Yeah, I'm placing this squarely on the judge then.Does anyone thinking treating him this way is necessary to keep kids safe? Anderson and his family certainly don’t.
Neither does his supposed underage victim. The girl readily admitted that she lied about her age, and in this WSBT-TV interview her mother admitted that Anderson “didn't do anything my daughter didn’t do.” Everyone agrees the encounter was completely consensual. The only reason the police became involved at all is because the girl suffers from epilepsy, and when she didn't come home as quickly as expected her mom worried and called the cops for help.
In this excellent South Bend Tribune article, the mom told a reporter that she didn’t just ask the judge for leniency, "we asked him to drop the case."
But court records show that Berrien County District Court Judge Dennis Wiley (who once jailed a woman for 10 days over Christmas because she cursed while paying a traffic ticket in the county clerk’s office) paid none of the participants any mind. At sentencing he told Anderson, "You went online, to use a fisherman's expression, trolling for women to meet and have sex with. That seems to be part of our culture now: meet, hook up, have sex, sayonara. Totally inappropriate behavior. There is no excuse for this whatsoever."
Now, in addition to registering as a sex offender, Anderson will spend five years on probation, during which time he will not be allowed to live in a home where there is internet access or a smart phone. He will obviously have to change his major. And he is forbidden to talk to anyone under age 17, except his brothers.
FBG lawyers probably say the age of consent is 16. She wasnt 16, therefore, can not consent.Yeah, I'm placing this squarely on the judge then.Does anyone thinking treating him this way is necessary to keep kids safe? Anderson and his family certainly don’t.
Neither does his supposed underage victim. The girl readily admitted that she lied about her age, and in this WSBT-TV interview her mother admitted that Anderson “didn't do anything my daughter didn’t do.” Everyone agrees the encounter was completely consensual. The only reason the police became involved at all is because the girl suffers from epilepsy, and when she didn't come home as quickly as expected her mom worried and called the cops for help.
In this excellent South Bend Tribune article, the mom told a reporter that she didn’t just ask the judge for leniency, "we asked him to drop the case."
What say the FBG Lawyers?
The judge is a ####. Prosecutor too.Yeah, I'm placing this squarely on the judge then.Does anyone thinking treating him this way is necessary to keep kids safe? Anderson and his family certainly don’t.
Neither does his supposed underage victim. The girl readily admitted that she lied about her age, and in this WSBT-TV interview her mother admitted that Anderson “didn't do anything my daughter didn’t do.” Everyone agrees the encounter was completely consensual. The only reason the police became involved at all is because the girl suffers from epilepsy, and when she didn't come home as quickly as expected her mom worried and called the cops for help.
In this excellent South Bend Tribune article, the mom told a reporter that she didn’t just ask the judge for leniency, "we asked him to drop the case."
What say the FBG Lawyers?
The 25 years is registering as a sex offender. He'll only spent 90 days in jail.this happened to a friend/acquaintance of mine. kid's life got proper ####ed for dating a white girl a few years younger than him. don't remember how long he was in for- definitely not 25 years.
This might make it better, if imperfect. The kid got ninety days, 25 years on the sex offender registry. Still sucks, and is still a perversion of justice, but not as bad as jail for twenty-five years.this happened to a friend/acquaintance of mine. kid's life got proper ####ed for dating a white girl a few years younger than him. don't remember how long he was in for- definitely not 2
Not only is it appropriate, but it's awesome.At sentencing he told Anderson, "You went online, to use a fisherman's expression, trolling for women to meet and have sex with. That seems to be part of our culture now: meet, hook up, have sex, sayonara. Totally inappropriate behavior."
He also can't live in a house with internet or a smart phone for 5-years. That means he basically has to live by himself. If this were my kid, I'd get him out of the country and use my UK or Canada passport.This might make it better, if imperfect. The kid got ninety days, 25 years on the sex offender registry. Still sucks, and is still a perversion of justice, but not as bad as jail for twenty-five years.this happened to a friend/acquaintance of mine. kid's life got proper ####ed for dating a white girl a few years younger than him. don't remember how long he was in for- definitely not 2
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That part is messed up. You cant function as a college student without the internet.He also can't live in a house with internet or a smart phone for 5-years. That means he basically has to live by himself. If this were my kid, I'd get him out of the country and use my UK or Canada passport.This might make it better, if imperfect. The kid got ninety days, 25 years on the sex offender registry. Still sucks, and is still a perversion of justice, but not as bad as jail for twenty-five years.this happened to a friend/acquaintance of mine. kid's life got proper ####ed for dating a white girl a few years younger than him. don't remember how long he was in for- definitely not 2
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Judge is a complete ##########.
He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
Michigan.If the girl admits to lying, how did the kid break the law? Do you have to ask for ID before you bang some random now? I assume the responsibility is on the banger to verify the age of the bangee?
This has to be the bible belt, yes?
Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
From the article:Seems ripe for appeal no?
