Gachi
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This may be a little atypical, but I don't really have anyone to talk about this kind of thing. Here it goes..
As I've mentioned before, I'm a guy in my early 20s who is gay. I've recently gotten my first boyfriend, who is in his 30s. Initially, we used to talk/text all the time but lately I feel like I'm the one who is initiating all of our conversations and it's making me feel like I'm bugging him. Sometimes it takes him forever to reply back, and I don't want to ask him why because I feel that would be overkill. Our age difference is significant and we're in two different stages in life. He works full-time, I do not. I'm in school still and he's been done for ages.
I guess what I'm asking is do middle-aged men value their alone time more so than younger men?
Just imagine you had a 22 year old girlfriend and she called/texted often, would that annoy you? Am I annoying my boyfriend? This is my first relationship so I'm new to this kind of thing.
Thanks.
As I've mentioned before, I'm a guy in my early 20s who is gay. I've recently gotten my first boyfriend, who is in his 30s. Initially, we used to talk/text all the time but lately I feel like I'm the one who is initiating all of our conversations and it's making me feel like I'm bugging him. Sometimes it takes him forever to reply back, and I don't want to ask him why because I feel that would be overkill. Our age difference is significant and we're in two different stages in life. He works full-time, I do not. I'm in school still and he's been done for ages.
I guess what I'm asking is do middle-aged men value their alone time more so than younger men?
Just imagine you had a 22 year old girlfriend and she called/texted often, would that annoy you? Am I annoying my boyfriend? This is my first relationship so I'm new to this kind of thing.
Thanks.
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