The sophistry of trying to define a stage of human life as not human so that folks can self-rationalize their behavior has fascinated me. Abortion is killing a living thing, a human thing. Is it murder? Is it a responsible choice? Is it society's business? Well murder is a legal construct, so no, not currently. Should it be considered murder? That is a societal question. To answer the question for myself I ask why society wants to interject itself into a woman's reproduction. Does society have such an interest in the subject that they ought to be able to dictate to a woman how she addresses the matter? I have heard the arguments about respecting life, all life, and yet I do not have such respect personally and I don't think society can reasonably make that case for itself, not given how we treat or mistreat others. I am of the school of thought that we, society, should not be our brothers keepers. We can offer aid, but we should not dictate behavior absent absolute necessity. Others are very much interested in having dominion over the choices of others. To those folks I ask whether they have mastered life and its myriad choices, and if not what makes them think they are qualified to run the lives of others.
Me, I would stand aside in this choice. I would allow a woman her privacy to do what is best for herself. I would say that she is in the best position to understand the greater good for herself and for the developing human inside of her. I think that choice would be better informed without the sophistry since, if that breaks down for the chooser after the choice is made, it may lead to lasting emotional damage and regret. The choice, if clearly and cogently made in the face of reality, probably not so much.
To those that have an abiding respect for life and a concern for our collective humanity I can respect that. I hope the principles which animate that belief also animate assisting others after the child is born.
My best to you all as you hash through this discussion.