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I'd crawl if I had to. Thanks!I was going to bump and see if you were able to do this this weekend! Best to you.
I'd crawl if I had to. Thanks!I was going to bump and see if you were able to do this this weekend! Best to you.
I find myself there at times. Especially around anniversaries of some difficult times in my life.Found myself thinking about what I would write in a note last night
Didn't vote for Trump but this is WAY out of line.Always hate to see this thread bumped. I worry more about suicides now that Trump is the new president.
8 transgender youth have taken their lives since...the event. Another is on life support. My heart just broke. Please be kind to each other. It's tempting to crawl into a hole and lick our wounds. Call a friend right now. You have no idea how much your voice might help right at this moment. If you can, suicide prevention hotlines need support now. Let's keep being human together.
How many of you Trump voters are pro-life? What about their lives? You think you have nothing to do with their deaths? You ignored it when we told you he was a bigot. You voted for him anyway. Reflect on that, and remember the fallen. You have no idea what it's like for these beautiful souls, just trying to be accepted for who they are.
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What Bulls**t.Always hate to see this thread bumped. I worry more about suicides now that Trump is the new president.
8 transgender youth have taken their lives since...the event. Another is on life support. My heart just broke. Please be kind to each other. It's tempting to crawl into a hole and lick our wounds. Call a friend right now. You have no idea how much your voice might help right at this moment. If you can, suicide prevention hotlines need support now. Let's keep being human together.
How many of you Trump voters are pro-life? What about their lives? You think you have nothing to do with their deaths? You ignored it when we told you he was a bigot. You voted for him anyway. Reflect on that, and remember the fallen. You have no idea what it's like for these beautiful souls, just trying to be accepted for who they are.
We all are entitled to our opinions..Didn't vote for Trump but this is WAY out of line.
Blaming the death of a person on another because of the way they voted in a presidential election is ridiculous. But if it makes you feel better go for it...We all are entitled to our opinions..
My opinion is that you are deplorable .We all are entitled to our opinions..
sad that people feel the need to drag partisan bs around with them into threads that should have nothing to do with it.Feels like the whole country is losing their minds right now. It's getting difficult to consume any media whatsoever about current events, this forum included.
There was an avalanche of media about Trump's narcissism and unfitness to be president, and the dangers he would pose. But there was also such a slim chance of him winning that public anxiety was at a minimum. Now that it's happened, it's going to be extremely difficult for many people to deal with the fear and despair. There's a perception that he could fly into a rage over something trivial and start a nuclear war. Someone's opinion of that perception being valid or ludicrous is a partisan question, but the mental health crisis is real.sad that people feel the need to drag partisan bs around with them into threads that should have nothing to do with it.
I get it. prop 64. sure... rub it in our NY faces.I apologise and actually didn't mean the last part. Emotions are high, esp in Cali..
Lol. Yeah. I think more of us are going to be smoking the weed! I'm looking at edibiles myself now.I get it. prop 64. sure... rub it in our NY faces.
You got it. good decision to check in.Just a note, won't be around for a while. Scared myself last night and I don't want to be alone right now. SO I am checking myself into the local Behavioral Hospital today to get help.
good thoughts and prayers will be greatly appreciated.
so sorry you're going through this rough time, gb... please let me/us know if there's anything we can do here for you. anything at all. and don't forget to PM shuke.Just a note, won't be around for a while. Scared myself last night and I don't want to be alone right now. SO I am checking myself into the local Behavioral Hospital today to get help.
good thoughts and prayers will be greatly appreciated.
I just want to echo the thoughts that others have expressed here. Making this move took great courage, it's a lot easier to hide and hope things get better than to be proactive and seek help. Please keep us posted, you're gonna come out on the other side of this.Just a note, won't be around for a while. Scared myself last night and I don't want to be alone right now. SO I am checking myself into the local Behavioral Hospital today to get help.
good thoughts and prayers will be greatly appreciated.
Good call getting help. We'll be here when you get back. Good luck and do the hard work - you deserve the time to do it.Just a note, won't be around for a while. Scared myself last night and I don't want to be alone right now. SO I am checking myself into the local Behavioral Hospital today to get help.
good thoughts and prayers will be greatly appreciated.
I've been struggling with my own thoughts on the subject. Is it normal to have regular suicidal thoughts but at the same time knowing you'll never go through with them?1. Definite thoughts and prayers to you BadMojo. I'm so glad you are getting help. Keep up the good fight!
2. I've been dealing with a suicidal family member as of late. This person has suicidal thoughts on a regular basis, and admitted to a timeline of when to do it many years down the road. (When their youngest child finishes high school). They've been under the care of a psychiatrist, but is in the process of getting a new one due to the lack of success in treatment. This sucks.
I'd say you went through a pretty extreme trauma which might knock your compass sideways. Have you been talking to anyone professionally?I've been struggling with my own thoughts on the subject. Is it normal to have regular suicidal thoughts but at the same time knowing you'll never go through with them?
Doesn't hurt to go talk to somebody. I would consider it.I've been struggling with my own thoughts on the subject. Is it normal to have regular suicidal thoughts but at the same time knowing you'll never go through with them?
I think so and have been there (recently and since childhood). There's no way I'd actually do it, couldn't imagine leaving my sons without a dad. But like you, the thought does creep in every so often. I think it's fairly common but it's best to have a support network.I've been struggling with my own thoughts on the subject. Is it normal to have regular suicidal thoughts but at the same time knowing you'll never go through with them?
