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Anyone have experience with ADHD and/or anxiety diagnosis and treatment with children under 10?
Wife and I are in lengthy process of getting evaluation with pediatric psychiatrist group to determine ADHD/anxiety/both with our now 7yo and then discuss those results with her main psychiatrist and potential medicinal approach.
After a couple years of absolute heart ache and heart break, we finally gave in and admitted life for her wasn’t normal, our issues and problems weren’t that of an energetic child. She survived kindergarten mainly because her teacher was a saint with immense patience and years of experience. She agreed with our quiet thoughts, ADHD but not at the point where it was disruptive to her learning. First grade is a different story and her ability to concentrate on class, hope life, play at the park, anything is just a struggle. She’s smart, capable, funny, but completely unable to focus, keep eye contact, have conversations that remain linear, self play…her emotional intelligence either seems to be retreating or just not keeping pace with her friends. At home it’s a constant fight, she won’t/can’t do what she’s told whether it’s because she refuses to cooperate or loses focus and finds herself doing something else if you’re not directly on her. And the most painful aspect is after wild days/nights full of fighting and being told no so much she cries and talks about how she’s the worst and doesn’t feel like herself and wishes she wasn’t here.
There’s significant push back from the wife with regards to medicine, every time I think she’s back to being on board we’re back to “don’t want to zombie-fy” our child and what about food dyes and gluten?! I don’t want to “drug” our child either but damn if I don’t hate any conversation that starts with a “I found this on google”.
My main question to those reading is if you have experience with current medicinal prescriptions for either ADHD or anxiety and what you think of them and the outcome with child. Any research you encountered during the process I could look to. Anything else you think would be useful information
Wife and I are in lengthy process of getting evaluation with pediatric psychiatrist group to determine ADHD/anxiety/both with our now 7yo and then discuss those results with her main psychiatrist and potential medicinal approach.
After a couple years of absolute heart ache and heart break, we finally gave in and admitted life for her wasn’t normal, our issues and problems weren’t that of an energetic child. She survived kindergarten mainly because her teacher was a saint with immense patience and years of experience. She agreed with our quiet thoughts, ADHD but not at the point where it was disruptive to her learning. First grade is a different story and her ability to concentrate on class, hope life, play at the park, anything is just a struggle. She’s smart, capable, funny, but completely unable to focus, keep eye contact, have conversations that remain linear, self play…her emotional intelligence either seems to be retreating or just not keeping pace with her friends. At home it’s a constant fight, she won’t/can’t do what she’s told whether it’s because she refuses to cooperate or loses focus and finds herself doing something else if you’re not directly on her. And the most painful aspect is after wild days/nights full of fighting and being told no so much she cries and talks about how she’s the worst and doesn’t feel like herself and wishes she wasn’t here.
There’s significant push back from the wife with regards to medicine, every time I think she’s back to being on board we’re back to “don’t want to zombie-fy” our child and what about food dyes and gluten?! I don’t want to “drug” our child either but damn if I don’t hate any conversation that starts with a “I found this on google”.
My main question to those reading is if you have experience with current medicinal prescriptions for either ADHD or anxiety and what you think of them and the outcome with child. Any research you encountered during the process I could look to. Anything else you think would be useful information