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My 13 year old is starting club softball this summer. Should be fun.
Who's this so I can root for him?Grandaughter's husband drafted and signed by the Vikings, nice little bonus and if he sticks the 4 years should be fine. Late bloomer due to getting serious once ,twice a father so see him succeeding if health holds up.
I would say at life if you translate the lesson which is my main objective to the kids.It really is a key component to growing up and getting better in any sport.
This is definitely what I am trying to teach my son.This is the other component that is really good to try and teach. In every aspect of the game there will be someone that succeeds (the pitcher in this case) and someone who fails (the batter). By definition this will always be the case for every AB that happens in your career. Sometimes the other guy is just better that particular encounter. Don't let it affect your next encounter. Every individual AB is a new chance to succeed so letting the failure of the previous AB affect the next one already puts you at a disadvantage. Getting to the point of understanding that and being able to use that is such a huge step in the process of accepting failure to a point of making you better.
This is the entire point in preaching that baseball is a game of failure. You will fail. It is part of the game. It's how you recover from failure that shows what kind of player (person when dealing with life) you are. Those that don't let it affect the next thing are the people that will succeed. Those that dwell on the failure of the past will likely continue that snowball road to total disaster.Dickies said:All it took was one routine moment of failure, which he has had many of over the course of the season and it snowballed into a total disaster.
Yep. I’ve never seen it affect him like that before, but I’m glad it happened now as a 10 year old than later in life. We will use it as a teachable moment for sureThis is the entire point in preaching that baseball is a game of failure. You will fail. It is part of the game. It's how you recover from failure that shows what kind of player (person when dealing with life) you are. Those that don't let it affect the next thing are the people that will succeed. Those that dwell on the failure of the past will likely continue that snowball road to total disaster.
My 13 year old is starting club softball this summer. Should be fun.
Nice!From experience...say goodbye to any summer plans. We start our showcase season next weekend and play every weekend thereafter until August with practices twice a week and lessons once per week year round. Met some amazing people and saw some seriously great softball. Some of the players that have been in organizations we've been in are playing in P5 schools and I get to watch them on ESPN.
EDIT: My daughters HS softball team won their district championship. We start the state tournament on Monday. She was the only freshman to make the squad.
This just came up with my son last night and he did not handle it well at all. First AB, he drove a 3-1 count to dead CF warning track. Second AB, hard hit ball up the middle that pitcher happened to snag. Third AB, hard hit ball up the middle past the pitcher that 2B ranged to his right and just beat him at 1B. 0 for 3 night and he was visibly upset. All coaches telling him hes hitting the ball hard. You can only worry about what you control, etc. I told him its the best game at the plate hes had all year. But his body language was very poor and when the manager went to go talk to him he turned his back to him and immediately got benched in the field the last two innings. A few minutes later, he walked over the the manager and apologized which I was very happy about. Anyway, he came up in the last inning with us up 12-5 and the bases loaded and he proceeded to hit a bases clearing double down the 3B line for us to finish the mercy. Im hoping (praying) this is a turning point on how he handles failure in baseball because it will happen again and again and again.This is the entire point in preaching that baseball is a game of failure. You will fail. It is part of the game. It's how you recover from failure that shows what kind of player (person when dealing with life) you are. Those that don't let it affect the next thing are the people that will succeed. Those that dwell on the failure of the past will likely continue that snowball road to total disaster.
If I remember correctly your son is 12-13ish? The fact he realized in game and apologized to the coach is a big step but he is nearing the age when the initial attitude is going to get him in bigger trouble than an apology can get him out of - especially if it is frequent.This just came up with my son last night and he did not handle it well at all. First AB, he drove a 3-1 count to dead CF warning track. Second AB, hard hit ball up the middle that pitcher happened to snag. Third AB, hard hit ball up the middle past the pitcher that 2B ranged to his right and just beat him at 1B. 0 for 3 night and he was visibly upset. All coaches telling him hes hitting the ball hard. You can only worry about what you control, etc. I told him its the best game at the plate hes had all year. But his body language was very poor and when the manager went to go talk to him he turned his back to him and immediately got benched in the field the last two innings. A few minutes later, he walked over the the manager and apologized which I was very happy about. Anyway, he came up in the last inning with us up 12-5 and the bases loaded and he proceeded to hit a bases clearing double down the 3B line for us to finish the mercy. Im hoping (praying) this is a turning point on how he handles failure in baseball because it will happen again and again and again.
