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I Don't Understand People (1 Viewer)

BillyBarooo

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Been that way my whole life. Emotions, motivations, psychology, and all those things that determine actions. It's all like a foreign language to me. Sure, give me some time to sit and think it through and I can piece together all of the "they did this, so he felt like that, which made her feel this way, and their friends do such and such to cause action X and reaction Y and then ultimately a solution Z." But put on a movie that weaves a complex story line within the intricacies and ambiguity of human emotion and subsequent decisions, and I'll simply try to enjoy the special effects and cinematography and sort it all out later.

I'm not dumb, either. IQ of 150+ (HEY LOOK AT ME). Successful in my field. Always near the top of my class. I can learn anything that is based on logic, technology, and/or tangible, defined sets of rules. And i usually pick it up pretty quickly.

Even this message is challenging to write as I struggle to identify my own emotions, motivations, and layers of consciousness. Anyway, carry on.

Oh wait, this wasn't the anonymous confessions thread?

 
You have the autism.

:NTTAWWT:

 
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As your IQ goes to either extreme, the number of people that you can communicate effectively with decreases. Grady Towers developed the idea of an effective communication range of +/- 30 IQ points from your score. At 150, that leaves about 10% of the population. At 140, it's about 25% and and 180, it's only 0.1%.

 
Not quite to that extent. But in a similar vein. While I can usually see what's coming, I just don't understand why so many people allow themselves to be ruled by their emotions. I know smart people who when faced with a decision make the wrong decision time after time. And it's almost always because they react emotionally.

 
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Not quite to that extent. But in a similar vein. While I can usually see what's coming, I just don't understand why so many people allow themselves to be ruled by their emotions. I know smart people who when faced with a decision make the wrong decision time after time. And it's almost always because they react emotionally.
I can answer that b/c i used to be one of those people. I barely understood my emotions let alone those of others. So, when faced with a decision that was presented using tone, content, or inflection intended to stir emotion, I always let raw emotion take over. Overriding the logical response that I knew to be appropriate. The emotional response ran amok because I had no way to understand it and control it.

Luckily that is one thing I've learned to do. Identify, categorize, and then correctly place my initial emotional response into the array of actual and possible responses. Giving me a good deal of control over it most of the time.

 
Been that way my whole life. Emotions, motivations, psychology, and all those things that determine actions. It's all like a foreign language to me. Sure, give me some time to sit and think it through and I can piece together all of the "they did this, so he felt like that, which made her feel this way, and their friends do such and such to cause action X and reaction Y and then ultimately a solution Z." But put on a movie that weaves a complex story line within the intricacies and ambiguity of human emotion and subsequent decisions, and I'll simply try to enjoy the special effects and cinematography and sort it all out later.

I'm not dumb, either. IQ of 150+ (HEY LOOK AT ME). Successful in my field. Always near the top of my class. I can learn anything that is based on logic, technology, and/or tangible, defined sets of rules. And i usually pick it up pretty quickly.

Even this message is challenging to write as I struggle to identify my own emotions, motivations, and layers of consciousness. Anyway, carry on.

Oh wait, this wasn't the anonymous confessions thread?
yes, I'm quoting and replying to my own original post. what of it?

Actually doing it b/c there's another facet...I'm athletic, not bad looking, and generally popular back when that meant something. So I've been given every opportunity in life to be great with people, to have them want to be around me, and to genuinely like me. But I just can't do it and always end up trashing relationships (personal and professional). Like a kid riding a bike and the wheels slowly start to wobble and twist, eventually throwing everything and everyone around into a massive pileup.

 
Sounds like you might be a sociopath.
:kicksrock: I've never hit or hurt another human being. I feel tremendous guilt at almost all times. I apologize often. An most importantly I believe that truth is concrete and independent of what I or any other human being says.

So, no. I'm not a sociopath. Try again

 
Been that way my whole life. Emotions, motivations, psychology, and all those things that determine actions. It's all like a foreign language to me. Sure, give me some time to sit and think it through and I can piece together all of the "they did this, so he felt like that, which made her feel this way, and their friends do such and such to cause action X and reaction Y and then ultimately a solution Z." But put on a movie that weaves a complex story line within the intricacies and ambiguity of human emotion and subsequent decisions, and I'll simply try to enjoy the special effects and cinematography and sort it all out later.

