gianmarco
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First, I read this when you first posted it and it was such a heartwarming post to read. Your acceptance and love shone through your post and Peter is lucky to have you. Peter is also undoubtedly the special kid he is because of the role modeling you provided. Best wishes to both of you moving forward.
From the medical perspective, especially for those that are likely unfamiliar with the process and transgender issues in general, I'll point out a few things. These decisions, especially a young ages, are not taken lightly. The care teams that take care of transgender patients who wish to undergo a change are comprised of multiple physicians and ancillary support that work together. You don't just come in and say I want to change and it just gets done. It involves countless visits and significant time to make sure it's the right decision. Research has also shown that the effects of not listening and helping patients change is far more detrimental. I know the belief for those that aren't familiar with it is that hormones and surgery is extreme, but the reality is that not doing so is actually more extreme for them. As pointed out already, the overwhelming majority of patients that undergo gender change are completely satisfied and would never want to go back. It speaks to how real this is even though that's difficult for most of us to comprehend.
Bottom line is that children that go through this (both younger as well as teens) have experienced and well rounded medical teams that are taking care of them and ensuring it's the right decision at the right time. There has been lots of research into this and these decisions aren't ever taken lightly. The evidence shows that, when appropriate, it isn't too early even in younger children if they truly fit criteria to change.
From the medical perspective, especially for those that are likely unfamiliar with the process and transgender issues in general, I'll point out a few things. These decisions, especially a young ages, are not taken lightly. The care teams that take care of transgender patients who wish to undergo a change are comprised of multiple physicians and ancillary support that work together. You don't just come in and say I want to change and it just gets done. It involves countless visits and significant time to make sure it's the right decision. Research has also shown that the effects of not listening and helping patients change is far more detrimental. I know the belief for those that aren't familiar with it is that hormones and surgery is extreme, but the reality is that not doing so is actually more extreme for them. As pointed out already, the overwhelming majority of patients that undergo gender change are completely satisfied and would never want to go back. It speaks to how real this is even though that's difficult for most of us to comprehend.
Bottom line is that children that go through this (both younger as well as teens) have experienced and well rounded medical teams that are taking care of them and ensuring it's the right decision at the right time. There has been lots of research into this and these decisions aren't ever taken lightly. The evidence shows that, when appropriate, it isn't too early even in younger children if they truly fit criteria to change.