Is your kid Sidd Finch?Through 3 games he’s batting 1.000 with 10 RBIs, pitched 1 2/3 with 5 Ks(and 2BB), and has caught 4 stealing. Not the stiffest competition but he’s been a beast in all aspects of the game.
Soccer? (Guessing, I don't know if there are defenders in soccer)We had our first tournament in lake tahoe a few weeks ago. she and many or her teammates were not feeling well. Daughter is their lead defender. She could barely play the saturday games. played sunday and did a very nice job. One of her HS teammates (a defender) is also on the team and did not play much on saturday and was feeling so bad they drove home.
We are having a local tournament this weekend. This is the first time she's looked healthy in a long time. She looked great in both games today (as did her hs teammate).
One more tournament in Bend next weekend, then Morgan Hill the weekend after that.
There are a couple of things coach dad would like to see her work on, but I loved seeing her excitement when was not forced to hold back.
Soccer? (Guessing, I don't know if there are defenders in soccer)
ahhhh.... yea, don't know that either but I really love seeing how it is exploding in popularity. I am betting my son ends up playing at some point.Lacrosse
I played hs, college, coached my old hs, then coached girls when my daughter started playing. Very fun sport.ahhhh.... yea, don't know that either but I really love seeing how it is exploding in popularity. I am betting my son ends up playing at some point.
That is a nice hitting streak! And I take it that it is against higher level players too.Against all odds my son’s team just won their home tournament, and he got the game ball in the championship game after hitting a walk-off single. So far this summer he’s hitting 0.857 (36-42) with 10 walks and 28 rbis. In the first game of the tournament he closed out the game with a diving play while ranging towards 3b to field a ground ball. He popped up and threw a laser to first to get the runner. In the championship game he was playing 3b and charged a chopper, fielding it bare-handed and threw the ball to 1b in stride to beat the runner by half a step.
As bummed as he was missing the all star team he’s having the time of his life this summer and he said today was his second favorite day of his life, the first being the day he got to meet Buster Posey. Having a proud parent moment right now.
That is like a hundred times better than my swing.I guess it’s time to join this discussion…some great videos here…my 4-yr-olds golf swing hasn’t accomplished anything…yet…https://youtu.be/ZYQ0G-JXzOI
Not the best competition to be honest, but he’s making the most of the situation. He hasn’t seen a lot of breaking balls given that our little league discourages kids his age from throwing them, but today he faced a kid who could throw a curveball for consistent strikes and after striking out on a breaking ball the last time they played, he really wanted to get a hit off of this kid. He noticed a difference in the kid’s delivery when he was throwing the curveball vs fastball. He knew a curve was coming, and he smoked it off the fence down the left field line.That is a nice hitting streak! And I take it that it is against higher level players too.
Yea, that was the end of my baseball... I couldn't pick up on any of that crap. Jeff Weaver was on our team (thank goodness because I did not want to go up against him at bat... it was bad enough when he threw to first... hurt my hand with a bad catch and one of his heaters once) and though no other pitchers could touch him.... I always remember the moment I knew baseball was done for me. At bat and pitch comes, and hit the dirt thinking it was going to tag me.... then I hear strike 3 and the catcher laughing.... never played again after that season.Not the best competition to be honest, but he’s making the most of the situation. He hasn’t seen a lot of breaking balls given that our little league discourages kids his age from throwing them, but today he faced a kid who could throw a curveball for consistent strikes and after striking out on a breaking ball the last time they played, he really wanted to get a hit off of this kid. He noticed a difference in the kid’s delivery when he was throwing the curveball vs fastball. He knew a curve was coming, and he smoked it off the fence down the left field line.
I would have never noticed the different delivery, but he told the rest of his team and it changed the game for them. The pitcher who was just chewing up the lineup got turned into a punching bag and the boys ended up getting the win.
I umpire a bunch, and what you described is probably my favorite call.Yea, that was the end of my baseball... I couldn't pick up on any of that crap. Jeff Weaver was on our team (thank goodness because I did not want to go up against him at bat... it was bad enough when he threw to first... hurt my hand with a bad catch and one of his heaters once) and though no other pitchers could touch him.... I always remember the moment I knew baseball was done for me. At bat and pitch comes, and hit the dirt thinking it was going to tag me.... then I hear strike 3 and the catcher laughing.... never played again after that season.
