Recent content by Vegasman

I do. Or at least I try. That is where stoic philosophy has helped

Could be. Who knows what people think? I am down to 2 drinks per day, right before bed. Never day drinking, or even at weddings and parties. For her part she has tried working out and gives me daily updates. Of course eating off others plates and snacking to unmentioned. So part of it is that...

Been a long time... Thanks to all that tried to to help me. Two years hence my first post here. After an affair with a much hotter woman, and way too much alcohol I tried a few things:Getting my drinking under control. Open discussions. Stoic philosophy. Therapy. again. Other things...

Selflessness or cowardice? I have been thinking a lot about this. Am I "taking one for the team" (kids) or just a coward when it comes to what I want? Wife says she is "trying" but eats seconds at every meal. And every time she does it is like a middle finger at me. And a dagger in my heart...

A few catch up things: -thyroid is good for 20 or maybe 30 pounds at most. The rest is behavior -been a bad few days. I am seriously considering the divorce route. But the thought of my daughter's reaction breaks my heart -yes, I know the argument that "its better for the kids if they don't...

Made me laugh...

She doesn't do that at least. But it is hard to hide. Size is not the big issue it's shape. She has a fat hourglass figure from behind. Its fat and wide but it's there. Just a HUGE belly though, and fat hanging down on the arms. I have seen big women with nice proportioned figures and they are...

Not even close. But if this is the kind of crap I have to read I will bid you adieu, and say thanks to those who had some empathy and advice.

I was going to say exactly that. I assumed we all knew these weren't meant to be exact. She refuses to tell me.

Spurred on by you guys I mentioned the sex thing. We were sitting on the couch and we out of the blue decided to lay down together. Just feeling that touch again made me excited; its been a loooong time. So I said I would like to have sex again. And it went straight downhill. It started out as...

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Absolutely fair to say. Maybe I do have it all wrong. As I have said, it makes me feel like a POS that I feel this way.

she hates it, and has "given up" but what makes me mad is that she never really tried. Not even more than a month of exercise. How do you give up something you never really started?

nothing major. Which is why I feel like a POS that it is such a problem

you laugh, but I even tried "learning to like it". Big isn't the problem it's the shape. Huge belly just hanging there