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I broke my back and it's awful. L1 (worst), T3, T9. It's been exceedingly painful and I'm in the dark on how to deal. Life-changing. (1 Viewer)

Harry Frogfish

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I got home after 3 days and then couldn't take a crap. Up the entire night in the bathroom trying, which hurt like hell. Had to go back to the ER and get an enema. Ended up on that bathroom floor in the fetal as well. Just pushing was serious pain. Took like 6 hours after also drinking some concoction. Got home finally and it feels like I'm getting stopped up again from the meds. But it hurts to just to get out of bed. And REALLY hurts when I move/turn the wrong way and the nerves go haywire. Takes you to your knees.

It wasn't a very hard fall. Definitely not one that should have broken vertebrae. That's the orthos main concern -- why they broke (slipping on a floor in my home running to the bathroom). Not normal at my age (55) and I am in decent shape and not overweight. Nor did I hit something at a very weird angle or anything.

My mind is as bad as my back now, as all I keep thinking about is if I'll ever do some of the things I love the most, like skiing. And I'm very concerned there might be something worse underneath, like what caused it, why so weak, those bones? It's hard to not think about all the ramifications. You wake up one day feeling fine, fortunate and happy. Hours later, your life is one serious question mark. I'm already full of regrets that won't stop swirling around my head. How my life will never be the same, where I went wrong, the split second that changed everything, etc. It's torturous. Especially being alone, doesn't help.

I broke 6 vertebrae like 3 years ago in a freak accident, so we're up to 9 now. It's hard not to think about what my back is going to feel like the rest of my life, especially 10-20 years from now, and where that will put me.


Anybody break their back and have advice? I'm going to have to change the way I live. Like yoga, diet and exercise I assume. I declined surgery, btw, and am open to any sort of long-term maintenance but have zero clue on what could work and what is just some BS treatment (of which, there are many I'm sure). I'm already getting ads for every type of back pain "fix" you could imagine.
 
Anybody break their back and have advice? I'm going to have to change the way I live. Like yoga, diet and exercise I assume. I declined surgery, btw, and am open to any sort of long-term maintenance but have zero clue on what could work and what is just some BS treatment (of which, there are many I'm sure). I'm already getting ads for every type of back pain "fix" you could imagine.
I did not break my back but I was losing all feeling in my legs in 2022 and it turned out my vertebrae and disks were squashing my spinal cord. My choices were spinal fusion surgery or being in a wheelchair or bed for the rest of my life, so I opted for the surgery with 2 excellent surgeons. Now my L4, L5, and S1 are bolted together, the bones have healed, and my spinal cord has healed about as much as it's ever going to. I've regained 95% of the feeling in my legs and I can walk, poorly; at home I just walk, anywhere out of the house I use a cane. Prior to my surgery I had some significant balance problems which have never found a diagnosis. After the surgery I developed problems with hip pain, knee pain, and ankle pain as well as leg muscles which stiffen up greatly on most days. My ability to get around and live my previous life is gone, and most of it isn't coming back. And you are right, that is tough to live with, very tough.

I can't give you advice. I don't know if yoga or stretching exercises or physical therapy will help or hurt your spine. I'd be seeing doctors, getting tests and recommendations and possible outcomes. Don't give up trying to retain or get back parts of your life. And for god's sake don't diagnose yourself beyond knowing all your symptoms. Take the symptoms to professionals and let them diagnose, and ask a million questions, and follow the most sensible path for you.

Just for information, my surgery wasn't bad. 4 hours getting cut open, adjusted, bolted together, and stitched up. 4 nights in the hospital.

Sorry you're going through this. I do know the despair and fear. Take that one day or one event at a time; to try to deal with the enormity of it all at once is overwhelming and not helpful. Pretty sure most people hear are sympathetic and some will be able to offer more help than I can.
 
