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  1. Its terrifying. I can't put my finger on it though. Shes always been like that. I think it might be a by product of all the attention she already receives for her looks. I mean I know every parent thinks their kid is pretty, but she really, really gets attention. Again, kinda weird for me to even discuss this but the best way I can describe it is that she has the "traditional" look. Shes got long blond hair, shes tall, abs without trying, and just overall beyond pretty. when we go out I have to walk with blinders on because dudes at any age stare at her. Girls look her up and down and grit on her. Its ####### horrific and bizarre. Home Depot isn't even an option anymore. I'm an idiot, so excuse me for what im about to say but when I think of attention issues I think of girls who have daddy issues. She doesn't or I don't think she does. We talk all the time and about almost everything. I mean, she talks about a lot of the "girl stuff" with her mother but pretty much everything else is on the table. I tell her I love her and she tells me the same. Ive never understood it.
  2. TL/DR 15 y/o daughter is asking about weed. Says she may want to try it. “Everyone is doing it”. More info: I have two girls, 13 & 15. They’re great kids. Both play sports and take dance classes. We are very involved parents. We talk about difficult subjects and try to be as honest as we can with them at all times. So this morning my wife tells me the 15 y/o is asking about weed. My first reaction is to scream and tell her she’s an f’n idiot but obviously I don’t. (I do tell that to the wife and then settle into what we should actually do). Background on the daughter: -Sweet/kind hearted - Incredibly neat and organized. Like, has almost every iPhone/pad/pod charger she’s ever received n their boxes and only uses one at a time until it breaks. Unused shoes and clothes. Like OCD types stuff but doesn’t have a conniption fit if you mess it up. Equally great with money. Likes nice things but unwilling to use her money on them. On the flip side, she won’t allow us to spend a lot on her either. Unless it’s on sale she doesn’t want it. I think she has almost $2k saved. Super gross to say this as a Dad but she’s more attractive than your average girl. All the boys chase her and all the girls hate her. Hard worker in both school and sports. She takes forever to do her homework but she will sit down and take however long it takes to finish and not complain. In basketball or track, she’s has al the stuff you can’t teach. Passion, heart, toughness. She has the Mamba mentality. So overall she’s a wonderful person. With that said, she does have some odd.... quirks.... Struggles a little socially in that she seems to be craving attention. If people show her attention she will gravitate towards them, good or bad. She seems to have too much (imo) empathy for people who make poor decision. We’ve had various issues in the past with others bullying her on social media, calling her an attention whore. (4 classmates were sent home for the last 2 months of their graduation 8th grade class). She lies. The wife has found texts and Snapchat conversation where she makes up the most unbelievable stories. They all seem to have the same theme of her having a bad home life. She tells people things like her parents are separated or that me or her mother are in jail. Weird stuff. Look, I won’t suggesting we’re the best parents ever but we do the best we can, we talk with our kids. We try to lead by example. We tel them we love them and hug them daily. We sit down for dinner every night. We have family movie nights. The kids have nice rooms, clothes and we make them healthy lunches everyday and we still put napkins with cartoon drawings or motivational quotes daily. The wife and I are both... animated? We fight hard b it we also love hard. We’re open with our kids that even though mommy and daddy fight sometimes, that’s pet of marriage and we still love and care about each other fiercely. We joke and laugh a lot. I would describe us as a colorful and loving, normal family. Ok, I think I’ve rambled enough... So we’re going to sit her down and talk about it tonight... So far the talking points we have are: - How she’s still growing and her body and brain aren’t fully developed. - It’s still illegal. She’s expressed interest in law enforcement/FBI/CIA type stuff. - Sports - she could get tested. -She’s mentioned in the past how she absolutely HATES the (laughing?) has the orthodontist/dentist has given her the once or twice that’s happened. - How it will Impact her little sister. Does she think her sister should try drugs and how would that make her feel. Penalties for trying drugs: - No more allowance (but chores still required) -Lose her phone -no drivers license or use of our vehicles in the future Like I said, this is fresh so that’s just me spitballing. Would really appreciate any and all advice. Criticism is also welcome with open arms. Please and thanks in advance.
  3. Since when did they worry about silly things like parents and trademarks?
  4. One death? As in only one death today or in the last 15 minutes?
  5. Greg is the only one who isn’t a complete sociopath. I’ll give you that.
  6. How are the folks outside of China fairing that have this? They getting better/worse or they haven’t had it long enough to tell?
  7. I was worried you guys didn’t get what the show is about. It’s amazing. The father is so horrible and I love him for it.
  8. Same at our house. I hate that they follow other people, especially the weird ones where they follow around the whole family. I often comment to them,” so you’re watching somebody else live their life Instead of you living your own?”
  9. No they won’t. Kids aren’t “forced” to watch shows just because that’s the only thing on. On one hand it’s cool for them but the flip side is they won’t be put into positions where they’re exposed to something that might not be in their normal wheelhouse that they may actually enjoy.
  10. Agreed. Just passing along what I’ve seen. Never been there so
  11. I think he’s an excellent father and at heart, below the facade and chronic attention whoring (which to be fair describes a lot of people), I think he’s a good person.
  12. That’s the scary part of you’re SF. The moment Mahomes goes into the 2 minute this game changes.
  13. Was wondering if the cartoon characters and the opening intro is the NFLs answer to folks not letting their kids play due to CTE
  14. I freakin love Mostert. Thought he was special the first time I ever saw him play.
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