Exercise, video games, joined the board of a non-profit for her genetic condition, and volunteered to manage my son's little league team. Those are my distractions but the thoughts do creep in regularly. I have not talked to anybody professionally. I just dont know how they are going to help but that could be my own stubborness. I asked my wife if she wanted to goto a support group with me but she has no desire so either I go alone, drag her with me, or dont go. Its very frustrating when nobody understands the thoughts in my head including my wife.I think so and have been there (recently and since childhood). There's no way I'd actually do it, couldn't imagine leaving my sons without a dad. But like you, the thought does creep in every so often. I think it's fairly common but it's best to have a support network.
You know the times the thought doesn't come in? When I'm doing something for other people. So that's my therapy. Also while exercising, that works too.
Understood. At the least they can help by giving an outlet. Recommend going to one yourself and assess after giving it a try.Exercise, video games, joined the board of a non-profit for her genetic condition, and volunteered to manage my son's little league team. Those are my distractions but the thoughts do creep in regularly. I have not talked to anybody professionally. I just dont know how they are going to help but that could be my own stubborness. I asked my wife if she wanted to goto a support group with me but she has no desire so either I go alone, drag her with me, or dont go. Its very frustrating when nobody understands the thoughts in my head including my wife.
That's precisely why you should talk to a professional. Highly recommend it.Exercise, video games, joined the board of a non-profit for her genetic condition, and volunteered to manage my son's little league team. Those are my distractions but the thoughts do creep in regularly. I have not talked to anybody professionally. I just dont know how they are going to help but that could be my own stubborness. I asked my wife if she wanted to goto a support group with me but she has no desire so either I go alone, drag her with me, or dont go. Its very frustrating when nobody understands the thoughts in my head including my wife.
I would think so. Might want to talk to someone..no need to mention suicidal thoughts but maybe speak a little about depression.I've been struggling with my own thoughts on the subject. Is it normal to have regular suicidal thoughts but at the same time knowing you'll never go through with them?
You just gotta remind yourself that a lot of that's physical - indigestion of the id, sciatica of the soul. As i've said in this thread before, depression imitates the physical mechanism within us for dealing with starvation. It shuts down, makes every effort feel useless because it burns calories when there is nothing available to replace them with. Pain, grief starves the heart, so to speak. It's physical, not moral, not your fault any more than gas is, none of that - there is no need to take it personally. You can win over this by remembering it's the same as a cramp - it will pass, you can treat it, can take measures to make it happen less. It only harms the next moment and the moment after that if you let it. Again, GL -I know this might sound stupid and doesnt belong in this thread but we're talking so please indulge me. I find my depression creeping in places I never would have imagined. Take the NCAA tournament for example. For the last 20 years of my life I so looked forward to this time. Every year I would take the Thu and Fri off, fill out numerous brackets, scour scouting reports, and try and watch every game. This year? Zero interest. I had no desire to take today or tomorrow off. I didnt fill out a single bracket. Not even sure Ill watch a game. It just brings me no joy. Few things do. Except my son and my nephews and nieces. I wish something brought me joy again.
It is called growing up and realizing that there are many many things that are more important than sports.I know this might sound stupid and doesnt belong in this thread but we're talking so please indulge me. I find my depression creeping in places I never would have imagined. Take the NCAA tournament for example. For the last 20 years of my life I so looked forward to this time. Every year I would take the Thu and Fri off, fill out numerous brackets, scour scouting reports, and try and watch every game. This year? Zero interest. I had no desire to take today or tomorrow off. I didnt fill out a single bracket. Not even sure Ill watch a game. It just brings me no joy. Few things do. Except my son and my nephews and nieces. I wish something brought me joy again.
hey gb... I feel like therapy or counseling is a fantastic outlet- wish I could afford to do it regularly... or even at all.shadyridr said:Exercise, video games, joined the board of a non-profit for her genetic condition, and volunteered to manage my son's little league team. Those are my distractions but the thoughts do creep in regularly. I have not talked to anybody professionally. I just dont know how they are going to help but that could be my own stubborness. I asked my wife if she wanted to goto a support group with me but she has no desire so either I go alone, drag her with me, or dont go. Its very frustrating when nobody understands the thoughts in my head including my wife.
Thanks for the. Kind thoughts. I am in a halfway house called IRIS House. I feel safe here and can get my life in order. 30 day program. Limited net connection will check in as often as I canJust a note, won't be around for a while. Scared myself last night and I don't want to be alone right now. SO I am checking myself into the local Behavioral Hospital today to get help.
good thoughts and prayers will be greatly appreciated.
Was thinking about you all week. Really glad you checked in here, and iris house. Wishing you all the best.Thanks for the. Kind thoughts. I am in a halfway house called IRIS House. I feel safe here and can get my life in order. 30 day program. Limited net connection will check in as often as I can
Wishing you the best. We are all rooting for you! xxThanks for the. Kind thoughts. I am in a halfway house called IRIS House. I feel safe here and can get my life in order. 30 day program. Limited net connection will check in as often as I can
Also therapy... there may be a stigma attached to it, but try not let that bother you. It has helped me a lot. Believe it or not, I got the "courage" to go listening to Howard Stern. He's a big proponent, and he said something that struck a nerve with me... "Everyone can benefit from therapy"I'm no expert but for those struggling remember some basics - get good sleep, eat a healthy diet, exercise and avoid alcohol.