I got home after 3 days and then couldn't take a crap. Up the entire night in the bathroom trying, which hurt like hell. Had to go back to the ER and get an enema. Ended up on that bathroom floor in the fetal as well. Just pushing was serious pain. Took like 6 hours after also drinking some concoction. Got home finally and it feels like I'm getting stopped up again from the meds. But it hurts to just to get out of bed. And REALLY hurts when I move/turn the wrong way and the nerves go haywire. Takes you to your knees.

It wasn't a very hard fall. Definitely not one that should have broken vertebrae. That's the orthos main concern -- why they broke (slipping on a floor in my home running to the bathroom). Not normal at my age (55) and I am in decent shape and not overweight. Nor did I hit something at a very weird angle or anything.

My mind is as bad as my back now, as all I keep thinking about is if I'll ever do some of the things I love the most, like skiing. And I'm very concerned there might be something worse underneath, like what caused it, why so weak, those bones? It's hard to not think about all the ramifications. You wake up one day feeling fine, fortunate and happy. Hours later, your life is one serious question mark. I'm already full of regrets that won't stop swirling around my head. How my life will never be the same, where I went wrong, the split second that changed everything, etc. It's torturous. Especially being alone, doesn't help.

I broke 6 vertebrae like 3 years ago in a freak accident, so we're up to 9 now. It's hard not to think about what my back is going to feel like the rest of my life, especially 10-20 years from now, and where that will put me.


Anybody break their back and have advice? I'm going to have to change the way I live. Like yoga, diet and exercise I assume. I declined surgery, btw, and am open to any sort of long-term maintenance but have zero clue on what could work and what is just some BS treatment (of which, there are many I'm sure). I'm already getting ads for every type of back pain "fix" you could imagine.

You probably don't know. but any chance that you have osteoporosis? As a relatively young male it isn't super likely, but still possible and with you having broken a number of bones on more than one occasion, it crossed my mind.

I ask because in addition to the normal pain meds, calcitonin is something that can help with vertebral compression fractures (assuming that's what you have), but is often overlooked in treatment regimens. However, it is really only helpful if you have osteoporosis (which is why treating physicians often overlook prescribing it).
 
I’m so sorry man. Back pain is super crappy. I so wish you relief and a road to recovery and comfort. Obviously be carful of the meds.

: Awkward bro hug pat :
Yeah, the meds have already been problematic. I got stopped up like never before and the first night home I spent on the cold, tiled bathroom floor in the fetal position because it's painful just to sit there. For 5 hours I tried, which hurts like hell, the pushing, but nothing. Got an Uber back to the ER at 5:30AM and was there 6 hours, yet again on a bathroom floor, to get it out. Drank that concoction and got my first enema. I couldn't go back and forth to bed because it hurt too much, took too long and I was worried about having an accident. The whole thing was so frustrating. And again, alone. They rarely checked on me.

Yet when I go without the painkillers, I am stuck trying to find a certain position that does not hurt or tweak any nerves and stuff, and then hold that position. It legit feels like a sort of torture all this. And so yeah, now I'm well aware I'm going to have to come off the multiple meds that I pretty much have to take to move and eat and to even sleep. So that will end up a whole other problem, the withdrawals, anxiety and moodiness, I'm sure.
 
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Sorry Frogfish, that’s really terrible.

There’s a lot I could say, but getting ready to run some neglected errands. A few quick thoughts/suggestions:

1. You need to stay ahead of constipation. If you haven’t already, start a scheduled bowel regimen. Something like Senna twice a day plus Miralax daily works for many people, though you may have to experiment. Dulcolax, lactulose, and enemas can be reserved if the initial regimen fails. And Colace does absolutely nothing.

2. Try to maximize non-opioid analgesics before taking harder stuff. Tylenol 1 gram three times a day scheduled, with as-needed buprofen (need to be careful for stomach irritation here) as a baseline. Muscle relaxants like Flexeril as needed can also help. And yes, Calcitonin works for osteoporotic fracture pain.

3. If non-opioids fail, don’t be afraid to use opioids to control your pain. Adequate pain control is critical for recovery.

4. Be especially diligent with physical therapy. You need to move to maintain strength and flexibility, which are essential for recovery.

