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Would you tell your brother-in-law that his wife

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What does your wife want to do? Keep the secret and save her sister?Also, not that it excuses your sister-in-law but was she tanked at the time? Was your buddy flirting or hitting on her or asking for the picks, egging on the texts?

My wife is pissed. I don't know if alcohol was involved or not. It's possible, but not an excuse for that kind of crap. I wish I could post the texts here. It would read something like this: #### #### ##### ### #### #### ##### #### ##### ####### ##### ####### etc. you get the idea. I read two pages worth.

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You already did the damage by telling your wife, might as well tell the dude too.

Is it damage?? Put yourself in his shoes. I would hope that you would want to be told if you were in his situation.
Damage to yourself. Your buddy put you in a crappy position. However, since you told your wife, there is bound to be drama in her family eventually. Might as well tell the BIL yourself and just get things moving along.
Yeah, I'm thinking the same thing. The cat is out of the bag.

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Were you at the wedding? Did your buddy send her a Farve shot?

So many questions.

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I'm not kidding. What would you do?? There were several inappropriate texts exchanged as well. Serious #### here.

I'm not kidding either. Post the ####### pics so we can decide.
:lmao:

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How did u or Ur wife see the texts. Need a lil more idea of the text accompanying the ####.

This guy is a friend of mine. He's been divorced for several years. My SIL has been married to her husband for 17 years. She is an attractive woman. I read the texts and saw the picture after he insisted that he had something to show me. Needless to say, I was shocked. It is the real deal.I really can't elaborate on the texts here, too graphic.
tryJust straight pounding or some assplay involved?

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

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Sister in law is an idiot for sending the texts. Your buddy is an even bigger idiot for showing them to you. And you're an idiot for telling your wife about it.

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Seriously though, you need to or the wife needs to confront the sister and have her tell the husband.

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The shark move was not to tell anyone. Then when you have the opportunity to talk to SIL discretely mention those "nice pictures you were texting at the wedding.... Really nice. ;)". See how she reacts and responds.

But now you told, I got nothing for you. :shrug:

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Let me see if I understand this.

Your GB received racy pix and texts from your wife's sister. He showed them to you. You told your wife about them. Now you want to tell the husband?

How close are you to the husband?

Personally, since you let the cat out of the bag, I'd leave this up to your wife, since it is her sister. I'd steer clear.

And your GB shouldn't have shown you the pix/txts in the first place.

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Other than stating the obvious "MYOB", why do you care about this guy? You're married to this woman's sister so like it or not you should be on her side, even if she's being a whore. There's no upside to turning her against you.

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Personally, since you let the cat out of the bag, I'd leave this up to your wife, since it is her sister. I'd steer clear.And your GB shouldn't have shown you the pix/txts in the first place.

Agree with the first... it's on your wife now.Disagree with the second... If my GB gets pics of my SILs boobs and doesn't show me, he's not my GB.

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

terrible advice

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Sounds like you are posting here...and you will keep responding until you hear the response you want - namely, that you want to insert yourself into the drama.

And don't tell me you are already inserted into the drama... you have already tried to insert yourself once by telling your wife, she didn't take the bait, now you are looking for reinforcement from message board strangers to give you the ok to raise the drama bar.

You told your wife (already further than I would have taken it), now leave it alone. She is in a much better position to decide what to do

Or perhaps this is all a fishing trip. Either way...

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Sister in law is an idiot for sending the texts. Your buddy is an even bigger idiot for showing them to you. And you're an idiot for telling your wife about it.

:goodposting: For all you know your SIL and her husband get off on this sort of thing. Their marriage, not yours. I'd stay out of it Pretty sure you know that's the right answer, but you've already told your wife and popped the top on this one. Once you pop you can't stop

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

terrible advice
Right? He should just finish in her rather than going all pornstar for the facial

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It's up to your wife to let her know (or not) at this point.

MYOF'B

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Tell him.

