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Also, dont forget everybody basically needs to have a phone and internet nowadays. So that's at least $70/month in an additional two expenses that did not exist "in the old days".
I think it's necessary to have a phone and internet. But I don't agree with the $70/month amount. My wife doesn't use data and has been on a $10 a month plan for the last 4 years. You can find plenty of smartphones for under $75 and prepaid plans with data for $25. A $70 plan means you need fast data, and more of it. Which usually means you want to stream media. IE Netflix or Hulu. (which leads to more monthly expenses)

Things begins to snowball from what you need, to what you want. 

 
I think it's necessary to have a phone and internet. But I don't agree with the $70/month amount. My wife doesn't use data and has been on a $10 a month plan for the last 4 years. You can find plenty of smartphones for under $75 and prepaid plans with data for $25. A $70 plan means you need fast data, and more of it. Which usually means you want to stream media. IE Netflix or Hulu. (which leads to more monthly expenses)

Things begins to snowball from what you need, to what you want. 
HOME internet

 
Why?

I understand the need for a phone to acquire a job. I understand the need for internet to network on sites like Linkd In and look for work on sites like Indeed. But what do you "need" home internet for?
Me personally? Remote access for work. 

 
Yes, no, no
Not trying to be argumentative. Every company I have worked for, that required me to have a cell phone, has compensated me for my phone or provided one for me. If you are required to have home internet, and it costs you money, then they should compensate you, or you should have the ability to offset a percentage of the cost via tax write off. I would compare it to a company telling you that you have to use your car for work related things and not having mileage reimbursement. 

 
Not trying to be argumentative. Every company I have worked for, that required me to have a cell phone, has compensated me for my phone or provided one for me. If you are required to have home internet, and it costs you money, then they should compensate you, or you should have the ability to offset a percentage of the cost via tax write off. I would compare it to a company telling you that you have to use your car for work related things and not having mileage reimbursement. 
This is not true at all. My company requires me to be in the office some days. They don't compensate me on gas, tolls, mileage to drive there. 

And quite honestly you are being argumentative. My point was there are some expenses required nowadays that didn't exist years ago. The $ amount I quoted wasn't the real point, just a hypothetical amount but I should be used to it on this site. People like to argue over every minute detail. 

 
This is not true at all. My company requires me to be in the office some days. They don't compensate me on gas, tolls, mileage to drive there. 

And quite honestly you are being argumentative. My point was there are some expenses required nowadays that didn't exist years ago. The $ amount I quoted wasn't the real point, just a hypothetical amount but I should be used to it on this site. People like to argue over every minute detail. 
I guess I wasn't clear. I have 4 different locations in our organization. The first one I go to in the morning is my home location. Any travel between there and the other three during a day, after, my home location is considered travel and I am reimbursed .55 cents a mile for that. 

I don't think there is a justifiable need for home internet. Especially if you have a data plan on your cell phone. There are also lots of free wifi hotspots that allow someone to use internet for free for things that you can't do on a cell phone. Most libraries have computers available as well. 

 
When I moved out on my own the rent for my apartment was $250 per month. I was making 8$ per hour.

My daughter recently moved into her first apartment...$1,000 per month. She makes $16 per hour.

She makes 2x as much as I did and pays 4x in rent.


This post made me do research based on my past.

1992:  Fresh out of college, working as an engineer.  Lived in an apartment at The Georgian Towers in Silver Spring, MD (now called The Point at Silver Spring).  The apartment (2-bed 2-bath) was $900.  My starting salary was $27,100.

2019:  From their website, the same 2-bed 2-bath apartment runs $2300 (depending on length of lease - rent varies from $2000 to $2600).  New hire engineer salary is about $60k in this area.

So just going by my personal, anecdotal, non-binding case, rent has grown by a factor of 2.5 (and Silver Spring has improved quite a bit over that time), while salary has grown by a factor of 2.2

So 2019 doesn't look too bad compared to 1992.

I will say, it sure helped out to room with a guy who also had his girlfriend living there.  They generously offered to pay 2/3 of the rent, so I was paying only $300 a month.  Living with other people is one good way to keep costs down and start building up some savings.

