1. Guys getting stalked by girls.
2. The Duke Lacrosse incident.
Everytime there is a discussion about what has now come to be known as the Me Too movement, these points are somehow always raised.
Those points should be discussed on their merits then. Should be easy. You just want them dismissed as irrelevant.
#2 is a cautionary tale, it happens. The consequences are awful when it does. Why would we not want to encourage a system where #2 can be prevented whenever possible as well as preventing people from getting away with these crimes?
I think the metoo movement should be focused on better police procedures for when crimes are reported as well as better reporting of crimes. The next focus should be on preventing retaliation for reporting and punishment for improper handling of reporting. These changes would do far more for the long term prevention of these issues than what is going on now.
For too long police have poorly handled when women come forward. This leads to women being reluctant to come forward. This leads to delays, possible destruction of evidence, skepticism, etc. It is a bad loop. It seems that since we know women don't want to go to police we are now trying to create different ways to get them to come forward. This is a bad approach. We need to create a world where police are the place to go. Not university officials, not the media, not some other group.
People compare the skepticism surrounding these crimes with other crimes. It is true, these crimes have often been met with deplorable police treatment. This sucks. We need to work on changing it and creating better protocols, but the flip side to comparing it to other crimes is that those other crimes would also be met with skepticism if they were often reported in the same manner as these crimes. If you reported a robbery that happened two months ago, you already had a cleaning service come through, the broken door has been replaced and disposed of, and you were drunk the night it happened you would be met with the same skepticism.
So while the reasons for women not reporting things sooner, or at all, can be very understandable, it contributes to the issues.