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Used to be Cruise vs Island, now the upcoming Aruba trip. (1 Viewer)

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Making plans for a 2016 vacation with my wife. Never been to an island or a cruise. Besides a few missions trips we have not traveled internationally.

Would we be better off doing a cruise that hits several islands or should we just go for it and go and immerse ourselves with a culture for a week?

Updated on pg. 3 seeking advice for Aruba!

 
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Go one island and then you can usually see other neighboring islands by ferry if you choose.

St. Thomas -------> St. John

St. Martin -----------> St. Barths -------------> Anguilla

Turks and Caicos, Provo --------------> Grand Turk ----------------> North Caicos

 
St. John ----> Jost Van Dyke ----> Virgin Gorda ----> Peter Island ----> Sandy Spit -----> The Indians -----> Green Cay

:moneybag:

 
Ive been on a few cruises growing up and one recently. The cruise will usually throw in a crappy cruise line owned island to make sure they collect the money you are looking to spend.

I think the suggestions in here are spot on. I would rather explore one area for multiple days over trying to fit a bunch of stuff in on one day trip. It is way more relaxing to go at your own pace and you can go back to the things you really liked more than once.

The St. Thomas / St. John combo is on the top of my list for the next time I go to the Caribbean.

 
I was just checking all inclusive packages for an the islands.

FYI

Costa Rica (not an island) was the cheapest one.

I did my 1st cruise last year to bermuda.

It was good but after I left I said I'd prefer to do an island on my own.

not sure I would even want to island hop.

might feel too rushed

 
Island is the way to go, and if it's just you and the wife, look into adult's only/primarily type places. Not a swinger situation, just not having to hear screaming brats on your vacation is a huge plus.

 
Island is the way to go, and if it's just you and the wife, look into adult's only/primarily type places. Not a swinger situation, just not having to hear screaming brats on your vacation is a huge plus.
Wife and I went to couples resort in Jamaica for our honeymoon in 2011 and it was fantastic. Highly recommend, especially for the no kids perk.
 
A lotta people on here will poo-poo the cruises, but my wife and I love them and have been on I think 10 or 11. Been on most of the big ships, and the stereotypes are very overblown. It's not a parade of fat people, there's not a greatly increased risk of getting sick, the food is pretty good, and they don't "herd" you on and off the ship. In fact, the time on the ship is a lot of the fun for us. You've got a half dozen restaurants, 10 or so bars, "free" food at the buffet 24 hours a day, a casino, 3-4 pools, a spa, movie theater, a gym, 2-3 night clubs, and a theater that actually puts on pretty good shows, a full-court basketball court, all within a 5 minute walk. Plus something cool about being out on the open water and seeing nothing but the horizon in every direction, is really a cool feeling. We've made tons of friends on ships that we've stayed friends with afterwards. Not that you can't do that on a resort, but I think there's a certain cameraderie amongst cruisers all on a ship together that isn't replicated on land where people tend to keep to themselves.

That being said, we also love traveling and staying in one place. And cruising is definitely not for everyone. If someone went on a cruise and hated it, I wouldn't think that was weird or anything. It's a different kind of vacation. Certainly something to be said for having the flexibility to change your plans up and do what you want on a given day and not have to be at the mercy of the cruise line's itinerary and the weather on that particular day.

I would say if you plan on returning to the area multiple times, maybe take a long cruise that hits a bunch of different stops to get a feel for a number of places. But if you're going to go sporadically, much better to really immerse yourself in one particular place.

 
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Bonfire said:
Island is the way to go, and if it's just you and the wife, look into adult's only/primarily type places. Not a swinger situation, just not having to hear screaming brats on your vacation is a huge plus.
Maybe he's looking for a swinger situation.

 
what are you looking to do and interested in:

just sit on a beach? see a place with some history/culture? see someplace tropical/rainforesty? lots of people? quiet? casinos? foody type place? etc, etc.

lots of amazing islands out there- and you can count mexico and central america too. each with their own specific things to appreciate.

wife and I used to travel a lot up and down the caribbean- trying out different places, so we have a bit of info on a bunch of spots depending on what you're into.

 
I'd choose one island, just so you don't start going around saying "cruising".

 
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I have gone on 3 cruises. I love a cruise vacation and would not hesitate to do another. That said, I also enjoy the stay in one place vacation. It really depends on what you want. If you are a beach lover and want to just chill and relax on a beach for most of your time, do NOT do a cruise. Sure you could visit beaches at your cruise stops, but since your time at any one place is limited you are more likely to choose other adventures to get a flavor of the country/island. If you like a lot of variety then I highly recommend a cruise.

