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My GF said I have to come back (1 Viewer)

I think you need to drop the girlfriend (find one who wants that much attention), start internalizing some more things, and don't get too worked up over what people say on this board.
I made up the GF stuff tonight so it didnt seem like I wanted to come back

I do have a gf though she just doesnt know I post onbthe boards
That explains the no friends part.

 
I think you need to drop the girlfriend (find one who wants that much attention), start internalizing some more things, and don't get too worked up over what people say on this board.
I made up the GF stuff tonight so it didnt seem like I wanted to come backI do have a gf though she just doesnt know I post onbthe boards
That explains the no friends part.
The no friends is true. Especially after I distanced myself from the drug addicts

 
I think you need to drop the girlfriend (find one who wants that much attention), start internalizing some more things, and don't get too worked up over what people say on this board.
I made up the GF stuff tonight so it didnt seem like I wanted to come back

I do have a gf though she just doesnt know I post onbthe boards
That explains the no friends part.
I am betting it is the girl from the video, but he required her to dye her hair dark brown.

 
I think you need to drop the girlfriend (find one who wants that much attention), start internalizing some more things, and don't get too worked up over what people say on this board.
I made up the GF stuff tonight so it didnt seem like I wanted to come backI do have a gf though she just doesnt know I post onbthe boards
That explains the no friends part.
I am betting it is the girl from the video, but he required her to dye her hair dark brown.
My girl is from ecuador and has black hairNot the teen slut. That was 15 years ago and I would have never looked at her after that

 
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Only way I believe this is if you youtube a video about it. And put a penny on your nose at the end.
I might be able to do this. What kind of video?
:softball:
Softball?
Do you forget your own stories?
I never mentioned softball. I hate baseball/softball
:lol: softball means you set yourself up on a tee to get slammed when you asked "what kind of video?"

 
Only way I believe this is if you youtube a video about it. And put a penny on your nose at the end.
I might be able to do this. What kind of video?
:softball:
Softball?
Do you forget your own stories?
I never mentioned softball. I hate baseball/softball
:lol: softball means you set yourself up on a tee to get slammed when you asked "what kind of video?"
How was I supposed to know that? I wasnt even born yet

 
Only way I believe this is if you youtube a video about it. And put a penny on your nose at the end.
I might be able to do this. What kind of video?
:softball:
Softball?
Do you forget your own stories?
I never mentioned softball. I hate baseball/softball
Sorry... :karate:
I didnt start the first karate thread

 
DSP, serious post here from a guy who has been somewhat in your position (I got too wrapped up with a breakup like 6 six year, posted about it way too much on here and took ####, and did the whole threaten to leave thing - actually raffled it off and had 100 to leave which got trumped by someone actually paying me 101 to stay). Please consider the following points:

1. This board, for probably a myriad of unidentifiable reasons, is addicting. It's a bunch of like-minded guy who can speak their minds through the confines of a computer medium. For some of us, this board is a good outlet for some of us who have to act more conservative/quiet/humble/whatever due to our professional position. Conversely, it's easier to be more openly honest, and therefore more harsh than usual to people. It can get personal enough to make ayou want to leave, for some reason you can't. You aren't the first to do this threaten to leave spectacle and you won't be the last. And people will laugh at you. Stop. You want to stay, so get over being so sensitive.

2. While it's easy to use this board as essentially a diary, it's a public forum and doing so will come back to bite you. So far, in your short time here, you've given us every detail of your life, listed your real name, where you live, and your band name. If you don't slow this down it's inevitable that it will come back to bite you in your real life. When I was posting away about my ex, I stupidly released too much info, posted pictures of her and I, and got way too whiny. That led to the following god-awful real-life scenarios: 1) After some knucklehead photoshopped the head of my girlfriend from a picture I stupidly posted onto a very graphic gang bang porn scene, I had to explain to her upset father (who was a good guy) exactly what the hell led to him having to see it; and 2) I stupidly ignored the fact that one of my best friends frequented this board for fantasy football info and found all my pathetic threads, showed it to our group of friends (along with some girls I was close to) and I had to explain that away and had guys looking at me differently. None of that was worth whatever potential therapeutic benefit I got (if any) from being a ####### on a message board. Again, this is permanent and public. I seriously fear some of my stupid #### popping up if/when I ever run for public office, up for a judgeship, etc. You may not see the potential effect this could have on you now, but it'll pop up and you'll regret it.

