She takes Paxil for anxiety issues. This has been going on far longer though. We used to have an amazing sex life. Several times a day, and week. The last 5 years, it has slowed to nothing. I've taken it personally, she insists that it's not me, but she has no desire for sex any longer. A man in his 30's needs sex. This can't go on.
Patrick, you're a good guy, you add to the FFA, but buddy you need a good hard swift kick in the nads here. You are writing what the problem is. A married adult that has no desire for sex needs professional help 1st and foremost. Perhaps marriage counseling to include both of you but I would actually make it non optional that she go seek some professional help. The anxiet issues...what did they take 50 years ago? My issue is anxiety is such a blanket term for so many things that you wonder how people ever got over stuff before the drug companies solved everyone's problems.
Oh and let's look at the side effects of Paxil shall we? I'm betting low sex drive is in the top 5...let's look.
Side effects for Paxil include...Anxiety; blurred vision; constipation;
decreased sexual desire or ability; diarrhea; dizziness; drowsiness; dry mouth; gas; increased sweating; increased urination; loss of appetite; nausea; nervousness; numbness or tingling of the skin; stomach upset; trouble concentrating; trouble sleeping; weakness; yawning
So she's tired, constipated, thirsty, gassy, and has a built in low sex drive to boot...I'm sure she is running to bed to have sex with you.