At the very least it's more entertaining for us. If you tell him today, it will make for some good Friday thread TM reading. TIA

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

terrible advice
Right? He should just finish in her rather than going all pornstar for the facial
Personally that money advice; you don't want to knock her up.

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

Go on.....

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I'd say you did right in telling your wife. What she wants to tell her sister and/or the husband is up to her. It's really not your deal.

Now, about those pics...

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

and you're married to this woman's sister? you lucky bastage!! :excited:

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You absolutely need to tell him. Shoot him an email and post his reply here. Keep it short:

"Dude, my gut tells me to not get involved but you need to know -I'd want to know if it were me... Anyway, a friend of mine got some very flirty texts from ###### last week. You should talk to her."

Yeah I agree. Not that simple though. The texts were far more than flirty. one snippet: she asked to see his ####, and wanted to have it up in her. Said when he was about to cum, that she wanted him to pull out, and put it in her mouth. Is that enough for you guys? 2 pages of this ####!

Can I get that number?

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Tell your husband to get on here so we can give him advice.. you are most obviously a chick...

edit to add:

Did you masturbate after reading the texts??

More importantly...did you feel ashamed??

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Do I understand the situation right? Your SIL sent these texts/pictures to a friend of yours, who turned around and showed you the photos? What's this friend of yours got to say about it? If he's encouraging it or taking it past pictures, seems like you "friend" needs a talking to first and should be discouraging this activity knowing that she's married.

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Your first mistake was in telling your wife. Before then you could have told your GB - Thanks for showing me, now this conversation never happened.

Now that you told your wife, keep your mouth shut and let it all play out however it is supposed to. If your BIL and SIL get divorced, you will still deal with SIL at your family functions and will not see the BIL very often it at all. For all you know, the BIL knows is wife is out screwing around and doesn't care cause he is out messing around on her as well.

Snitches get Stitches.........

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Do you plan to stay married to your wife?

Does your wife plan to stay related to her sister?

If the answer to both of these questions is yes, you need to keep quiet.

What if you tell him and he leaves your SIL? Might not be a lot of fun sharing Thanksgiving dinner with her.

What if you tell him and he somehow works it out with his wife? Do you think he's going to think of you as the guy who saved his marriage, or the guy who knows he was getting two-timed and has seen his wife's dirty texts and pics?

Way more downside in telling him than upside.

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Isnt the OP the one that started the thread about not getting any grex from his wife that ultimately became Bogart's divorce thread where we saw some blogger named atoll or something come in and talk about laying tile brohans?

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Sister in law is an idiot for sending the texts. Your buddy is an even bigger idiot for showing them to you. And you're an idiot for telling your wife about it.

:goodposting: The Idiotic Perfect Storm

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Isnt the OP the one that started the thread about not getting any grex from his wife that ultimately became Bogart's divorce thread where we saw some blogger named atoll or something come in and talk about laying tile brohans?

He's also the same guy who jerked it in his daughter's bed and left behind his crusty underwear for her to find.

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Do you plan to stay married to your wife?Does your wife plan to stay related to her sister?If the answer to both of these questions is yes, you need to keep quiet. What if you tell him and he leaves your SIL? Might not be a lot of fun sharing Thanksgiving dinner with her.What if you tell him and he somehow works it out with his wife? Do you think he's going to think of you as the guy who saved his marriage, or the guy who knows he was getting two-timed and has seen his wife's dirty texts and pics?Way more downside in telling him than upside.

:goodposting: I don't see any upside in getting involved in this.

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How tight are you with your wife? Type of thing you could talk to her about rationally without her immediately flipping out and making a scene?

:goodposting: If it is the wife's sister's husband, you say NOTHING!But you do tell your wife that her sister's behavior is inappropriate if you feel it is such and even disconnect yourself from her if necessary.But you can't tell your wife's sister's husband something like that without messing up your relationship with your wife.

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