 
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If you are required to have home internet, and it costs you money, then they should compensate you, or you should have the ability to offset a percentage of the cost via tax write off. I would compare it to a company telling you that you have to use your car for work related things and not having mileage reimbursement. 
I am a full time WFH employee. My company doesn't pay for my internet at all. I wouldn't trade that for having to go in to work no matter what my internet costs. There's also the trade off of not putting miles on my car, paying for gas, etc. But no, I'm not compensated at all for my home internet.

 
I am a full time WFH employee. My company doesn't pay for my internet at all. I wouldn't trade that for having to go in to work no matter what my internet costs. There's also the trade off of not putting miles on my car, paying for gas, etc. But no, I'm not compensated at all for my home internet.
Yeah. Seriously who is?  

 
Also, dont forget everybody basically needs to have a phone and internet nowadays. So that's at least $70/month in an additional two expenses that did not exist "in the old days".
Yes and no.  If you had family that lived far away, spending $1 a minute for long distance added up quick.

 
Totally. Everyone has it figured out. Everyone is an expert in everything including how everyone else should live their lives. 
Nobody is telling you how to live your life...not at all. We are saying "stop blaming other people for the consequences of your life choices"

 
This whole phone/internet thing is a weird thing to go on-and-on about.  The point is it's now a need and it costs money.  Some may be compensated for it.  Many aren't.  And it wasn't a need for prior generations.

 
This whole phone/internet thing is a weird thing to go on-and-on about.  The point is it's now a need and it costs money.  Some may be compensated for it.  Many aren't.  And it wasn't a need for prior generations.
THANK YOU

 
Nobody is telling you how to live your life...not at all. We are saying "stop blaming other people for the consequences of your life choices"
Huh? Come again.  I’m saying everyone these days is a critic of everyone and everything and seem to be know-it-alls. I’m not blaming anyone for anything in my life. 

 
Totally. Everyone has it figured out. Everyone is an expert in everything including how everyone else should live their lives. 
Nothing wrong with offering good advice and helping people with their situations if they are being public with their struggles. 

It's not really a matter of "You're dumb!  Why didn't you do this!?!?!?"

 
This is not true at all. My company requires me to be in the office some days. They don't compensate me on gas, tolls, mileage to drive there. 

And quite honestly you are being argumentative. My point was there are some expenses required nowadays that didn't exist years ago. The $ amount I quoted wasn't the real point, just a hypothetical amount but I should be used to it on this site. People like to argue over every minute detail. 
I agree with you. There is a point where certain things have become part of everyday life. If you do not have internet at home (or at least unlimited data phone), you are at a distinct disadvantage in everyday life. CAN one get by with a basic "phone-only" phone and, say, library for internet? Yea, in a very general sense, but they have a disadvantage of not being able to have on-demand access to what has become very basic / almost expected communications.

I'm 52, and I think life is "harder" today, money-wise, than it was when I was in my 20's. I'm glad I grew up when I did, and my 20k a year retail manager job in 1986 paid for a nice apartment, a decent used car, and all the other basics, plus partying. 

All that stated, people do waste an extraordinary amount of money on BS. I know people who go into debt  because spending less than $400 a kid at xmas or a birthday is not an option. 

 
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Nothing wrong with offering good advice and helping people with their situations if they are being public with their struggles. 

It's not really a matter of "You're dumb!  Why didn't you do this!?!?!?"
I agree.  I honestly don't care how you live your life.  But does that make me selfish and non empathetic? 

 
Got stopped at the mall the other day, heard a call from the other way
That I just came from, some ##### was saying something, talking 'bout
Smoke something "Hey man, you remember me from school?"
"No not really" But he kept smiling like a clown, facial expression looking silly
And he kept asking me, "What kinda car you drive? I know you paid
I know y'all got beaucoup of hoes from all them songs that y'all done made"
And I replied that I had been going through the same things that he had
True, I've got more fans than the average man, but not enough loot to last me
To the end of the week, I live by the beat, like you live check-to-check
If you don't move your feet then I don't eat, so we like neck-to-neck
Yes, we done come a long way like them slim-### cigarettes
From Virginia, this ain't gon' stop, so we just gon' continue

 
Yeah. Seriously who is?  
I'm assuming today that many companies see home internet as basic as electricity. In fact, if we nitpick, it's almost odd that they would compensate someone for internet but not the juice to run it. So yea, I could see many companies jumping off the "compensate them for home internet" bandwagon. 

