Bull Dozier
Footballguy
I agree with this as well. My kids only have one childhood. I want them to have a good one, and make great memories. I probably spend more money on them than I should based on my income and saving rates, but I also want to reward them for their hard work. They have one job, in my opinion, and that is school. My college freshman made the dean's list. Both my middle school boys are on the A honor roll. They chip in and work around the house as well. Working that hard, AND having to go play kick the can in the streets to entertain themselves, AND never go anywhere over the summer would be a miserable childhood. I wouldn't want to put them through that.So your grandparents scrimped when they were young and had a young family to share the good life with, but now that they're alone they're living high on the hog?
I'd prefer to make some fantastic memories with my young wife and kids growing up and living a little less extravagantly when I'm older. Who needs quarterly mega vacations when you're 70? How about bi-yearly and use some of that money to take an annual mega vacation with your kids when you're younger?
I'll sacrifice the extravagent retirement vacations for some experiences while the kids are younger. I'll have enough to retire to not have to worry about having a roof over my head, food on the table, and some extra fun money. If I'm healthy enough that I want more out of life, I have no problem finding some part time job that would provide me with some extra cash. If I'm not healthy enough to still be working, I'm probably not healthy enough to be flying to Europe and hiking the alps either.