, etc. Much prefer someone in her 40s to someone in her 20s
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GoBirds
Footballguy
Charleston is the best talent in one city I’ve seen when I partied there in my twenties.
Its amazing how much things have changed since my dating days ending 2006.....living vicariously through you.
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