 
I agree with you. There is a point where certain things have become part of everyday life. If you do not have internet at home (or at least unlimited data phone), you are at a distinct disadvantage in everyday life. CAN one get by with a basic "phone-only" phone and, say, library for internet? Yea, in a very general sense, but they have a disadvantage of not being able to have on-demand access to what has become very basic / almost expected communications.

I'm 52, and I think life is "harder" today, money-wise, than it was when I was in my 20's. I'm glad I grew up when I did, and my 20k a year job in 1986 paid for a nice apartment, a decent used car, and all the other basics, plus partying. 

All that stated, people do waste an extraordinary amount of money on BS. I know people who go into debt  because spending less than $400 a kid at xmas or a birthday is not an option. 
I think things are harder today financial wise, though I have no actual proof.  But the generation my parents came from and the one you see in old sitcoms is where dad worked and mom stayed at home.  Seems like everyone was comfortably middle class.  Not sure how many people here had a working mother.  Back then, their retirement was pension, you did not save your own money, so you likely had more to spend.  When my dad died early, I realized my mom had nothing saved and his pension wasn't anything cause he didn't live long enough.  My mom made it to 71, but her last years were SSI only, she had no pension or retirement funds.  I am amazed at that.

 
I think things are harder today financial wise, though I have no actual proof.  
Student loans/education, down payment on house, rent/mortgage, healthcare, child care, phone/internet, benefits.  Look at each one vs. median wages and you have your answer.

As @jwb mentioned, sure there are some people that make spending decisions seemingly without their own budget in mind.  That is a completely different subject though.  The baseline now is substantially different than it was 20, 30, 40+ years ago.

 
Interesting article from July, seems pertinent

https://www.americanbanker.com/news/consumer-debt-is-at-an-all-time-high-should-banks-be-worried

Between 1960 and 1984, the U.S. personal savings rate — which is savings as a percentage of disposable personal income — never fell below 8%. That level of national thrift is far out of reach today. In December 2017, the personal savings rate dropped to 2.4%, its lowest level since the debt-fueled boom of the mid-2000s.

There are a few charts in article worth looking at. The first being the savings rate, the other being the portion of debt on average.

 
Interesting article from July, seems pertinent

https://www.americanbanker.com/news/consumer-debt-is-at-an-all-time-high-should-banks-be-worried

Between 1960 and 1984, the U.S. personal savings rate — which is savings as a percentage of disposable personal income — never fell below 8%. That level of national thrift is far out of reach today. In December 2017, the personal savings rate dropped to 2.4%, its lowest level since the debt-fueled boom of the mid-2000s.

There are a few charts in article worth looking at. The first being the savings rate, the other being the portion of debt on average.
This is one of the chief issues when you offer savings accounts and CDs at basically 0% for a decade.

At the same time debt has been for all intents free.  

Personal savings rate charting like that is self-serving.  It does not factor appreciation in home prices which comprises the overwhelming majority of personal savings.  I would argue quite easily that a principal payment to a home is a savings.  However, this is never comprehended when people put these types of things out.

 
This is one of the chief issues when you offer savings accounts and CDs at basically 0% for a decade.

At the same time debt has been for all intents free.  

Personal savings rate charting like that is self-serving.  It does not factor appreciation in home prices which comprises the overwhelming majority of personal savings.  I would argue quite easily that a principal payment to a home is a savings.  However, this is never comprehended when people put these types of things out.
I'll agree that principal payments are savings. Disagree that one should include appreciation in the savings rate - I also won't include dividends paid or capital gains in the savings rate.

 
But the generation my parents came from and the one you see in old sitcoms is where dad worked and mom stayed at home.  Seems like everyone was comfortably middle class.  Not sure how many people here had a working mother.  Back then, their retirement was pension, you did not save your own money, so you likely had more to spend.
I agree overall. Another thing to remember is that standard of living and perceptions of what Middle Class is these days has greatly changed as well. How many people had more than 1 car back then? Boats, RV's, motorcycles? More than 1 TV? A home computer? A cellphone as already pointed out. The standard house was what? ~1200 sq ft with a 1 car garage? In many areas of the country that's a tiny starter home now except in pricy urban areas. How many homes had heating and air? How many people had kids that went to college in their family?

