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Former NBC staffer accuses Matt Lauer of rape in Ronan Farrow's new book
I am struggling with later having, what she refers to as, "consensual sex after what she views as rape. I am not saying it wasn't rape and that what Lauer did wasn't appalling, I personally just have a hard time reconciling the sex after the rape. But never being raped I don't know if I could ever understand the aftermath and how I would deal with it.
thoughts?
She says it happened after a night of drinking with Lauer and others at a hotel bar. Nevils said she had six shots of vodka. Lauer invited her up to his room but, according to Farrow, Nevils said she "had no reason to suspect Lauer would be anything but friendly based on prior experience."
Nevils told Farrow that once in the room, Lauer forced himself onto her and raped her.
"It was nonconsensual in the sense that I was too drunk to consent," Nevils said. "It was nonconsensual in that I said, multiple times, that I didn't want to have anal sex."
Nevils also told Farrow that she and Lauer later had sexual encounters that were consensual. "It was completely transactional. It was not a relationship," she said.
I am struggling with later having, what she refers to as, "consensual sex after what she views as rape. I am not saying it wasn't rape and that what Lauer did wasn't appalling, I personally just have a hard time reconciling the sex after the rape. But never being raped I don't know if I could ever understand the aftermath and how I would deal with it.
thoughts?
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