I'm not dumb, either. IQ of 150+ (HEY LOOK AT ME). Successful in my field. Always near the top of my class. I can learn anything that is based on logic, technology, and/or tangible, defined sets of rules. And i usually pick it up pretty quickly.

Even this message is challenging to write as I struggle to identify my own emotions, motivations, and layers of consciousness. Anyway, carry on.

Oh wait, this wasn't the anonymous confessions thread?
yes, I'm quoting and replying to my own original post. what of it?

Actually doing it b/c there's another facet...I'm athletic, not bad looking, and generally popular back when that meant something. So I've been given every opportunity in life to be great with people, to have them want to be around me, and to genuinely like me. But I just can't do it and always end up trashing relationships (personal and professional). Like a kid riding a bike and the wheels slowly start to wobble and twist, eventually throwing everything and everyone around into a massive pileup.
Aspergers with borderline personality d/o??

 
My IQ is 176
No, it's not. That's not me calling you dumb.

It's just incredibly unlikely that you actually have an IQ of 176.

And having read a ton of your posts, it's even less likely.
You dont know anything about what an I.Q. is

As unlikely as it is that does not mean it isnt true

And I am prepared to prove it
Online IQ tests aren't remotely accurate. I took one drunk in college at 3 am and got a 150.

 
My IQ is 176
No, it's not. That's not me calling you dumb.

It's just incredibly unlikely that you actually have an IQ of 176.

And having read a ton of your posts, it's even less likely.
You dont know anything about what an I.Q. isAs unlikely as it is that does not mean it isnt true

And I am prepared to prove it
Online IQ tests aren't remotely accurate. I took one drunk in college at 3 am and got a 150.
Im talking about a real official one. I have never taken an online test

 
My IQ is 176

We could be friends
I'll eat my shorts if you have a 176 IQ.
Put your money where your mouth is.I will take that challenge.
I don't know about all this but the imagery of Christo chewing on some enormous tighty whities is pretty awful.
If I score under 150 I will eat his underwear.

Between 150 -175 i will call it even

176 and he sucks his skid marks

Deal christo?

 
My IQ is 176

We could be friends
I'll eat my shorts if you have a 176 IQ.
Put your money where your mouth is.I will take that challenge.
I don't know about all this but the imagery of Christo chewing on some enormous tighty whities is pretty awful.
If I score under 150 I will eat his underwear.

Between 150 -175 i will call it even

176 and he sucks his skid marks

Deal christo?
Already walking back from the ledge, huh :lmao:

 
My IQ is 176

We could be friends
I'll eat my shorts if you have a 176 IQ.
Put your money where your mouth is.I will take that challenge.
I don't know about all this but the imagery of Christo chewing on some enormous tighty whities is pretty awful.
If I score under 150 I will eat his underwear.Between 150 -175 i will call it even

176 and he sucks his skid marks

Deal christo?
Already walking back from the ledge, huh :lmao:
If I am going to risk eating your shorts there has to be a range. An I.Q test can vary by several points each time a person takes one.Its also been 20 years which includes some potrntial brain damage. How would you account for that?

Nsme your terms

 
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My IQ is 176

We could be friends
I'll eat my shorts if you have a 176 IQ.
Put your money where your mouth is.I will take that challenge.
I don't know about all this but the imagery of Christo chewing on some enormous tighty whities is pretty awful.
If I score under 150 I will eat his underwear.Between 150 -175 i will call it even

176 and he sucks his skid marks

Deal christo?
Already walking back from the ledge, huh :lmao:
If I am going to risk eating your shorts there has to be a range. An I.Q test can vary by several points each time a person takes one.Its also been 20 years which includes some potrntial brain damage. How would you account for that?

Nsme your terms
I'm taking the under

 
My IQ is 176

We could be friends
I'll eat my shorts if you have a 176 IQ.
Put your money where your mouth is.I will take that challenge.
I don't know about all this but the imagery of Christo chewing on some enormous tighty whities is pretty awful.
If I score under 150 I will eat his underwear.Between 150 -175 i will call it even

176 and he sucks his skid marks

Deal christo?
So above is the posting of a genius... :enlightened:

 

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