I think wage stagnation is a major problem but do think it's overblown to a small extent, things are pricier than the good old days but you get a lot more value for your money too. That's often overlooked when people are talking about the financial plight of people today.

 
Unrelated to this thread but are there any other expenses that were commonplace back in the day that are no longer required now?
Not sure if this is a sincere question or not, but of course there are.  Particularly depending on how far back you want to go.  Paying for ice and coal to be delivered.  I remember our first home compueter cost $3000.  Compared to actual price, and our income at that time compared to today, buying a home CPU isn't nearly the same investment.  These are just off the top of my head and I'm sure there are many more.

 
I'll agree that principal payments are savings. Disagree that one should include appreciation in the savings rate - I also won't include dividends paid or capital gains in the savings rate.
My phrasing there was perhaps backwards, due to lack of coffee but you get what I was going for.  There's more to savings than people plowing stuff into a money market.

 
Yeah. Seriously who is?  
My previous company used to but that was the federal government at it's best.  We were contractors to the feds and the feds wouldn't even let us use the internet to fill out timecards.  So the owner of our company re-imbursed our internet expenses since we were mandated to "work" from home even if only five minutes a day.  I mean he probably didn't have to do that but it probably saved him lots of headaches.

 
This is one of the chief issues when you offer savings accounts and CDs at basically 0% for a decade.

At the same time debt has been for all intents free.  

Personal savings rate charting like that is self-serving.  It does not factor appreciation in home prices which comprises the overwhelming majority of personal savings.  I would argue quite easily that a principal payment to a home is a savings.  However, this is never comprehended when people put these types of things out.
They don't appear to count 401K contributions as part of the savings rate as well. The participation rate in 401K's has ballooned since the 70's. No doubt many people count that as their "savings" but don't think of it in terms of "if I had a $400 emergency could I pay for it." I wonder if anyone tracks 401k loans, I know many economists and others don't think of it as "debt" since you owe it to yourself and it is often left out of the conversation. Most banks and lenders don't count it as debt when calculating debt to income ratio for example.

 
My phrasing there was perhaps backwards, due to lack of coffee but you get what I was going for.  There's more to savings than people plowing stuff into a money market.
Fair point. I assumed by savings rate the author meant income-expenses, savings would include retirement and other investments. But I don't see where he states that as the case.

 
Not sure if this is a sincere question or not, but of course there are.  Particularly depending on how far back you want to go.  Paying for ice and coal to be delivered.  I remember our first home compueter cost $3000.  Compared to actual price, and our income at that time compared to today, buying a home CPU isn't nearly the same investment.  These are just off the top of my head and I'm sure there are many more.
Of course it was a sincere question. These boards have made people way too cynical lol.

 
FWIW, I flew from ORD to BNA on Monday and back on Wednesday.

I have never gotten through O'Hare security faster than on Monday, despite it being a very busy travel time (traffic at the terminals leading into dropoff was a disaster - worse than I've ever seen).

Coming back from Nashville on Wednesday, not only was there little/no line at security, I actually got through security in - no exaggeration - under 3 minutes.

I hear ATL is bad though.  Or is this airport thing fake news?

My question:  most federal employees have unions, don't they?  Unions have strike funds.  Why don't federal unions have furlough funds?  Seems like they ought to, if not.  Government workers in general should be expecting infrequent but certain furloughs at times, and expected to plan ahead for them.  Also, certain safety nets kick in when there are furloughs.  For example, my school district contacted all parents to announce that free and reduced lunches are available anytime the family economic conditions change, and the government shutdown is considered an economic change for families of workers who were impacted.  Getting back to the OP's question, I think that because furloughs are a part of life, I would expect government workers to be better positioned to withstand one than those who work in the private sector.

