Everyone here is being pretty harsh on the doctor (Report her? Really?). There are a few things that could have been handled better but I think this is a case of personalities clashing.
BP: Patients lie. They lie all the time, especially men. Truth is, his BP was consistently 160-180 when tested in the office. That is VERY concerning. Consistently staying at 185+ is VERY bad. The doctor treated the BP she was seeing which was very high in a borderline obese patient. I suffer from white coat syndrome myself. With a doctor, I assume it's hard to gauge whether something is truly white coat syndrome and when it is a patient misleading or lying. Regarding the side effects, they happen. The cough is fairly uncommon, dizziness is usually an initial issue only until your body adjusts.
Cholesterol: It is hard to say without having the actual numbers. Do you still have the LDL/HDL figures? What medication were you prescribed, a "statin"? Again, in an obese person with above goal LDL, it makes sense to start on medication for it. Depending how high it is, it may make sense to give the patient time to try and reduce it given lifestyle changes. Again, it seems you were above goal "slightly", and it is a professional judgement call whether to put someone on a cholesterol medication that is pretty well tolerated other than some risks of muscle pain. There is no truly right or wrong call.
Calcium: Im a bit rusty on some of the lesser seen side effects. I could look into it more depending on what drugs your were on. Lisinopril I don't recall affecting Calcium. Poster states she said "bad". What if she said "elevated."? Its not like she seemed too concerned with this.
Other stuff: You smoke, gotta ask about chantix or stopping. Sounds like she pushed too hard which health care people should know not to do. Asking for about lab work and vaccinations is standard protocol. IE smokers should should have had a pneumonia shot. Everyone should get flu shot, etc etc.
Sounds like the doctors personal skills could use some work, but everything she did was professionally sound based on everything we have here.