John Bender
Footballguy
That sounds unlikely but I'll step out of here for the purposes of this thread. I had previously documented dating life here and on :e: extensively, thought it was in bounds
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John Bender
Footballguy
Nah I respect people and their opinions. It's totally fine and understandable where you're coming from. I brought something weird to this thread I think but don't really care. I thought it was unique enough to share for the men forever dating without being too non-jesus friendly. I know you're good people and I respect your opinion and I think you're half right.
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wilked
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Way to go eoman
cant imagine how much of a travesty it would be is this thread “got clipped”
Johnny Rock
Footballguy
Once the possibility of the thread getting the ax was brought up, although I hadn’t even thought of it that way, I agree that it’s possible since the crackdown. It’s sad that it needs to be a consideration. It would be a shame to lose the idating thread. Maybe start a new one JB with a fairly innocuous title so it’s separate? I concur that you should continue. Great stuff!
John Bender
Footballguy
Talking about sex without giving intimate or pornographic details among men dating shouldn't be something to be shamed or banned IMO. I couldn't believe at first eom was serious but realized now I might have f'd up the politics here with thread bannings. I'll think of how to proceed. I'm going to SC this weekend with one of my gals and would love to share. Let's see how the temperature in here goes in between now and when I return on Tuesday of next week. I wish e was still around.
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Good Posting Judge
Footballguy
John Bender
Footballguy
I'm spending every other month in Vegas these days. I can't really talk about much as far as "dating" but I did visit one of the legal (keyword: legal. Don't nuke the thread Joe) Brothels 2 weeks ago.
Went to Shari's Ranch. Was expensive but awesome.
Also enjoyed a night with an adult film star back on the strip in my apartment.
I wish e was still around.
ETA:The sugar baby didn't work out. I can't really tell the story here without line crossing either. This is why fbgs needs a discord group.
Went to Shari's Ranch. Was expensive but awesome.
Also enjoyed a night with an adult film star back on the strip in my apartment.
I wish e was still around.
ETA:The sugar baby didn't work out. I can't really tell the story here without line crossing either. This is why fbgs needs a discord group.
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Major
Footballguy
I'm sure you can share your experiences without getting too graphic. Dating habits have changed over the years and these women deserve our equal respect/attention regardless of occupation. Definitely need more details on the film star. PMs are open
John Bender
Footballguy
Doesn't take much. Takes about 2 minutes I set one up before for the stock trading guys but discord is a young man's app and it was difficult really keeping it moving.
I could try again I suppose for iDating/e related stuff.
Lutherman2112
Footballguy
I started iDating in March and I've gone through some of this thread (anyone bookmarked some pointers for profile ?). I do so much better in the real world, but my real world time is limited as I am taking care of my father. I'll keep the account going through winter and see what happens. I'm in WV and the dating pool is quite shallow...It gets better of I include Columbus or Akron/Canton, both less that 2 hours drive.
Here's a question: what if someone you know checks out your profile, doesn't leave a message, and doesn't block you? Is there some kind of etiquette for this? Would it be best to appraoch her in real life or send a message?
Anyway, just looking to stepping up my igame, which kinda sucks.
Here's a question: what if someone you know checks out your profile, doesn't leave a message, and doesn't block you? Is there some kind of etiquette for this? Would it be best to appraoch her in real life or send a message?
Anyway, just looking to stepping up my igame, which kinda sucks.
Lutherman2112
Footballguy
We know each other, we are both teachers, and she had my daughter in her class (phys ed, one year in middle school, now works in elementary I had attended). Last time we spoke was in June outside of a taco stand. It was a 20 minute conversation and It even occur to me to ask her out; figured she was with someone. We are friends on Facebook, she attends my church (if I attended), and lives less than a mile from me.
Rewind 35+ years: We were on the same swim team in our teens, attended the same junior high, and in high school we both served on student council. She's two years older than me, so we didn't run in the same circles at the time.
Seems like a no brainer, just don't want to be a creep.
Lutherman2112
Footballguy
Holy Bumble Batman!
I’m new to iDating. Been on Tinder for a month or so. Had one “date” that went very well, but not someone I’m interested in seeing again.
