Since I started this I'll check in a few times a week. Pitiful how few people are on here anymore. Sorry that you blow'ed things up Joe. Not for you because you got to make the decision. But for all of us that made this site our home and you successful
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The change here has less to do with Joe and more to do with changing demographics.
Sure, it would be cool if Joe allowed yoga pants threads and who's hottest threads but those only made up a small percentage of the total interactions on any given day.
I doubt many people left because of the attempts to PG/PC the place.
People get busy with other areas of their lives and the internet forum takes a back seat. Like the neighborhood bar people come and go as life "gets in the way" but they usually stop back in to see how everyone is doing once in a while or if their life takes a major left turn they may become a regular again.
And let's face it, as we all get older our daily routines and interactions are less "exciting" than they were 10-20 years ago. There is not a younger generation signing up to post on any internet forum, so the topics of yesterday are left with yesterday.
Doesn't mean there can't be interesting and meaningful discussions with the current team.
I have too bad of a rep here due to my PSF postings, so I won't start this thread, but a thread idea someone else could start that would be cool is:
You're an old man, on a park bench -- Teach me what is.
Suppose I am some boy.
You're sitting on a park bench drinking coffee from your thermos. It's 7 am. And I walk up to you.
I say, "I'm sorry to bother you but I wonder if you can show me the way." You ask me where I'm going and I reply, "I have no idea." You reply with, "Well, what are you looking for son?" And I say, "Wisdom from someone who has more scars than I."
You tell me to take seat but I can't, I have to catch that train coming over the bend. This train was planning to take me to nowhere. But after talking to you, I hope this train takes me to somewhere.
On my journey to nowhere but hopefully somewhere, I have nothing but time to think about your words. So I ask you:
Give me one and only one of each of the following:
One song.
One poem.
One art piece
One movie.
One parable, allegory, text, or fable
to teach me your wisdom about life, death, love, hope, pain, or whatever else you feel is relevant. Your job is not to teach me what to do or how to live a better life. Your job is simply to teach me what is.
There's more,
You are not allowed to tell me what wisdom or lessons that these things will teach me. I have to figure that out on my own. I only want you to show me the door and let me walk though it to discover my own meaning in the poem, art, song, and allegory that you gave me.
Can you give me something real?
(yes, I stole this from somewhere else)