You forgot the apology....and i had nothing to do with this oneIt's been bugging me for a while. We've tolerated the "Is it appropriate?" threads for a while but I've never been comfortable with it. We are going to stop allowing these here. I know not everyone is going to like this and I know there are other places you can go. Please feel free to do that if this isn't the place for you.
Thanks.
-G
Sure beats whatever they got in ATL. :XNow that I have read it - lap dance in Delaware? :shudder:
Actually nothing beats that. I've had it ever since.....Sure beats whatever they got in ATL. :X
Also forgot the "you might disagree with this and that's ok."It's been bugging me for a while. We've tolerated the "Is it appropriate?" threads for a while but I've never been comfortable with it. We are going to stop allowing these here. I know not everyone is going to like this and I know there are other places you can go. Please feel free to do that if this isn't the place for you.
Thanks.
-G
So you're not going to even try to make it a realistic scenario then...?Ned said:You’re happily married and go to a strip club for a friend’s bachelor party and got a lap dance.
Appropriate or no?
Ned said:Sure beats whatever they got in ATL. :X
Problem here is, people at the bachelor party are probably in you and your wife's circle of friends. And there's always that one guy who can't keep his mouth shut.Ned said:You’re happily married and go to a strip club for a friend’s bachelor party and got a lap dance.
Appropriate or no?
I think this is the way to go, really. Sage advice here.Some wives are cool with their husband going to a strip club/getting lap dances and some wives are very not cool with it. I think you abide by the wife’s wishes on strip clubs.
She doesn’t like it if you meet the guys at a bar for a few drinks or play golf on Saturday mornings she can get over it but a strip club is a battle not worth the fight and consequences imo.
When my wife and I were first dating I went out of town with the boys. She knew we would hit up a strip club or a few. She asked me to be honest, so of course I told her the events of the evening. She said she thought she was fine with dances but in actuality didn't feel comfortable with it. So for the next few years anytime the occasion called for one, I went but didn't get a dance. Ok, still got the views and saved some cash. A few years later she went with me to a couple clubs locally. She got a dance (or three) at one, and realized they are nothing for her to be worried about. So from then on I am free to get them as I choose.Some wives are cool with their husband going to a strip club/getting lap dances and some wives are very not cool with it. I think you abide by the wife’s wishes on strip clubs.
She doesn’t like it if you meet the guys at a bar for a few drinks or play golf on Saturday mornings she can get over it but a strip club is a battle not worth the fight and consequences imo.
LOLWife let me do this when we were newlyweds and she had to stay at the hotel with the 3 month old. I ended up spending like $500. She was cool with it. Always made me wonder what she did in that hotel.
Your wife sounds awesome.B Maverick said:When my wife and I were first dating I went out of town with the boys. She knew we would hit up a strip club or a few. She asked me to be honest, so of course I told her the events of the evening. She said she thought she was fine with dances but in actuality didn't feel comfortable with it. So for the next few years anytime the occasion called for one, I went but didn't get a dance. Ok, still got the views and saved some cash. A few years later she went with me to a couple clubs locally. She got a dance (or three) at one, and realized they are nothing for her to be worried about. So from then on I am free to get them as I choose.
This is pretty much it. Everyone's opinions of lap dances are going to be different, but the only one that really matters is the wife of the guy in question. Happy wife, happy life and all that.Some wives are cool with their husband going to a strip club/getting lap dances and some wives are very not cool with it. I think you abide by the wife’s wishes on strip clubs.
She doesn’t like it if you meet the guys at a bar for a few drinks or play golf on Saturday mornings she can get over it but a strip club is a battle not worth the fight and consequences imo.
the silent treatment is vastly underrated.I asked my wife.
She yelled at me and hasn't talked to me for 5 hours...this is awesome
Would you tell your wife about it if she asked?You’re happily married and go to a strip club for a friend’s bachelor party and got a lap dance.
Appropriate or no?
Your wife is standing behind you reading this now isn’t she?You’re happily married and go to a strip club for a friend’s bachelor party and got a lap dance.
Appropriate or no?
That's what I almost hear.the silent treatment is vastly underrated.