I signed up for Bumble 3-4 days ago. I have my son this weekend, so can’t meet anyone until Monday. I have girl #1 coming over Monday night, girl #2 coming over Tuesday. I have my son again Wed and Thurs, so those nights are out, but I have two others on the waiting list that want to meet too. Might try scheduling a double header, but idk if I can pull it off.
Also, the pandemic is really helping things. Since bars and restaurants are closed where I live, they’re just coming right over to my place.
I’m new to iDating. Been on Tinder for a month or so. Had one “date” that went very well, but not someone I’m interested in seeing again.
I signed up for Bumble 3-4 days ago. I have my son this weekend, so can’t meet anyone until Monday. I have girl #1 coming over Monday night, girl #2 coming over Tuesday. I have my son again Wed and Thurs, so those nights are out, but I have two others on the waiting list that want to meet too. Might try scheduling a double header, but idk if I can pull it off.
Also, the pandemic is really helping things. Since bars and restaurants are closed where I live, they’re just coming right over to my place.
offdee
Footballguy
We should fire this thread back up again. I’m about 7 months single and have been on the iDating train and living my best bachelor life.
- presently use: Hinge and Tinder
- used but weren’t worth it: Bumble, Match and eHarmony
Even when there are bad dates there are good stories that come out of it.
- One 27yr old who I wasn’t feeling accused me the next day of drugging her and her friend, WTF?!
- One 30 yr old D-list model/singer tried to make me her sugar daddy
- One 30 yr old totally hot Asian girl with huge fake bewbs wore these ridiculous looking fake eyelashes that I just couldn’t get past and ended it
- One 28 yr old girl on Tinder that I have a standing Friday night hookup with for the past 3 months
I’m 45 yrs old btw Life is good. Ask me anything you’re curious about.
- presently use: Hinge and Tinder
- used but weren’t worth it: Bumble, Match and eHarmony
Even when there are bad dates there are good stories that come out of it.
- One 27yr old who I wasn’t feeling accused me the next day of drugging her and her friend, WTF?!
- One 30 yr old D-list model/singer tried to make me her sugar daddy
- One 30 yr old totally hot Asian girl with huge fake bewbs wore these ridiculous looking fake eyelashes that I just couldn’t get past and ended it
- One 28 yr old girl on Tinder that I have a standing Friday night hookup with for the past 3 months
I’m 45 yrs old btw Life is good. Ask me anything you’re curious about.
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Zow
Footballguy
PinkydaPimp
Footballguy
Zow
Footballguy
Zow
Footballguy
Run.UH OH: Just got a message from one of the attorneys at my office's sister asking to meet me... this can't be good. What's the play here? The girl is pretty attractive and her sister isn't bad either.
I'm suppose to help her sister out with juvenile arraignments tomorrow - no clue what to do here.
Oh, you didn't run...
James Daulton
Footballguy
Haha Woz used to own this thread.
Zow
Footballguy
Just don't sleep with her...Update (this is long and maybe worth it's own thread):
Went out with the co-worker's sister met through plenty of fish last night. I was a little nervous going in, had received a rather disturbing voice message from here in the afternoon stating that since she hadn't heard from me in a day she thinks I'm dodging her and if I don't show up fine. I get it, think wtf because we settled things with times and locations just the day before but whatever. I call and confirm. I pick her up at about 9:30. The best way to describe her is "okay." She's thin, but not exactly toned. Face is okay as well. I'd rate her a 6/10 so I can't say I got the initial emotional jump when you see someone you're really into but whatever. The date goes fine for a couple hours. She's well educated (goes to grad school for counseling) and I challenge her by claiming that Freud's theory are wrong. We do this and other small talk for awhile. Not trying to brag her, but she's obviously into me as she kept touching me all over. She then starts to talk about how relationships work and that she needs a well educated and attractive guy. With some obsessive look she tells me I'm both those things and closes her eyes and waits for me to kiss her. I play along, but tell her no PDA for certain on the first date. She seems all right with it. I'm about 4 beers deep so I gotta piss. I excuse myself.
