snellman
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Back story (hopefully it doesn't turn out TLDR)
My wife and I have been kicking around the idea of buying a different house. We have been in ours 15 years and we are at the point of doing a lot of updates or just unloading it and buying something bigger. We have 5 children and with 3 of them out of the house, bringing home boyfriend/girlfriend, getting married, grandchildren probably coming at some point we are going to need more space for family get togethers.
My cousin is the owner of a construction business. This last winter He bought 2 lots in a new addition and built a spec house on one of them, it is now finished. We went and looked at it and of course the wife instantly fell in love with the floor plan and everything about it. We really hadn't considered a new house but the more we talked about it and kicked it around the more it seemed like the way to go. We have a plan in place to sell our house to his son so we don't have to worry about listing our house and waiting for someone to buy it. Unfortunately his son is only 2 years out of high school so him getting the loan for the house is a bit of a challenge, but his dad is going to do a loan on it letting him make the payments until he is able to get a loan on it.
Now the complicated part, my cousin is separating from his partner and going off on his own. The new house is part of the separation and is going to his former partner. This is also complicating his son buying our house because the banker wants my cousin to wait until the separation is complete before putting any more money out due to start up costs of the new business etc. His former partner is willing to sell the house to us, but said yesterday that he has someone ready to buy now with check in hand and he really wants to get rid of the house.
My cousin made the suggestion to us to just walk away from the house and he would build us a house similar to the existing one on the other lot that he owns. By the time the house is finished, he would be able to have the additional money to buy our home and the transaction would take place as we originally planned. Building a house has never been in my wife's or my plans. We have heard a few horror stories about building. My wife has no desire to pick out cupboards, trim, doors, knobs, etc. The idea is intriguing however because we could walk through the existing house one more time and not any changes that we would make, specific things that we like and get exactly what we want.
If you have built a house, would you do it again? Was it a nightmare or a good experience? What is something you would definitely do different.
My wife and I have been kicking around the idea of buying a different house. We have been in ours 15 years and we are at the point of doing a lot of updates or just unloading it and buying something bigger. We have 5 children and with 3 of them out of the house, bringing home boyfriend/girlfriend, getting married, grandchildren probably coming at some point we are going to need more space for family get togethers.
My cousin is the owner of a construction business. This last winter He bought 2 lots in a new addition and built a spec house on one of them, it is now finished. We went and looked at it and of course the wife instantly fell in love with the floor plan and everything about it. We really hadn't considered a new house but the more we talked about it and kicked it around the more it seemed like the way to go. We have a plan in place to sell our house to his son so we don't have to worry about listing our house and waiting for someone to buy it. Unfortunately his son is only 2 years out of high school so him getting the loan for the house is a bit of a challenge, but his dad is going to do a loan on it letting him make the payments until he is able to get a loan on it.
Now the complicated part, my cousin is separating from his partner and going off on his own. The new house is part of the separation and is going to his former partner. This is also complicating his son buying our house because the banker wants my cousin to wait until the separation is complete before putting any more money out due to start up costs of the new business etc. His former partner is willing to sell the house to us, but said yesterday that he has someone ready to buy now with check in hand and he really wants to get rid of the house.
My cousin made the suggestion to us to just walk away from the house and he would build us a house similar to the existing one on the other lot that he owns. By the time the house is finished, he would be able to have the additional money to buy our home and the transaction would take place as we originally planned. Building a house has never been in my wife's or my plans. We have heard a few horror stories about building. My wife has no desire to pick out cupboards, trim, doors, knobs, etc. The idea is intriguing however because we could walk through the existing house one more time and not any changes that we would make, specific things that we like and get exactly what we want.
If you have built a house, would you do it again? Was it a nightmare or a good experience? What is something you would definitely do different.