People drain the energy from me. When I go to work conferences, I go back to my hotel room during every single break just to re-energize, even if it's for just 5 minutes. I hate small talk. That is what drains me the most. But if you want to talk about something meaningful, I'll talk about it for hours, and it energizes me. People drain me because most of them don't really give a #### about anything they're talking about.Now is that because you are by nature an introvert, for whom human interaction is a massive internal energy drain? Or are you just a snot, deeming others to be unworthy of your genius? I don't know enough about you to have an opinion on which you are but the first option is certainly an understandable one. My wife called me a "hermit" just Saturday for turning down a very low-keyed social occasion.
No/no.does weed/psychedelics cause you guys more anxiety?
have you tried?
Weed is a mood accentuator for me. If I’m relaxed it makes me more relaxed.does weed/psychedelics cause you guys more anxiety?
have you tried?
so.... what do you do for a living?People drain the energy from me. When I go to work conferences, I go back to my hotel room during every single break just to re-energize, even if it's for just 5 minutes. I hate small talk. That is what drains me the most. But if you want to talk about something meaningful, I'll talk about it for hours, and it energizes me. People drain me because most of them don't really give a #### about anything they're talking about.
have you tried edibles? @urbanhackWeed is a mood accentuator for me. If I’m relaxed it makes me more relaxed.
If I’m anxious I’ll spiral into a panic attack.
speaking from experience, try shrooms. they're around more than you might imagine. not sure how old you are but a nearby college campus would be a ready source.No/no.
Yes.
i'm particularly interested in psychedelics, because I feel like the amount of times I've done lsd, shrooms, mdma and peyote have actually helped me cognitively grapple with some internal issues by reframing my perspective. I've read a lot about the current trend of microdosing lsd and I'd definitely be interested in trying it, just wouldn't know where to even start looking.
having a companion/someone in your life that's a steadying presence is bigMy wife is the calmest person in times of turmoil and hardly ever gets rattled...she assesses and deals with situations instead of going all haywire. Over the years it has rubbed off on me. During the worst things that have happened she always says "Don`t worry baby things will work out and OK"
Having your wife be that way really lowers the anxiety level.
This sounds like you married a unicorn.My wife is the calmest person in times of turmoil and hardly ever gets rattled...she assesses and deals with situations instead of going all haywire. Over the years it has rubbed off on me. During the worst things that have happened she always says "Don`t worry baby things will work out and be OK"
My wife has transformed into something similar. She saw how exercise impacted my moods and has started to use it as a stabilizer as well. Nothing will cure her irritability when she's cleaning the house, but not much else gets to her anymore. And it really irritates her brothers.My wife is the calmest person in times of turmoil and hardly ever gets rattled...she assesses and deals with situations instead of going all haywire. Over the years it has rubbed off on me. During the worst things that have happened she always says "Don`t worry baby things will work out and be OK"
Having your wife be that way really lowers the anxiety level.
C'mon! Why aren't you mad?!? MAC, what'd you do to her!
Mine is guilty of this same tactic and it makes me want to absolutely chew, then expectorate roofing nails.If she has 5 hours to get ready to leave she will take 5hours and 10 minutes. It is really unbelievable
So usually it must make you really confused.Weed is a mood accentuator for me. If I’m relaxed it makes me more relaxed.
If I’m anxious I’ll spiral into a panic attack.
Nope. I smoke semi-regularly. More when the anxiety levels rise and it seems to mellow me out a good bit. Rather hit the pipe than down an Ativan (Xanax alternative).does weed/psychedelics cause you guys more anxiety?
have you tried?
The oral surgeon, when removing my wisdom teeth, left a chip of a tooth in the socket and didn't realize it. This was done on a Friday afternoon. By the time the healing had really started, it was Saturday afternoon and he wasn't going to be back in until Monday.forgot about the dentist. easily a 53 on a 1-10 scale.
none of them believe me when i tell them that i had a dentist "overfill" a cavity, which crushed the nerve and caused me amazing pain for weeks. they all think i'm full of #### as i lay there, squirming, sweating through the chair and begging for them to just stop.
One morning (my wife was out of town) I had to call my parents to come - basically - take care of me at 5am. I knew I wasn't going to be able to get my kids up and to school.Sounds horrible.
i had to stop reading this about halfway throughThe oral surgeon, when removing my wisdom teeth, left a chip of a tooth in the socket and didn't realize it. This was done on a Friday afternoon. By the time the healing had really started, it was Saturday afternoon and he wasn't going to be back in until Monday.
I was left to suffer
The pain was agonizing and as the time passed the pressure that built up from it being in there screwed up my equilibrium because that pressure was impacting my ear canal. It got to the point that I couldn't stand up. Mom and Dad had to basically carry me Kellen Winslow style to the car and then into the surgeon's office.
The guy x-rays me and 'Oh! here's the problem! What do you say we get that removed?'
Because when you're out, the kids are now the problem of the restaurant, water park, department store staff?Alone possibly 1 or 2
At work probably 3
At home with kids 7
Out doing stuff with kids (water park, hiking, etc) 3
I don't do home life with 5 kids well. But when we're out, all is good.
Now you know how everyone feels about your posts.mr. furley said:i had to stop reading this about halfway through
i laughed an appropriate amount at thisNow you know how everyone feels about your posts.
Why else would we pay admission?Because when you're out, the kids are now the problem of the restaurant, water park, department store staff?
I have two, still <1See kids! Ignorance is bliss
It's a bell curve but when we go out and do something different our kids are usually better behaved until fatigue sets in as we head down the back end. Key is early identification so you get them in the car and pass out before the most tired one melts down.Because when you're out, the kids are now the problem of the restaurant, water park, department store staff?
If I know college kids, there's no one they like and trust more for illicit drug sales than 50 year old random unknown creepy nerds.mr. furley said:speaking from experience, try shrooms. they're around more than you might imagine. not sure how old you are but a nearby college campus would be a ready source.
Awesome.If I know college kids, there's no one they like and trust more for illicit drug sales than 50 year old random unknown creepy nerds.
that was my thought, exactly. Except, i'm not creepy, you ####er.If I know college kids, there's no one they like and trust more for illicit drug sales than 50 year old random unknown creepy nerds.
You had me at high grade pharmaceutical lsd.that was my thought, exactly. Except, i'm not creepy, you ####er.
shrooms are my least favorite psychedelic, too. I could get my hands on some extracted chocolates, but I'd be more interested in high-grade pharmaceutical lsd for micro-dosing, not tripping like I'm going to a Dead show.
Just curious, did you knowingly choose sales because of your social anxiety? Or did you just kind of end up in sales, and make the best of it?I have a ton of anxiety... which sucks. Social anxiety for the most part. Anxiety/fear of failing in anything.
Under the most pressure (anxiety), I seem to perform best... which is great.
The combination has made for an unlikely but successful career in sales.
I got a degree in MIS, got what was supposed to be the dream job out of college back then with Dell. 5 months in I had no idea what I wanted to do, but I sure as hell knew that wasn't it.Just curious, did you knowingly choose sales because of your social anxiety? Or did you just kind of end up in sales, and make the best of it?