Now, this is where it gets really interesting. In the bathroom I check my phone because I felt it vibrate once or twice at the bar. I had 10 missed calls, a couple of voice mails, and 3-4 texts messages. I look and they're all from the ex. I check the texts and one reads, "I'm going to kill myself. Bye." With the alcohol in my system this hits me like a ton of bricks. I'm 95 percent certain she's not serious, but that 5 percent is enough to scare the #### out of me. The others basically say stuff along the lines that she hopes I'm enjoying my date and it's obvious she doesn't mean anything to me. It's pretty clear my ispy is still here(thanks man). I call and she asks me why I'm not answering the phone. I tell her where I am but push the question as to whether or not she's ok. She tells me she wasn't serious and only send it because she'd knew I'd call for sure. I tell her I'd call her later if I could.
I go back to my date. I decide not to play it off figuring she'll think I just took like a ten minute dump otherwise, so I tell her a friend sent me a troubling message. She seems all right with it but then continues being insanely forward. I suggest we get the check after we finish our drinks. She agrees. She pretty much forces me to hold her hair the entire way to my car. I take her home, which is only like two blocks from my place, and when we get there tells me we should have went to mine. Then she pretty much tries to molest me in the car. I kiss her a little bit but tell her she better go or else I'm going to take advantage of her (wasn't being serious, trying to "nicely" give her an excuse to get out - yeah that doesn't work). She agrees but keeps going at me and tells me she can't get out then whispers in my ear that she's "not a slut." I can't help it and start to laugh. I told her we'll wait until we go out again if we do. She then tells me that's a good idea and says, bright-eyed, we'll doing "something naughty on our second, third, and fourth dates..." At this point she seems to me like the psycho red-headed chick from Wedding Crashers.
Finally she gets out of the car. I head home. Call the ex to make sure she's okay and to tell her to not send me those texts if she's not serious because they honestly scared the #### out of me. She starts giving me the fifth degree on my date. I tell her to leave it alone. She cries, blames our situations on the mistakes I made in her relationships, and makes some hurtful insults and such. I choose not to say anything and just get off the phone. When I get off the phone I see the chick I was out with sent me three texts - the second one telling me she's on my street and to come find her (thankfully she doesn't know where I live).
Fast forward to this morning where I don't wake up until like noon. I have one text from the ex apologizing (ok whatever) and like 2 texts from the chick last night thanking me for a great time (yeah, I got the picture you had a wonderful time when you tried to throw yourself at me) and a phone message asking me to meet her at the dogpark. I call her and tell her I have somewhere to be at 1 o'clock so I can't do anything today, but she pushes that we have time if I hurry. I tell her I can't. She asks me to call her later. Wow.
I wish I could make this #### up. Hopefully this is the low end of my idating experience because right now Woz =
Wait, you did, didn't you?
Runkle
Footballguy
Yeah it's pretty crazy out there if you manage it right. I'm currently involved with 5 women but I kinda had to put the 5th one on hold because it got to be too much. 3 in their 20s, 1 in her 30s, 1 just a few years younger than me at 41. I'm 44.
I'd say based on the last 3-5-ish years, I'm getting teh secks on the first date 50% of the time, which seems crazy to me. I met one girl for a first-meet coffee at a Starbucks, we were sitting outside and twenty minutes in her hand was all the way up the leg of my shorts... it's a scene out there.
I'd say based on the last 3-5-ish years, I'm getting teh secks on the first date 50% of the time, which seems crazy to me. I met one girl for a first-meet coffee at a Starbucks, we were sitting outside and twenty minutes in her hand was all the way up the leg of my shorts... it's a scene out there.
Zow
Footballguy
Craziest thing read so far...First of all, I'm insulted you think I play softball. And so far nothing today, but I'm sure like yesterday I'll get a text right after I make this post. Won't hear from the the ex though. She only contacts me when she's drunk, knows I'm on a date (ispy =), or needs money for some bill I owe her.
rockaction
Footballguy
So much wisdom about to come from Zow for Woz. Can't wait.
I wasn't here for Woz so I never got to sit in judgment of him or empathize with him, depending on mood (and that's all it is). This could be interesting.