 
Michael Brown said:
A lotta people on here will poo-poo the cruises, but my wife and I love them and have been on I think 10 or 11. Been on most of the big ships, and the stereotypes are very overblown. It's not a parade of fat people, there's not a greatly increased risk of getting sick, the food is pretty good, and they don't "herd" you on and off the ship. In fact, the time on the ship is a lot of the fun for us. You've got a half dozen restaurants, 10 or so bars, "free" food at the buffet 24 hours a day, a casino, 3-4 pools, a spa, movie theater, a gym, 2-3 night clubs, and a theater that actually puts on pretty good shows, a full-court basketball court, all within a 5 minute walk. Plus something cool about being out on the open water and seeing nothing but the horizon in every direction, is really a cool feeling. We've made tons of friends on ships that we've stayed friends with afterwards. Not that you can't do that on a resort, but I think there's a certain cameraderie amongst cruisers all on a ship together that isn't replicated on land where people tend to keep to themselves.

That being said, we also love traveling and staying in one place. And cruising is definitely not for everyone. If someone went on a cruise and hated it, I wouldn't think that was weird or anything. It's a different kind of vacation. Certainly something to be said for having the flexibility to change your plans up and do what you want on a given day and not have to be at the mercy of the cruise line's itinerary and the weather on that particular day.

I would say if you plan on returning to the area multiple times, maybe take a long cruise that hits a bunch of different stops to get a feel for a number of places. But if you're going to go sporadically, much better to really immerse yourself in one particular place.
:goodposting:

 
what are you looking to do and interested in:

just sit on a beach? see a place with some history/culture? see someplace tropical/rainforesty? lots of people? quiet? casinos? foody type place? etc, etc.

lots of amazing islands out there- and you can count mexico and central america too. each with their own specific things to appreciate.

wife and I used to travel a lot up and down the caribbean- trying out different places, so we have a bit of info on a bunch of spots depending on what you're into.
We would like to be beach bums for the most part but would also like to rent a car or scooters one day and explore part of the island. We love food and trying new or ethnic foods. Not sure but I don't think I want an all inclusive???

My fear or concern is safety as we will definitely look the part of the typical tourist.

For no particular reason we have an interest in Barbados. Have you ever been there?

 
I loved Barbados...Only spent a day there as part of a cruise, but it has always been one of my favorite stops for the natural beauty of the island. Given your description above, I do not recommend a cruise.

 
what are you looking to do and interested in:

just sit on a beach? see a place with some history/culture? see someplace tropical/rainforesty? lots of people? quiet? casinos? foody type place? etc, etc.

lots of amazing islands out there- and you can count mexico and central america too. each with their own specific things to appreciate.

wife and I used to travel a lot up and down the caribbean- trying out different places, so we have a bit of info on a bunch of spots depending on what you're into.
We would like to be beach bums for the most part but would also like to rent a car or scooters one day and explore part of the island. We love food and trying new or ethnic foods. Not sure but I don't think I want an all inclusive???

My fear or concern is safety as we will definitely look the part of the typical tourist.

For no particular reason we have an interest in Barbados. Have you ever been there?

 
I've done 3 all inclusive islands and 2 cruises. Out next vacation will be a cruise. Love both, pros age cons but cruises have ultimately been more memorable... likely a lot to do with ports/excursions/destinations.

 
If you're looking for an island recommendation, let me be the first to recommend St. Lucia. Spent my honeymoon there at a Sandals all-inclusive and had an absolute blast. There are plenty of excursions if you are interested in exploring the island - we went on a catamaran cruise around the southern tip of the island, hiked through a botanical garden and checked out a local cantina. The beaches are gorgeous, the water crystal clear and the resort had a lot to offer. Also enjoyed hopping over to other Sandals resorts on the island, to eat at their special restaurants. A fantastic all-inclusive Caribbean destination.

 
We stayed a week in St. Maarten and then met friend in San Juan to being a 7 day Southern Caribbean cruise. Highly recommend both. We were coming from the West coast so wanting to extend. If I could vote for one I'd say island. It was my first cruise and while I liked the ports, it seemed like people just wanted to see how many lobster tails and 24 hour pizza they could throw down their gullets. It was a floating, high end Hometown Buffet.