3. The racism crap is terrible and has to stop. This board, while it has tons of members, is generally most frequented by guys with the economic and professional opportunity and freedom to be in front of a computer all day. While there are plenty of outliers and exceptions to the rule, generally the type of guy with that freedom is going to be well-educated. Well-educated people generally find racism to be dumb, irrational, awful, and that the person reflecting such views to lack any sort of intellectual credibility. In your case, while your life event sounded traumatic (although, on that aspect, seriously every one of us has had their heart broken to some extent, your story isn't that wild), it's a ####### terrible explanation for your racism. This isn't debatable. And you'll be viewed as a second class citizen until you change your view.

4. Once you do all this, this board can become beneficial and enjoyable. While this is a message board and people tend to be nastier to each other than usual and tend to joke a lot more, I've met probably a dozen plus people in real life here from this board and every single one was a very good guy. People have done some incredibly kind things to each other on here and some have even developed real-life close friendships and groups who get together on a regular basis. Additionally, once you stop narcissistically focusing on yourself, you can get a lot of great insight from guys on this board on a variety of topics. After all, this board has doctors, professors, physicist, film producers, and even enough lawyers to satisfy any lawyer joke you can think of. It's a good group you can benefit from chatting with, it's just a group that isn't, at least initially, going to give two ####s about your problems because, frankly, they aren't that bad.

So, relax, stop being so dramatic, tone it down a notch, and be normal. And for the love of God stop the irrational hatred of certain groups. It's such wasted energy.

 
DSP, serious post here from a guy who has been somewhat in your position (I got too wrapped up with a breakup like 6 six year, posted about it way too much on here and took ####, and did the whole threaten to leave thing - actually raffled it off and had 100 to leave which got trumped by someone actually paying me 101 to stay). Please consider the following points:

1. This board, for probably a myriad of unidentifiable reasons, is addicting. It's a bunch of like-minded guy who can speak their minds through the confines of a computer medium. For some of us, this board is a good outlet for some of us who have to act more conservative/quiet/humble/whatever due to our professional position. Conversely, it's easier to be more openly honest, and therefore more harsh than usual to people. It can get personal enough to make ayou want to leave, for some reason you can't. You aren't the first to do this threaten to leave spectacle and you won't be the last. And people will laugh at you. Stop. You want to stay, so get over being so sensitive.

2. While it's easy to use this board as essentially a diary, it's a public forum and doing so will come back to bite you. So far, in your short time here, you've given us every detail of your life, listed your real name, where you live, and your band name. If you don't slow this down it's inevitable that it will come back to bite you in your real life. When I was posting away about my ex, I stupidly released too much info, posted pictures of her and I, and got way too whiny. That led to the following god-awful real-life scenarios: 1) After some knucklehead photoshopped the head of my girlfriend from a picture I stupidly posted onto a very graphic gang bang porn scene, I had to explain to her upset father (who was a good guy) exactly what the hell led to him having to see it; and 2) I stupidly ignored the fact that one of my best friends frequented this board for fantasy football info and found all my pathetic threads, showed it to our group of friends (along with some girls I was close to) and I had to explain that away and had guys looking at me differently. None of that was worth whatever potential therapeutic benefit I got (if any) from being a ####### on a message board. Again, this is permanent and public. I seriously fear some of my stupid #### popping up if/when I ever run for public office, up for a judgeship, etc. You may not see the potential effect this could have on you now, but it'll pop up and you'll regret it.

3. The racism crap is terrible and has to stop. This board, while it has tons of members, is generally most frequented by guys with the economic and professional opportunity and freedom to be in front of a computer all day. While there are plenty of outliers and exceptions to the rule, generally the type of guy with that freedom is going to be well-educated. Well-educated people generally find racism to be dumb, irrational, awful, and that the person reflecting such views to lack any sort of intellectual credibility. In your case, while your life event sounded traumatic (although, on that aspect, seriously every one of us has had their heart broken to some extent, your story isn't that wild), it's a ####### terrible explanation for your racism. This isn't debatable. And you'll be viewed as a second class citizen until you change your view.

4. Once you do all this, this board can become beneficial and enjoyable. While this is a message board and people tend to be nastier to each other than usual and tend to joke a lot more, I've met probably a dozen plus people in real life here from this board and every single one was a very good guy. People have done some incredibly kind things to each other on here and some have even developed real-life close friendships and groups who get together on a regular basis. Additionally, once you stop narcissistically focusing on yourself, you can get a lot of great insight from guys on this board on a variety of topics. After all, this board has doctors, professors, physicist, film producers, and even enough lawyers to satisfy any lawyer joke you can think of. It's a good group you can benefit from chatting with, it's just a group that isn't, at least initially, going to give two ####s about your problems because, frankly, they aren't that bad.