I wasn't here for Woz so I never got to sit in judgment of him or empathize with him, depending on mood (and that's all it is). This could be interesting.
Zow
Footballguy
offdee
Footballguy
Per @PinkydaPimp request of more detail on this one...
Met this girl on Hinge and chatted for a bit and then it just kind of died down. About a week later I get a Snapchat from her with a picture of a brunette with a glass of wine in her hand. I reply saying "sooo, I know Katrina is Blonde, who is this? She replies that it's her bestie and they are out a downtown restaurant having dinner. I had lunch with a buddy so was dressed and asked if that was an invitation to meet them out and she confirmed, so I said what the hell.
As I was on my way this girl wrote saying how nervous she was and not sure if I should still meet up and I told her that I'm a chill guy and if we don't click than no big deal, we'll just have a drink and be on our way. I get there and she's all awkward and fidgety and definitely buzzed from drinks. I knew as soon as I saw her that I wasn't attracted and wasn't gonna go anywhere but was still gonna be a nice guy. Very pretty face, but body not up to par for me. She was having shots and making it known she was attracted to me but I kind of pushed it off saying our age difference was too much, blah, blah, blah (it wasn't too much but a good excuse to let her down).
About 40 mins into meeting up with them her and her friend wanted to go to a different bar across the street and asked me to go with them so figured why not. We got there and I bought them both a drink to be a nice guy. After about 30 mins I was over it so called an Uber and told her I was heading home. You could tell she was surprised and ego hit a bit and as I said goodbye to her friend she looked back at Katrina in a look of "he's not going home with you?!?!".
Here was our text exchange verbatim after that:
Saturday night (11:45pm)
Katrina: Hey lol. Are you home safely?
offdee: Yep, home all safe and sound. Hope you're home safe too.
Katrina: Not yet, soon. Glad you're safe.
offdee: Sorry there wasn't a connection there for me tonight :(
Katrina: Okay lol
Sunday night (5:41pm)
Katrina: Yeah, I didn't really feel a connection either. Especially when you tried to drug my friend and I.
offdee: Uhhhhhhh excuse me?!?! Way out of line
** No Katrina replies after that**
What I was gonna write if she kept engaging…. Why would I drug you and then leave? That’s not really how that works.
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Major
Footballguy
Why would someone "drug" a girl and then bounce before they take effect? Women, even offdee 3s and 4s, don't handle rejection well and it's gotten even worse with the false sense of attraction these apps give women. Maybe invite her over on Thanksgiving for an extra dose of tryptophan?
offdee
Footballguy
Lol, exactly. I edited my post with a final line basically saying that. I’d be a pretty idiotic drugger if that was my master plan.
offdee
Footballguy
If anybody curious about this one, check our her Instagram: maria_pusan09
Her body was unbelievable. Could set a drink on her rear while she was standing up. Had to be fake.
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Major
Footballguy
I've grown tired of the iDating process lately. It's good if you're in another city or traveling but I find it easier to just meet them in person instead of the long drawn out process of swiping, messaging, setting up a date, etc. If they don't ghost and you eventually get to see them in person, you're often disappointed with all the filters out there. I find it a better use of time to meet through friends or approaching at events, bars, etc.
Major
Footballguy
offdee
Footballguy
Yeah I go back and forth on that. Because iDating is so prevalent and just an accepted means of dating it seems like whenever I'm out and about around here (MKE) that the good ones are always with a guy on a date. It's very rare I see a girl in the wild that I'd even want to approach to be honest. At least with iDating it gives you access to women I would likely never cross paths with otherwise.
Zow
Footballguy
Yeah that sounds like some crazy insecurity - mainly just justifying in her head why Offdee declined to hit the softball she tossed.
offdee
Footballguy
Not married but was in a 7 year relationship. Quarantine got us….we just realized in that period we like to live life differently. She has 3 kids and we all lived together for 4 yrs so made the transition tough. Much slower pace of life now (with no kids) and enjoying it.
Plus I plan to be married and able to do more than 6 pullups when I'm thirty so what's your point. 
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