 
Cruise ships are gigantic floating Petri dishes.
Man I think they are the worst way to spend a vacation.Go to an island, maybe go to the Dominican Republic and take in some real culture or something.
The all-inclusive resorts are hardly a way to take in some real culture. You have to get outside the resort and the paid tours to experience the culture in a place like DR which is largely extreme poverty. Potentially dangerous, but really most are very friendly and very appreciative of any help you can provide.
 
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Thanks for the input. So let's say we will choose an island. I don't think we want it to be 100% inclusive because we would like to eat out at some local establishments. With that in mind and our novice travel skills, should I try and find a travel agent to plan us a vacation or is that something I can do?

Also, if anyone has any specific opinions on Barbados (safety, food, etc etc) I would love to hear about them.

Would a beach hut or some type of villa be better than a hotel room? Will it be a lot more expensive?

 
:shrug: I like cruises
Me too.

Generally speaking, you'll get a lot more bang for you buck a cruise vs. staying at a single island and the cruise will allow you to see a few different islands/ports so your can get an idea what you like.

 
Thanks for the input. So let's say we will choose an island. I don't think we want it to be 100% inclusive because we would like to eat out at some local establishments. With that in mind and our novice travel skills, should I try and find a travel agent to plan us a vacation or is that something I can do?

Also, if anyone has any specific opinions on Barbados (safety, food, etc etc) I would love to hear about them.

Would a beach hut or some type of villa be better than a hotel room? Will it be a lot more expensive?
I have been to Barbados. I thought it was absolutely fantastic and would love to go back someday.

I thought it was extremely safe as long as you stayed away from Bridgetown. I don't know what your budget is like, but the Platinum coast was the best place to stay based upon my research.

I stayed at the Colony Club and thought it was a very nice hotel.

The food is pretty classic caribbean.... lots of fish. There are plenty of fun things to do and see. I recommend the day turtle cruise on the Good Times boat. I did a day of deep sea fishing which I would not recommend. I did see a show at Harbour Lights which I would recommend.

I rented a car and drove around the island and had a fabulous experience doing that. The north point Animal Cave is not to be missed. It was tough getting used to driving on the left side of the Road, but once I got the hang of it, it was a great way to see the island.

The only downside to Barbados was the burden of getting there... it was a long flight it's so far south.

Great culture there as well.

 
Cruises are for people that aren't smart enough and decisive enough to plan a good, safe vacation on their own, which in the internet era seems insane with how good websites like trip adviser are.

Cruises dump you off at cruise ship hubs.. which are generally the worst spots on the island for authentic experiences.

The people that we saw in for cruises saw Bridgetown, Barbados, which was the worst part of Barbados I saw... and those people were stuck at crappy tourist traps. I got in from my deep sea excursion and the cruise people were taking pictures of me and my wife with our Wahoo's... I HAD a cool experience even if I wouldn't necessarily do the deep sea fishing there again... those people were taking pictures of someone having a cool experience.

Advantage non-cruise people.

 
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Cruises are for people that aren't smart enough and decisive enough to plan a good, safe vacation on their own, which in the internet era seems insane with how good websites like trip adviser are.

Cruises dump you off at cruise ship hubs.. which are generally the worst spots on the island for authentic experiences.

The people that we saw in for cruises saw Bridgetown, Barbados, which was the worst part of Barbados I saw... and those people were stuck at crappy tourist traps. I got in from my deep sea excursion and the cruise people were taking pictures of me and my wife with our Wahoo's... I HAD a cool experience even if I wouldn't necessarily do the deep sea fishing there again... those people were taking pictures of someone having a cool experience.

Advantage non-cruise people.
No mention of cost in all of that, huh?

You of all people should acknowledge how much more economical a cruise is.

 
Cruises are for people that aren't smart enough and decisive enough to plan a good, safe vacation on their own, which in the internet era seems insane with how good websites like trip adviser are.

Cruises dump you off at cruise ship hubs.. which are generally the worst spots on the island for authentic experiences.

The people that we saw in for cruises saw Bridgetown, Barbados, which was the worst part of Barbados I saw... and those people were stuck at crappy tourist traps. I got in from my deep sea excursion and the cruise people were taking pictures of me and my wife with our Wahoo's... I HAD a cool experience even if I wouldn't necessarily do the deep sea fishing there again... those people were taking pictures of someone having a cool experience.

Advantage non-cruise people.
I think that is just arrogant talk. For some people it has nothing to do with smart and they just want the nice bundled package. Nothing wrong or dumb with that.

Some people actually enjoy the ship itself and don't really care for the culture of another area.