Bo Jackson has a camp around here for football and baseball and they did the football camp a couple of weeks ago. They loved it. The coach actually wanted to work with my older son extra after practice a couple of days. Once with just him and a couple of other times with a couple of other kids.Football camp in the books. I’m helping as assistant coach again. First practice is Tuesday and first game August 13th. Our church rents out a local water park each summer as an end to summer celebration. My wife asked him if he wanted to go and he said no - wants to go to practice. Surprised an 11 yo would miss out on a water park for practice.
We drafted our team Thursday night. Went the “defense wins championship” route and have an All Star DL. Coach wants to try my son at strong safety. Time to YouTube Ronnie Lott videos.
Nice if he’s playing 4th grade and can work to the second level. I’m constantly riding my 6th graders about this. If the guy they think they should block isn’t there, they stand around wondering what to do.First scrimmage with another team...
My son, 4th grade, played LG and DE. Started at LG and came in off bench at DE. He was.... well.... without being a Daddy overzealous..... dominant. On his team he is right around 3rd tallest (two kids are clearly taller than him and then there are a couple of kids that are all about the same height with him), he is one of the fastest kids (can give any of the fastest kids a run for their money and is capable of beating them at times in sprints), and one of the strongest on the team.
As G he had 5 pancakes. 2 on one play. (He was in on less than 10 offensive plays as they scores quickly on their possessions). Consistently getting into the second level.
As DE the stats were not much... prob 1 tackle but he into the backfield every play. He had 2 "almost sacks" and 2 "almost tackles for a loss" (need to work on finishing the tackle and wrapping up), 1 not sure if it would be stated as a forced fumble but he hit the QB as he was in the process of pitching it to the RB, it got no where near him but was picked up by the other team and had one either tackle or tackle for a loss after a blatant hold (even for this level) and pursued with the play going away from him with a very nice tackle hitting mid section and wrapping up the legs.
I wasn't understanding what they were doing with him at G as they have the two biggest kids at tackle. He played tackle last season. But I think they want to try to hold those edges and then have the guard go head hunt in the second level.... and my son did that. lol
I do hope that they have him start at DE too. He is clearly a force there... and one of his friends is a bowling ball DT that was getting some penetration too (one of the almost sacks was the two of them hitting each other off the QB who then escaped as they took each other out). He enjoys DE much more and clearly can excel. But this is a development team so they may not.
I am also proud of him as I have not heard him whine or complain about being a G. It isn't a position he wants but he is going out there and doing his best. On offense he wants to be a WR but for HS, I can see them putting him at TE. He is ok not playing WR now as they rarely throw.
Also, Thursday night practice, they had him co-leading the stretching which is an indication he may end up as a captain for the team.
The problem with him getting to that second level is that too many times he is "olay!"ing the guy on the line. But I mean... he can't be ready for the NFL yet being in 4th grade. lol He also has no concept of pass pro but considering they run it 97% of the time and the 3% is always a play action that isn't a big deal. Regardless, he is showing some real good potential early.Nice if he’s playing 4th grade and can work to the second level. I’m constantly riding my 6th graders about this. If the guy they think they should block isn’t there, they stand around wondering what to do.First scrimmage with another team...
My son, 4th grade, played LG and DE. Started at LG and came in off bench at DE. He was.... well.... without being a Daddy overzealous..... dominant. On his team he is right around 3rd tallest (two kids are clearly taller than him and then there are a couple of kids that are all about the same height with him), he is one of the fastest kids (can give any of the fastest kids a run for their money and is capable of beating them at times in sprints), and one of the strongest on the team.
As G he had 5 pancakes. 2 on one play. (He was in on less than 10 offensive plays as they scores quickly on their possessions). Consistently getting into the second level.
As DE the stats were not much... prob 1 tackle but he into the backfield every play. He had 2 "almost sacks" and 2 "almost tackles for a loss" (need to work on finishing the tackle and wrapping up), 1 not sure if it would be stated as a forced fumble but he hit the QB as he was in the process of pitching it to the RB, it got no where near him but was picked up by the other team and had one either tackle or tackle for a loss after a blatant hold (even for this level) and pursued with the play going away from him with a very nice tackle hitting mid section and wrapping up the legs.
