Bull Dozier
Footballguy
"Wasted" was a poor choice of words, and I struggled to find something better. You're right in that it is not wasted, and I agree that wins and losses mean very little in the grand scheme of things. I get that arguing with refs in a thread about reffing isn't going to show the best light on myself as a coach. I'm not going to hijack it any further, to defend myself and waste each others' time, but suffice it to say I am confident I am doing things the right way and for the right reasons.If you think a ref can somehow waste your effort, then you aren't a very good coach. Until you get to High School varsity games, wins and losses mean very little. You should focus more on developing players and less on winning. Good luck with your career, Coach Knight.
Also, the money isn't that bad, but it isn't that good either. Some do it for the money (usually younger), some do it for the love of the game (usually older).
If you are in a rec league, you need to temper the expectations. If their isn't a governing body over your officials, you shouldn't expect much and just use it as a teaching tool for your players that they need to work through adversity.
My youngest plays traveling. There are a few different "groups" the tournaments pull refs from. One average, some groups are better than others. Running a home tournament for our program, and seeing the bill first hand, I do think I can expect a certain level of performance for labor I am paying for. That said, I do use it as a teaching tool. We actually have a kid this year, one of our best players, who has some emotional control issues. He almost got T'd up last weekend (I wouldn't have argued if he did and which would have cost us the game) complaining about a call. We had to pull him aside at practice this week and let him know that kind of outburst is not acceptable. We have a rule that kids do not question officials. The only one that does is the head coach if it needs to be done (that is not me). Officiating is a horrible job in my eyes, and I would never do it. I don't argue with refs or complain (usually) but I still do expect them to do a good job.
Of course. But it appears your are universally defending refs against those who haven't done it. I'll concede that a lot of refs do a good job and don't deserve the treatment they get if you can concede that refs that misinterpret rules that effect the outcome of a game deserve some criticism. You might be one of the good ones, and if I knew you maybe I'd want you to do all my games. But if you are telling me that since I never picked up a whistle I can't complain about the guy who checks his cell phone while play is going in, that's just preposterous.You are not getting paid enough. Why do it?
Is it possible that both the coach and the officials do it for more than just $$?