So, relax, stop being so dramatic, tone it down a notch, and be normal. And for the love of God stop the irrational hatred of certain groups. It's such wasted energy.
This might be my favorite post ever. Sincerely.

A lot of crap gets flung around this place, but when you pull back the curtain, its generally a really great gathering of folks from all over the universe.

 
DSP, serious post here from a guy who has been somewhat in your position (I got too wrapped up with a breakup like 6 six year, posted about it way too much on here and took ####, and did the whole threaten to leave thing - actually raffled it off and had 100 to leave which got trumped by someone actually paying me 101 to stay). Please consider the following points:

1. This board, for probably a myriad of unidentifiable reasons, is addicting. It's a bunch of like-minded guy who can speak their minds through the confines of a computer medium. For some of us, this board is a good outlet for some of us who have to act more conservative/quiet/humble/whatever due to our professional position. Conversely, it's easier to be more openly honest, and therefore more harsh than usual to people. It can get personal enough to make ayou want to leave, for some reason you can't. You aren't the first to do this threaten to leave spectacle and you won't be the last. And people will laugh at you. Stop. You want to stay, so get over being so sensitive.

2. While it's easy to use this board as essentially a diary, it's a public forum and doing so will come back to bite you. So far, in your short time here, you've given us every detail of your life, listed your real name, where you live, and your band name. If you don't slow this down it's inevitable that it will come back to bite you in your real life. When I was posting away about my ex, I stupidly released too much info, posted pictures of her and I, and got way too whiny. That led to the following god-awful real-life scenarios: 1) After some knucklehead photoshopped the head of my girlfriend from a picture I stupidly posted onto a very graphic gang bang porn scene, I had to explain to her upset father (who was a good guy) exactly what the hell led to him having to see it; and 2) I stupidly ignored the fact that one of my best friends frequented this board for fantasy football info and found all my pathetic threads, showed it to our group of friends (along with some girls I was close to) and I had to explain that away and had guys looking at me differently. None of that was worth whatever potential therapeutic benefit I got (if any) from being a ####### on a message board. Again, this is permanent and public. I seriously fear some of my stupid #### popping up if/when I ever run for public office, up for a judgeship, etc. You may not see the potential effect this could have on you now, but it'll pop up and you'll regret it.

3. The racism crap is terrible and has to stop. This board, while it has tons of members, is generally most frequented by guys with the economic and professional opportunity and freedom to be in front of a computer all day. While there are plenty of outliers and exceptions to the rule, generally the type of guy with that freedom is going to be well-educated. Well-educated people generally find racism to be dumb, irrational, awful, and that the person reflecting such views to lack any sort of intellectual credibility. In your case, while your life event sounded traumatic (although, on that aspect, seriously every one of us has had their heart broken to some extent, your story isn't that wild), it's a ####### terrible explanation for your racism. This isn't debatable. And you'll be viewed as a second class citizen until you change your view.

4. Once you do all this, this board can become beneficial and enjoyable. While this is a message board and people tend to be nastier to each other than usual and tend to joke a lot more, I've met probably a dozen plus people in real life here from this board and every single one was a very good guy. People have done some incredibly kind things to each other on here and some have even developed real-life close friendships and groups who get together on a regular basis. Additionally, once you stop narcissistically focusing on yourself, you can get a lot of great insight from guys on this board on a variety of topics. After all, this board has doctors, professors, physicist, film producers, and even enough lawyers to satisfy any lawyer joke you can think of. It's a good group you can benefit from chatting with, it's just a group that isn't, at least initially, going to give two ####s about your problems because, frankly, they aren't that bad.

So, relax, stop being so dramatic, tone it down a notch, and be normal. And for the love of God stop the irrational hatred of certain groups. It's such wasted energy.
I agreed to work on amending my racism.

Im not worried about anything biting me in the ### in real life. There is no way anyone could make my real life any worse

Im not going to be so sensitive.