I wasn't understanding what they were doing with him at G as they have the two biggest kids at tackle. He played tackle last season. But I think they want to try to hold those edges and then have the guard go head hunt in the second level.... and my son did that. lol
I do hope that they have him start at DE too. He is clearly a force there... and one of his friends is a bowling ball DT that was getting some penetration too (one of the almost sacks was the two of them hitting each other off the QB who then escaped as they took each other out). He enjoys DE much more and clearly can excel. But this is a development team so they may not.
I am also proud of him as I have not heard him whine or complain about being a G. It isn't a position he wants but he is going out there and doing his best. On offense he wants to be a WR but for HS, I can see them putting him at TE. He is ok not playing WR now as they rarely throw.
Also, Thursday night practice, they had him co-leading the stretching which is an indication he may end up as a captain for the team.
My son’s 6th grade team has started off 3-0. Todays game was rough. Hot and humid and the other team jumped on us 13-0. But we battled back and just dominated the LOS. I wouldn’t be surprised if we had the ball 12-13 minutes of the 16 min in the 2nd half.
My son just loves to tackle even though he’s a smaller kid (80lbs). He’s also getting the chance to play RB this season. He had two TDs in the second game. He’s been running upright trying to outrun everyone (as he’s pretty fast). Today he seemed to be picking up the nuances of body lean and using his agility to create space. He did have one run in the second game where he got super skinny through a hole. I still don’t know how he squeezed through it. It’s his second year of playing and it is so much fun coaching these kids.
My son and I went back and watched the video I took of each of his snaps. It was better than I even thought. 22 plays... roughly split between offense and defense. Every offensive snap he was either blocking his guy like 10 yards down the field or pancaking someone. On defense, every play he was in the backfield and was getting double teamed. The one play he pancaked the guy in front of him and stopped, apparently his strap came off and he was trying to fix it. On one play, I asked him if he was running full speed pursuing the back end of the play (cause it didn't look like it) and he was like "Dad, I was tired, I was playing offense and defense." I laughed and said that was fair.First scrimmage with another team...
My son, 4th grade, played LG and DE. Started at LG and came in off bench at DE. He was.... well.... without being a Daddy overzealous..... dominant. On his team he is right around 3rd tallest (two kids are clearly taller than him and then there are a couple of kids that are all about the same height with him), he is one of the fastest kids (can give any of the fastest kids a run for their money and is capable of beating them at times in sprints), and one of the strongest on the team.
As G he had 5 pancakes. 2 on one play. (He was in on less than 10 offensive plays as they scores quickly on their possessions). Consistently getting into the second level.
As DE the stats were not much... prob 1 tackle but he into the backfield every play. He had 2 "almost sacks" and 2 "almost tackles for a loss" (need to work on finishing the tackle and wrapping up), 1 not sure if it would be stated as a forced fumble but he hit the QB as he was in the process of pitching it to the RB, it got no where near him but was picked up by the other team and had one either tackle or tackle for a loss after a blatant hold (even for this level) and pursued with the play going away from him with a very nice tackle hitting mid section and wrapping up the legs.
I wasn't understanding what they were doing with him at G as they have the two biggest kids at tackle. He played tackle last season. But I think they want to try to hold those edges and then have the guard go head hunt in the second level.... and my son did that. lol
I do hope that they have him start at DE too. He is clearly a force there... and one of his friends is a bowling ball DT that was getting some penetration too (one of the almost sacks was the two of them hitting each other off the QB who then escaped as they took each other out). He enjoys DE much more and clearly can excel. But this is a development team so they may not.
I am also proud of him as I have not heard him whine or complain about being a G. It isn't a position he wants but he is going out there and doing his best. On offense he wants to be a WR but for HS, I can see them putting him at TE. He is ok not playing WR now as they rarely throw.
Also, Thursday night practice, they had him co-leading the stretching which is an indication he may end up as a captain for the team.
This 100% happened to me. It was the first time I ever saw breaking pitches. Pitcher was throwing a perfect game into the 6th and got me with this for strike one on a 2-0 count. I ended up ruining his perfect game by walking. Got cheers from the bench/parents. Then got picked off at 1st.Yea, that was the end of my baseball... I couldn't pick up on any of that crap. Jeff Weaver was on our team (thank goodness because I did not want to go up against him at bat... it was bad enough when he threw to first... hurt my hand with a bad catch and one of his heaters once) and though no other pitchers could touch him.... I always remember the moment I knew baseball was done for me. At bat and pitch comes, and hit the dirt thinking it was going to tag me.... then I hear strike 3 and the catcher laughing.... never played again after that season.Not the best competition to be honest, but he’s making the most of the situation. He hasn’t seen a lot of breaking balls given that our little league discourages kids his age from throwing them, but today he faced a kid who could throw a curveball for consistent strikes and after striking out on a breaking ball the last time they played, he really wanted to get a hit off of this kid. He noticed a difference in the kid’s delivery when he was throwing the curveball vs fastball. He knew a curve was coming, and he smoked it off the fence down the left field line.
