Nigel
Footballguy
My daughter turns 17 in August, will be a junior next year, came home a little tipsy last night. Last day of school, went to a graduation party, and apparently had a few. Was not driving. Tried to deny it but it was obvious. Not stupid enough to think she's never done it before but first time she's been busted.
Straight A honors student, will be captain next year of cross country and lax teams, hangs with popular crowd. Some of her friends have been in trouble before, a couple of stomach-pumping, but she has stayed out of the fray. I've heard multiple times from other parents "I'm always relieved when Jane tells me your daughter is going out with them, I worry less."
She was still asleep when I left the house for work, my wife is home to deal with it when she wakes up. She wants to bring the hammer down (no going out at night for a month, can't go to concert in August, doesn't want her hanging with certain kids). I'm trying to keep it in perspective, there need to be consequences but I'm kind of lobbying on her behalf. As an every weekend boozer since freshman year of HS who turned out ok I'd be a hypocrite not to. HS is a four year cat and mouse game, I get it.
I sent my daughter a text after I left the house advising her to be honest with her mother, lying will not help the situation. Did not hear back, at work now waiting for an update on how it plays out. I know nearly all parents go through this, but I feel sick over it. Mostly because I know how sick she's going to feel when she opens her eyes this morning, and makes the walk downstairs.
Interested to hear how others handled this their first go around.
Straight A honors student, will be captain next year of cross country and lax teams, hangs with popular crowd. Some of her friends have been in trouble before, a couple of stomach-pumping, but she has stayed out of the fray. I've heard multiple times from other parents "I'm always relieved when Jane tells me your daughter is going out with them, I worry less."
She was still asleep when I left the house for work, my wife is home to deal with it when she wakes up. She wants to bring the hammer down (no going out at night for a month, can't go to concert in August, doesn't want her hanging with certain kids). I'm trying to keep it in perspective, there need to be consequences but I'm kind of lobbying on her behalf. As an every weekend boozer since freshman year of HS who turned out ok I'd be a hypocrite not to. HS is a four year cat and mouse game, I get it.
I sent my daughter a text after I left the house advising her to be honest with her mother, lying will not help the situation. Did not hear back, at work now waiting for an update on how it plays out. I know nearly all parents go through this, but I feel sick over it. Mostly because I know how sick she's going to feel when she opens her eyes this morning, and makes the walk downstairs.
Interested to hear how others handled this their first go around.