Ive seen a whore I loved gangbanged

I married a whore

I smoked crack and snorted heroin

There is nothing in the world that can hurt me. You and seahawk 17 are right

 
I was 100% commited to leaving the FFA. I started posting on the giants board making jokes about Warren Sapp but it was unfulfilling. So I started talking to my girl more

She said I texted her 82 times since yesterday. She has an anxiety problem and said she cant handle all my negativity. Mentioned something about "having her own problems"

I tried to explain that I had nobody else to talk to. She said I have to find another board or make some real friends. I dont see how I can make friends at 30yo

Im not very comfortable with coming back so I did some introspection. I understand why my racism is a problem. In my own defense I did admit it was irational

Anyway im willing to work on it. Edward norton was able to change so it isnt impossible. Im going to try to make some black friends. I havr a friend who plays in a local basketball league starting in the spring. He said I could join his team and the competition isnt too great. Im a pretty decent athlete so I figure this is a good way to cruise for black guys and not have to worry about getting facialed ( in the basketball sense).

I will put every effort in to becoming a better person. The stories about my marriage and the gangbang are very serious and I would appreciate no hits below the belt about them anymore. I want to make it clear my ex wifes baby is not mine and I did not abandon anyone

I cannot stop hating the wealthy. That would be unamerican

Ill try my best to be a better DSP but if you guys really dont want me I am open to a different message board if you have any suggestions
Just a piece of advice, if you join the basketball league and "cruise for black guys" as friends...don't introduce them to your girlfriend. Especially if they are interested in photography.
 
I'm not sure why you care so much about what strangers think?

The more you act like a little baby the worse some of the guys on here are going to act. They are sharks and you keep bleeding everywhere. If you are looking to vent, then do so, if you need advice take it from the people that are being honest with you. Let the rest roll off your back. If your stories are true with all that you have been through, I'm not sure why you can't handle some internet bullies?
You are right. I can take it

Im here to stay. No matter what
you, tim and woz are pretty much the herpes of the FFA.

 
You think he's gone?

He's not gone!

Thats the point...he's never gone!
I will if thats what everyone wants. Im too wasted to switch to desktop mode and make a poll so just vote on it here. Ill tally it up by midnight tomorrow and do what everyone wants
No you won't...you will just return again as DSP, or make up another name and the cycle will continue.
I will not stoop to using an alias. That is below even me
In all seriousness, you need some help. It sounds like you have some serious problems, brah.

 
I was 100% commited to leaving the FFA. I started posting on the giants board making jokes about Warren Sapp but it was unfulfilling. So I started talking to my girl more

She said I texted her 82 times since yesterday. She has an anxiety problem and said she cant handle all my negativity. Mentioned something about "having her own problems"

I tried to explain that I had nobody else to talk to. She said I have to find another board or make some real friends. I dont see how I can make friends at 30yo

Im not very comfortable with coming back so I did some introspection. I understand why my racism is a problem. In my own defense I did admit it was irational

Anyway im willing to work on it. Edward norton was able to change so it isnt impossible. Im going to try to make some black friends. I havr a friend who plays in a local basketball league starting in the spring. He said I could join his team and the competition isnt too great. Im a pretty decent athlete so I figure this is a good way to cruise for black guys and not have to worry about getting facialed ( in the basketball sense).

I will put every effort in to becoming a better person. The stories about my marriage and the gangbang are very serious and I would appreciate no hits below the belt about them anymore. I want to make it clear my ex wifes baby is not mine and I did not abandon anyone

I cannot stop hating the wealthy. That would be unamerican

Ill try my best to be a better DSP but if you guys really dont want me I am open to a different message board if you have any suggestions
You need to come to grips with your white guilt DSP. You need to hate yourself for being white, you have it waaaaay too good in life since I am sure you are very wealthy just from your white skin. You need to play the reverse racism card and actually dislike other white people. This is the new America and you really need to get on board with this. HTH....

 
DSP, serious post here from a guy who has been somewhat in your position (I got too wrapped up with a breakup like 6 six year, posted about it way too much on here and took ####, and did the whole threaten to leave thing - actually raffled it off and had 100 to leave which got trumped by someone actually paying me 101 to stay). Please consider the following points:

1. This board, for probably a myriad of unidentifiable reasons, is addicting. It's a bunch of like-minded guy who can speak their minds through the confines of a computer medium. For some of us, this board is a good outlet for some of us who have to act more conservative/quiet/humble/whatever due to our professional position. Conversely, it's easier to be more openly honest, and therefore more harsh than usual to people. It can get personal enough to make ayou want to leave, for some reason you can't. You aren't the first to do this threaten to leave spectacle and you won't be the last. And people will laugh at you. Stop. You want to stay, so get over being so sensitive.

