Congrats! Dealing with our 1st now - he's scared us into considering a much smaller team than we originally planned.
My experience from my daughter vs my son is boys are MUCH harder to deal with at the younger ages (though I am guessing this will switch around as they get older). My son does not seem to be happy unless he is attempting to break something or break himself. I honestly did not have much of a preference for boy or girl but because of the above I slightly favored having another girl because my son is a handful.
Everybody seems to say the same thing. Boys are MUCH harder when they're young. We have a strange dynamic. On our cul de sac, the last 8 kids born have been boys. But with our friends, we're 5-1 girls to boys...I know that with that population of 5 girls to 9 boys, it's VERY evident that the boys are nutso when they're young.
100% agree re. son not being happy unless he's breaking something or himself. He's already almost knocked a tooth out, and basically knows what you don't want him in and goes right for that. He also screams uncontrollably unless he's constantly in motion.
We're hoping that when/if we have #2, we'll get a girl...just to balance things out, but I am terrified of the thought of a teenage girl. My wife is the oldest of 3 girls. I'm an only. When I started dating my wife, her youngest sister was like 13. I got to see what that was like, and I wasn't a fan.