When was the last time you rewarded with your vote the side that plays by the rules? Those for whom I have voted have never had the opportunity to demonstrate how they would govern so it is an open question whether they would play by the rules once in power. When was the last time you wrote eloquently about how no matter how flawed one side is that you must vote for them when they are night and day better than the other side? I do not believe I have ever eloquently defended choosing the lesser of two evils though in my personal conduct I am often a moral coward so I suspect I have made such a choice, personally, within the last 24 hours. When was the last time you didn't find an excuse to cast your vote to those that have the luxury of setting no example at all? November of 2019. Local elections. National races, well, I would not use the word "excuse", but rather "rationale", but essentially never, as a practical matter, much as you have ascertained or projected.