I would have never noticed the different delivery, but he told the rest of his team and it changed the game for them. The pitcher who was just chewing up the lineup got turned into a punching bag and the boys ended up getting the win.
My son also has the first cross country meet of his senior season tonight. Our small high school of 200 kids has multiple state titles and numerous top 5 team finishes in state, but this year, he's the only senior on a team of mainly freshmen and sophomores, so expectations are slim. I hope he can not only be the team leader, but achieve the time and success he wants. His goal is under 16:00, as last year I believe his PR was around 16:30. He had a great track season in the spring, getting his mile time down to around 4:50 and being part of our 4x800 relay team that finished 2nd in state. He is a three-sport athlete who runs at 6:30 AM every day of the summer, putting in 600-700 miles over the summer, then goes to basketball practice. He literally never has a day off. He will finish the cross country season on a Saturday and start basketball practice on Monday (even though he's been going to optional basketball practices already this school year in addition to his cross country practice). Proud of how hard he works and hope he can be a great mentor to the younger kids on the team.My son started his senior year of cross country. He hurt is foot last Spring and missed most of track season. He rehabbed and trained all summer. Ran his first cross country race of the season and finished #1 with a time of 16:12. Last Fall he was all-state and finished under 16:00 to get there. Hoping he stays healthy and it's great to see all of his hard work pay off and to see him accomplish his goals.
What is the third sport? Cross country and basktball... ?My son also has the first cross country meet of his senior season tonight. Our small high school of 200 kids has multiple state titles and numerous top 5 team finishes in state, but this year, he's the only senior on a team of mainly freshmen and sophomores, so expectations are slim. I hope he can not only be the team leader, but achieve the time and success he wants. His goal is under 16:00, as last year I believe his PR was around 16:30. He had a great track season in the spring, getting his mile time down to around 4:50 and being part of our 4x800 relay team that finished 2nd in state. He is a three-sport athlete who runs at 6:30 AM every day of the summer, putting in 600-700 miles over the summer, then goes to basketball practice. He literally never has a day off. He will finish the cross country season on a Saturday and start basketball practice on Monday (even though he's been going to optional basketball practices already this school year in addition to his cross country practice). Proud of how hard he works and hope he can be a great mentor to the younger kids on the team.My son started his senior year of cross country. He hurt is foot last Spring and missed most of track season. He rehabbed and trained all summer. Ran his first cross country race of the season and finished #1 with a time of 16:12. Last Fall he was all-state and finished under 16:00 to get there. Hoping he stays healthy and it's great to see all of his hard work pay off and to see him accomplish his goals.
TrackWhat is the third sport? Cross country and basktball... ?My son also has the first cross country meet of his senior season tonight. Our small high school of 200 kids has multiple state titles and numerous top 5 team finishes in state, but this year, he's the only senior on a team of mainly freshmen and sophomores, so expectations are slim. I hope he can not only be the team leader, but achieve the time and success he wants. His goal is under 16:00, as last year I believe his PR was around 16:30. He had a great track season in the spring, getting his mile time down to around 4:50 and being part of our 4x800 relay team that finished 2nd in state. He is a three-sport athlete who runs at 6:30 AM every day of the summer, putting in 600-700 miles over the summer, then goes to basketball practice. He literally never has a day off. He will finish the cross country season on a Saturday and start basketball practice on Monday (even though he's been going to optional basketball practices already this school year in addition to his cross country practice). Proud of how hard he works and hope he can be a great mentor to the younger kids on the team.My son started his senior year of cross country. He hurt is foot last Spring and missed most of track season. He rehabbed and trained all summer. Ran his first cross country race of the season and finished #1 with a time of 16:12. Last Fall he was all-state and finished under 16:00 to get there. Hoping he stays healthy and it's great to see all of his hard work pay off and to see him accomplish his goals.