2. While it's easy to use this board as essentially a diary, it's a public forum and doing so will come back to bite you. So far, in your short time here, you've given us every detail of your life, listed your real name, where you live, and your band name. If you don't slow this down it's inevitable that it will come back to bite you in your real life. When I was posting away about my ex, I stupidly released too much info, posted pictures of her and I, and got way too whiny. That led to the following god-awful real-life scenarios: 1) After some knucklehead photoshopped the head of my girlfriend from a picture I stupidly posted onto a very graphic gang bang porn scene, I had to explain to her upset father (who was a good guy) exactly what the hell led to him having to see it; and 2) I stupidly ignored the fact that one of my best friends frequented this board for fantasy football info and found all my pathetic threads, showed it to our group of friends (along with some girls I was close to) and I had to explain that away and had guys looking at me differently. None of that was worth whatever potential therapeutic benefit I got (if any) from being a ####### on a message board. Again, this is permanent and public. I seriously fear some of my stupid #### popping up if/when I ever run for public office, up for a judgeship, etc. You may not see the potential effect this could have on you now, but it'll pop up and you'll regret it.

3. The racism crap is terrible and has to stop. This board, while it has tons of members, is generally most frequented by guys with the economic and professional opportunity and freedom to be in front of a computer all day. While there are plenty of outliers and exceptions to the rule, generally the type of guy with that freedom is going to be well-educated. Well-educated people generally find racism to be dumb, irrational, awful, and that the person reflecting such views to lack any sort of intellectual credibility. In your case, while your life event sounded traumatic (although, on that aspect, seriously every one of us has had their heart broken to some extent, your story isn't that wild), it's a ####### terrible explanation for your racism. This isn't debatable. And you'll be viewed as a second class citizen until you change your view.

4. Once you do all this, this board can become beneficial and enjoyable. While this is a message board and people tend to be nastier to each other than usual and tend to joke a lot more, I've met probably a dozen plus people in real life here from this board and every single one was a very good guy. People have done some incredibly kind things to each other on here and some have even developed real-life close friendships and groups who get together on a regular basis. Additionally, once you stop narcissistically focusing on yourself, you can get a lot of great insight from guys on this board on a variety of topics. After all, this board has doctors, professors, physicist, film producers, and even enough lawyers to satisfy any lawyer joke you can think of. It's a good group you can benefit from chatting with, it's just a group that isn't, at least initially, going to give two ####s about your problems because, frankly, they aren't that bad.

So, relax, stop being so dramatic, tone it down a notch, and be normal. And for the love of God stop the irrational hatred of certain groups. It's such wasted energy.
That's some damn fine posting

 
You think he's gone?

He's not gone!

Thats the point...he's never gone!
I will if thats what everyone wants. Im too wasted to switch to desktop mode and make a poll so just vote on it here. Ill tally it up by midnight tomorrow and do what everyone wants
No you won't...you will just return again as DSP, or make up another name and the cycle will continue.
I will not stoop to using an alias. That is below even me
BS first of all.

Second...so, lying about what your GF says about this place is fine, witnessing gang bangs of 13 years olds is fine...but creating an alias is where you draw the line?

 
You think he's gone?

He's not gone!

Thats the point...he's never gone!
I will if thats what everyone wants. Im too wasted to switch to desktop mode and make a poll so just vote on it here. Ill tally it up by midnight tomorrow and do what everyone wants
No you won't...you will just return again as DSP, or make up another name and the cycle will continue.
I will not stoop to using an alias. That is below even me
BS first of all.

Second...so, lying about what your GF says about this place is fine, witnessing gang bangs of 13 years olds is fine...but creating an alias is where you draw the line?
Yes

How does someone else subjecting me to a video tape mean I did something wrong? I was only able to watch 30 seconds before leaving

Because I didnt go to the police?

 
You think he's gone?

He's not gone!

Thats the point...he's never gone!
I will if thats what everyone wants. Im too wasted to switch to desktop mode and make a poll so just vote on it here. Ill tally it up by midnight tomorrow and do what everyone wants
No you won't...you will just return again as DSP, or make up another name and the cycle will continue.
I will not stoop to using an alias. That is below even me
In all seriousness, you need some help. It sounds like you have some serious problems, brah.
Ive never disputed that

 

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