Clifford, it's not like I don't sympathize with what you're trying to say. But the reason that Rooster Cogburn is a hero is because he makes money being a hero. Films like that are made because that's what people want to see.
Do you remember about 20 years ago when the film "Boys In The Hood" came out? The release of that film coincided somewhat with the Rodney King Riots, and I remember at the time there were cast members speaking out and complaining that there were too many gun stores and liquor stores in black neighborhoods, and asking why? The implication was that this was some sort of societal plot. Well, I'm a commercial real estate agent, and they never bothered to ask this question to anyone in my profession. The reason there are gun stores and liquor stores in many black neighborhoods is because they make good money there. Their sales are high in those areas. That's it; end of explanation.
We cannot change the way people think. Our television and movie culture reflects what the public wants; it's not set. When it' is set, it's on accident. Nobody has ever found a way to shape public opinion.
I know this. My point is that talking about video games without examining the other 10,000 ways our society actively promotes guns and violence to kids is ridiculous. I do not think we can wave a magic wand and make this happen. However, we do know that our ultra-violent culture is unique in the first world, and we do know that other countries with similar socio-economic conditions and similar demographics have managed to achieve far lower violent crime rates. And we do know that most of the countries that do have far greater gun restrictions than we do.
Yet we sit here, with kids killing kids with guns, and wonder what the hell we can do about this.
On the military service thing, I almost didn't put that as I knew it would prove a non-sequiter, so I withdraw it now. But let's face it: you can't really support the troops without supporting what they do and what they sign up for. So by having a society where you are automatically a pariah if you don't support the troops, you also have a society where support of violent military conflict is basically a given.
American society promotes violence as a means to solve conflict. And it occurs on all levels. So when a child attempts to solve their personal problems with violent means, it doesn't surprise me at all. The fact that easy access to guns provides much easier means to do violence to many more people doesn't surprise me either.
I'm saying this because I have lived outside this country and seen how easy it is for a society to not promote violence. But I was living in a small central European country, not the big, bad, buttkicking United States.