Now, this is the longest shutdown in history so obviously even if these things are anticipated, it will be more painful.  I think that's the point right?  Pain produces political pressure.  I predict that one side will blink soon, and that it will more likely be the democrats.  Theoretically, the congress should feel the political fallout from a furlough harder and more directly than the president, shouldn't it?  Will be interesting to see.

 
i came back to the thread to get that clarified, thanks for posting.  so, how do you not get paid when under contract?  isn’t that breach of contract or is something written in the contract?  i wonder how many employees are looking for other work now and will leave, given a new opportunity.  
I believe the contracts often stipulate that a change in statutes or funding voids the contract.

 
I am a full time WFH employee. My company doesn't pay for my internet at all. I wouldn't trade that for having to go in to work no matter what my internet costs. There's also the trade off of not putting miles on my car, paying for gas, etc. But no, I'm not compensated at all for my home internet.
Can't you deduct the expense or part of the expense on your taxes?  You can deduct the costs for the portion of your home dedicated to home/office (as long as it is dedicated)

 
This is one of the chief issues when you offer savings accounts and CDs at basically 0% for a decade.

At the same time debt has been for all intents free.  

Personal savings rate charting like that is self-serving.  It does not factor appreciation in home prices which comprises the overwhelming majority of personal savings.  I would argue quite easily that a principal payment to a home is a savings.  However, this is never comprehended when people put these types of things out.
Following birth rate trends, I don't think housing prices are going to necessarily continue to appreciate.  If you're on the north end in the age spectrum I think you can more safely look at this as a vehicle for savings.  On the young end?  It's one of the main reasons I'm dragging my feet about moving.  Buying high then getting burned years down the road.

 
I agree overall. Another thing to remember is that standard of living and perceptions of what Middle Class is these days has greatly changed as well. How many people had more than 1 car back then? Boats, RV's, motorcycles? More than 1 TV? A home computer? A cellphone as already pointed out. The standard house was what? ~1200 sq ft with a 1 car garage? In many areas of the country that's a tiny starter home now except in pricy urban areas. How many homes had heating and air? How many people had kids that went to college in their family?

I think wage stagnation is a major problem but do think it's overblown to a small extent, things are pricier than the good old days but you get a lot more value for your money too. That's often overlooked when people are talking about the financial plight of people today.
If 2 people are working then you probably need 2 vehicles.

Every market is different, but living in my middle class bubble I can't think of a single family that has a boat, RV, or motorcycle.  The friends of mine that do are on the upper end and don't have kids.

The TV and computer point is a fair one, but I think it needs more context.  Many didn't have them years ago because they were relatively expensive.  They're not anymore.  And unlike a lot of things that are of lower quality now they're of higher quality.  I get that I'm a sample of one, but we have 3 TV's and no home computer (1 ipad and 3 kindles).  Total spend over the last 10 years for those items?  Less than $500.

That's comparatively different than your housing and college points, whose prices have soared rather than shrunk as more advancements have been made.

 
If 2 people are working then you probably need 2 vehicles.

Every market is different, but living in my middle class bubble I can't think of a single family that has a boat, RV, or motorcycle.  The friends of mine that do are on the upper end and don't have kids.

The TV and computer point is a fair one, but I think it needs more context.  Many didn't have them years ago because they were relatively expensive.  They're not anymore.  And unlike a lot of things that are of lower quality now they're of higher quality.  I get that I'm a sample of one, but we have 3 TV's and no home computer (1 ipad and 3 kindles).  Total spend over the last 10 years for those items?  Less than $500.

That's comparatively different than your housing and college points, whose prices have soared rather than shrunk as more advancements have been made.
I was self employed and struggled for a few years getting it going. We lived on one income (the wife's) from 1995-1998 of less than $60k. We had three kids born during the same time and one diagnosed with type 1 diabetes in 1997. Life was a struggle and we didn't always make sound financial decisions. I owned a motorcycle and a boat at different times during that time frame. Sold them both after owning them for a few years. Both were bought at the right price and sold without a loss. The beauty of living in the midwest is that people don't want to store motorcycles or boats through the winter. So, you can buy cheap in the fall and sell higher (or at least break even) in the spring. Knowledge is power. The first book I ever read about finance was "Your money or your life". Not the latest version that talks about internet and Netflix. The old one that talks about the basics that a person needs to have to live a happy life. I've read it 3-4 times since. Not all of it translates to today's society, but the principles are still just as important. 

 

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