Teenage Daughters - Shoot me now, please and thanks in Footballguys Free For All Posted February 6, 2020 37 minutes ago, NewlyRetired said: like others I am very impressed about the fact that she is asking about it. Just substitute weed for alcohol and most kids that age will just try and sneak it. The making up stories is a red flag for me. Girls, especially attractive ones at that age, can become addicted to attention. That is not something that translates well into adulthood. I would be focusing more of my worries on that, than on the relatively meaningless weed. Its terrifying. I can't put my finger on it though. Shes always been like that. I think it might be a by product of all the attention she already receives for her looks. I mean I know every parent thinks their kid is pretty, but she really, really gets attention. Again, kinda weird for me to even discuss this but the best way I can describe it is that she has the "traditional" look. Shes got long blond hair, shes tall, abs without trying, and just overall beyond pretty. when we go out I have to walk with blinders on because dudes at any age stare at her. Girls look her up and down and grit on her. Its ####### horrific and bizarre. Home Depot isn't even an option anymore. I'm an idiot, so excuse me for what im about to say but when I think of attention issues I think of girls who have daddy issues. She doesn't or I don't think she does. We talk all the time and about almost everything. I mean, she talks about a lot of the "girl stuff" with her mother but pretty much everything else is on the table. I tell her I love her and she tells me the same. Ive never understood it.