5. Your docs should know what to check for secondary causes of fractures. There are several labs (bloodwork) +/- some advanced imaging, potentially. Osteoporosis in younger males can occur because of low testosterone, for example. But there are many other treatable possibilities.

You’ve already recovered once from a broken back, so you know it can be done. Good luck moving forward.
 
Yet when I go without the painkillers, I am stuck trying to find a certain position that does not hurt or tweak any nerves and stuff, and then hold that position. It legit feels like a sort of torture all this. And so yeah, now I'm well aware I'm going to have to come off the multiple meds that I pretty much have to take to move and eat and to even sleep. So that will end up a whole other problem, the withdrawals, anxiety and moodiness, I'm sure.
Once the pain is at a lower level for you, I can say for certain that a 1:1 transdermal balm or gel helps me considerably with both low-level pain and with muscle relaxation for 3-4 hours at a time and it doesn't make me high. It will not help much for pain like you're describing right now, though. I don't know if you live in a legal medical marijuana state or not.
 
Ahh man, so sorry to hear of such agony. Prayers work, seek out prayer networks, there are a lot of them. Slow deep breaths, focus on healing.
 
Sucks, man. Wishing you a speedy and full recovery.

Only advice I'd give (without having gone through this, but based on other injury recoveries)... Focus on One step at a time and try to avoid those negative thoughts while reaching for your recovery goals (I know, easier said than done)
 
I’m sorry for you Harry that really sucks. The one piece of advice I have is to shop around to find the best doctor you can, travel if necessary to make sure you’re completely confident in your surgeon. Some are definitely better than others, as is the case in all professions. Reach out to all your contacts for referrals. You want someone who does this work at a high level and has been doing it for many years.
 
I’m sorry for you Harry that really sucks. The one piece of advice I have is to shop around to find the best doctor you can, travel if necessary to make sure you’re completely confident in your surgeon. Some are definitely better than others, as is the case in all professions. Reach out to all your contacts for referrals. You want someone who does this work at a high level and has been doing it for many years.
It sounds like he declined surgery, but if he has functional deficits and/or intractable pain, that decision should be revisited.

But yeah, he would need an excellent surgeon for a redo-spine operation.
 
My only thing to add is to eat things you know will be super easy to push thru

-Avocados...just cut them open, slice them up, add a little salt, I'd eat 2-3 full ones a day so things move quickly and much easier thru your system so you don't have to strain as hard
@Nipsey was one of the first on these boards to alert everyone to the massive health benefits of avocados, loads of soluble fiber in them

avoid a lot of juices especially prune juice. Juices are mostly sugar

-Soluble fiber, NOT the kind you find in whole wheat bread as an example. Most fruits like bananas have soluble fiber.
Root vegetables like turnips and carrots will pass thru you more easily
Stone fruits like peaches and nectarines
Apples can be good but too much and you can get an upset tummy
Black beans and Kidney beans are excellent

-I would avoid read meats, take a lot longer to process and take effort typically to expel from your body, chicken, fish and turkey in smaller quantities than you are used to
Load up on the fruits and veggies

-I just wanted to offer you more than just my prayers yesterday but wasn't sure what to post.
One day at a time, one hour at a time, think hard before you eat because whatever you ingest has to come out and likely is going to be painful with your back
🙏
 
I know two guys that have had pretty serious back surgery and both are very happy they did. I have no idea what surgery would mean for you, but I guess I’m saying not to just dismiss it outright.

And I’m sorry you’re going through this 😢
 
Jeez man, I just read over in Joe's carpe diem thread that you had a broken back or something like that. Reading this was "oh my." I hope you get better, Harry. Nobody should have to go through this. Definitely be sure to take some industrial strength fiber supplements. I've been clogged from opiates before and it's not pretty. It's also my daily routine as I'm on Ozempic and that clogs everything also. Drink tons of fiber supplements.

Anyway, wishing you the best.
 
I've been thinking and praying for you ever since you posted this. I hope you heal quickly and you get to feeling better soon.
 

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