The odd part is, she is pretty independent - she was excited to get a car, likes going out to meet up with friends, etc. We have three and joke that our youngest will be the one to go to school locally so he can check up on mom. But my older two (my daughter is the oldest), just seem more like the profile of kids ready to leave. She does her laundry, dishes, etc., so I don't think she doesn't feel she can survive in the real world (she has flown to Europe to meet my MIL by herself, and has flown by herself since she was 6-7). However, she did have a rough time in HS, and really just made her group of friends last semester of junior year. All of her friends are going to school out of state (and we reiterated that), so there is an aspect that she is scared she won't make friends (but she won't have them here if she stays). She periodically sees a psychologist to deal with stress (she is a wicked introvert, but a loud personality so people always think she is fine), and we are doing a group session next week, so maybe something else will come out of it. After all of this, I noticed something my daughter has done all of the time - constantly talking to my wife. Not that it is bad for them to have a good relationship, but I am wondering if she views my wife as a best friend versus a mom.