Have you seen some of these girls?feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
Ive already said I dont know what the answer is. What if she was 12? 11? 10? At what point is it Ok to believe her?And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
Lots of 17 year-olds don't have much upstairs and those that have been around very well may mow the grass down below.feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
My 13yo daughter has been served alcohol before. No way can you tell in some cases.feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
I'd assume most 10yo girls aren't going to look 17 but it's not a stretch for a 14/15yo.Ive already said I dont know what the answer is. What if she was 12? 11? 10? At what point is it Ok to believe her?And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
Lots of 17 year-olds don't have much upstairs and those that have been around very well may mow the grass down below.feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on![]()
looks alone, yeah a lot of 14 year olds can pass for 17+, but I feel like I could spot a 14-year-old just by having one conversation with her.My 13yo daughter has been served alcohol before. No way can you tell in some cases.feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
To be honest, I dont want statutory rape to have a grey area. The laws can change as indicated in the article, but for now, its pretty cut and dry.I'd assume most 10yo girls aren't going to look 17 but it's not a stretch for a 14/15yo.Ive already said I dont know what the answer is. What if she was 12? 11? 10? At what point is it Ok to believe her?And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.
You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()
OKLots of 17 year-olds don't have much upstairs and those that have been around very well may mow the grass down below.feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
looks alone, yeah a lot of 14 year olds can pass for 17+, but I feel like I could spot a 14-year-old just by having one conversation with her.My 13yo daughter has been served alcohol before. No way can you tell in some cases.feel bad for the guy but 14 year olds are still in junior high...he couldn't tell the difference? come on
Errrr...semi mythI mean how long ago was it ok for a 14-year-old girl to marry in the U.S.? It's still allowed in most of the second and third world. As soon as females are sexually mature there are gonna be bees flying to the honey, same as it ever was.
Most rape victims are male.Though it's hard to compare things like this, here's another link to a story that's similar IMO. 'Rape' culture seems to be trending to the point where if you have a penis, you are at fault regardless.
http://reason.com/blog/2015/06/11/amherst-student-was-expelled-for-rape-bu
I don't recall which talking head, but remember it was put forth that individuals (~99% men) accused of rape should be considered guilty until proven innocent. Under the 'logic' that no victim would ever make an accusation unless it had actually happened, as the crime is so horrible.
Actually, the way things are going, I can actually SEE this being taught in today's classrooms in school...You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()
I thought that was only rape victims in high school.Most rape victims are male.Though it's hard to compare things like this, here's another link to a story that's similar IMO. 'Rape' culture seems to be trending to the point where if you have a penis, you are at fault regardless.
http://reason.com/blog/2015/06/11/amherst-student-was-expelled-for-rape-bu
I don't recall which talking head, but remember it was put forth that individuals (~99% men) accused of rape should be considered guilty until proven innocent. Under the 'logic' that no victim would ever make an accusation unless it had actually happened, as the crime is so horrible.
I'm able to put myself back to my 18/19yo partying self and can't imagine meeting a girl at a party and asking her for ID before we go somewhere to ####.You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()
I wouldn't have either, but it's a different world. I know I'll be talking to my son about being extra careful.I'm able to put myself back to my 18/19yo partying self and can't imagine meeting a girl at a party and asking her for ID before we go somewhere to ####.You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()
Between this and the Amherst college story, it will soon be a very good idea to have a portable copy machine to get a copy of the id and a signed affadavit indicating her consent.I'm able to put myself back to my 18/19yo partying self and can't imagine meeting a girl at a party and asking her for ID before we go somewhere to ####.You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()
You must be soft on crime.The judge and prosecution should all be tarred and feathered and made examples off. Or at the least, strung up in the public square
Certainly, but I know I still wouldn't stop in the heat of the moment to ask for ID. Even now, knowing what I know.I wouldn't have either, but it's a different world. I know I'll be talking to my son about being extra careful.I'm able to put myself back to my 18/19yo partying self and can't imagine meeting a girl at a party and asking her for ID before we go somewhere to ####.You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()
But there is no way you talk to her as she's bragging about her new bike with the basket with a flower on it that she got for Christmas and telling you who her favorite NKOTB/Back Street Boy/One Direction guy is and not at least think that talking a little further might be a good idea. I think anyone that starts sticking it anywhere that will have them at parties without even getting a feel for the age involved, is certainly rolling the dice on jail time.I'm able to put myself back to my 18/19yo partying self and can't imagine meeting a girl at a party and asking her for ID before we go somewhere to ####.You can laugh, but who makes the choice on whether it was plausible for the kid to believe she was the age she said she was? Do you want individual judges making the call?If he doesn't know her then yes. I know this case is stupid, but not every one is. As stupid as the thought of "carding" some girl that wants to sleep with you as far as the law is concerned ignorance is not an excuse.And she said she was 17. What's he supposed to do, card her?Most states have 16 as the age, not 18. Like I said, I dont know what the answer is, but I know ignorance doesnt excuse one from the law.He didn't know she was 14. I was over 18 and my wife under when we first "hooked up." Not unusual for 18+yo males to have sex with 17yo girls. No way should they have their life ruined because of it.I dont know where you draw the line? The guy was 19, the girl, 14. Yep, she lied, but what if the guy was 25? Would you feel bad for him then? I dont know what the answer is, but a 19 year old being with a 14 year old isnt right IMO.![]()