Yes, quite a few people on cruises give you that....walmart vibe but for the most part the cruise i went on the people seemed fine.

 
Cruises are for people that aren't smart enough and decisive enough to plan a good, safe vacation on their own, which in the internet era seems insane with how good websites like trip adviser are.

Cruises dump you off at cruise ship hubs.. which are generally the worst spots on the island for authentic experiences.

The people that we saw in for cruises saw Bridgetown, Barbados, which was the worst part of Barbados I saw... and those people were stuck at crappy tourist traps. I got in from my deep sea excursion and the cruise people were taking pictures of me and my wife with our Wahoo's... I HAD a cool experience even if I wouldn't necessarily do the deep sea fishing there again... those people were taking pictures of someone having a cool experience.

Advantage non-cruise people.
Couldn't help yourself huh?

 
I hate cruise ships; especially the ones that make multiple stops during trips. I always feel rushed and the only part of the places you'll see during a stop is a tourist trap.

My life is a nonstop schedule, I prefer to do wtf I want when I'm on vacation. Pick an island, stay for a week, don't make too many plans (e.g. don't let your S/O carve out a week of excursions/activities) and enjoy.

 
A beach is a beach. By the 10 drink does it really matter if you are sitting on a beach in Virginia, Texas, FL, Puerto Rico, Hawaii, or Blizzard Beach.

 
If getting hammered, being loud and obnoxious, and total gluttony is your idea of a vacation, then do a cruise.

If you want to experience an island, rent a place (not an all-inclusive) for the week. You'll be perfectly safe doing normal things during normal hours. Just like in the US, trouble finds people when they're blackout drunk at 2:00am in the "bad part" of town.

 
what are you looking to do and interested in:

just sit on a beach? see a place with some history/culture? see someplace tropical/rainforesty? lots of people? quiet? casinos? foody type place? etc, etc.

lots of amazing islands out there- and you can count mexico and central america too. each with their own specific things to appreciate.

wife and I used to travel a lot up and down the caribbean- trying out different places, so we have a bit of info on a bunch of spots depending on what you're into.
We would like to be beach bums for the most part but would also like to rent a car or scooters one day and explore part of the island. We love food and trying new or ethnic foods. Not sure but I don't think I want an all inclusive???

My fear or concern is safety as we will definitely look the part of the typical tourist.

For no particular reason we have an interest in Barbados. Have you ever been there?
we went to Barbados for Millennium and again the year after (so, dated info).

Barbados is a larger island- british, so you get the old colonial thing, especially in the main towns (Bridgetown? IIRC). Nice beaches, lots to see geologically- hill/mountains, mines, forests along with some history (oldest rum factory?) and colonial cutlure. it also has (had) a nice mix of ritzy to affordable and decent food, which isn't always the case in the caribbean. there's a wide range of things to do there, from chilling on the beach to going out, to seeing history and culture.

IIRC, we stayed in St Lawrence Gap both times- nice, lower scale price-wise, but not dumpy, and lots of stuff around within walking distance.

I had been told there was crime- to watch your things on the beach, and keep on eye on yourself if you went out to bars. we never had a problem or saw a problem... closest thing was a guy I played soccer with on the beach offer to sell me weed- opposite of a problem.

my own issue with the place is that it's farther from us (NYC) by an hour or so. not a big deal. also IIRC, cruise ships port there- which I've noticed leads to more crimes of opportunity and more touristy shlocky stuff. I like things much smaller and quieter.

Somebody else mentioned St Maarten, which will give you a similar blend of beach and colonial culture... but with dutch/french. It's bigger, with cruise ships and international airport, and has a wide range of things to do and see. I've only gone through there in transit- we fly in and go to Anguilla or St Barths, which are my two favorite islands (we were married in Anguilla and try to go every year if possible).

 
A beach is a beach. By the 10 drink does it really matter if you are sitting on a beach in Virginia, Texas, FL, Puerto Rico, Hawaii, or Blizzard Beach.
what you are saying is that drinking is drinking- does it really matter by the 10th drink if you're passed out in the gutter in Gary Indiana, or on a beach somewhere.

 
If getting hammered, being loud and obnoxious, and total gluttony is your idea of a vacation, then do a cruise.

If you want to experience an island, rent a place (not an all-inclusive) for the week. You'll be perfectly safe doing normal things during normal hours. Just like in the US, trouble finds people when they're blackout drunk at 2:00am in the "bad part" of town.
:goodposting: this can't be emphasized enough.

 

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