Ok, looking for advice from the FFA. (which is usually a mistake, but it could be fun). Here is the situation:
Heading to WI later this week with wife and kids to see the grandparents for xmas. We’ve all been locked down for 4 weeks, even more than normal (which has involved seeing....oh.....nobody), only trips to grocery store for necessities (short trip, fully masked)
Our plan is to stay with my parents for 4 days. Everyone agreed to follow this protocol. You can guess where this is headed.
So, 2 days ago, my 75 yo FIL (who lives in the same town, and is widowed) decided to see his married GF to “exchange Xmas gifts.” (Please god let that not be a euphemism) He called my wife to ask “what protocol to follow.” I told my wife “tell him to see her outdoors, maybe even with a mask.” Fast forward, FIL and wife talk - and she says “yeah, just be sure to wear a mask.” FIL then invites GF into his house (!!) for 40 minutes. They both wear masks the whole time supposedly.
Wife tells me. I get pissed. Basically, wtf did we bother taking precautions for if FIL was going to break protocol and see his GF indoors? They haven’t seen each other in person indoors since March. Why now??? (Note: married GF lives with her husband. She works from home, but the actual husband works in a factory. He’s around people - masked - 5 days a week)
My parents have basically said “do whatever you want but a) he can’t come in our house, b) if you all see him indoors, then you can’t come in our house afterwards.”
The whole point was to all be super double extra safe so we could spend Xmas together. Ugh.
What would the FFA recommend?