IMO you were needlessly confrontational. But I agree his comment was over the line (and also the exact kind of thing that's likely to get one suspended)suggesting one needs a mental health professional, simply for questioning why a child's physician was not consulted, is cool?
or - guess the ref understood that a legit question, one that did not require a visit to a mental health professional, was asked?
I know this is late and probably just going to cause trouble but somehow this was left out.I can only speak for me, but I was very open two years ago about wanting to err on the side of over-reaction as opposed to under-reaction. Not anything like welding people inside their apartments or anything, but remote school, closed bars and restaurants, etc. were all 100% fine with me in 2020. I was saying then that if we did everything right, it would look as if we overreacted in hindsight. No regrets about that.
Post-vaccination is where things really went off the rails IMO. It's weird that it's been almost a year.
Wrong post to pick out. Be more cool to the right posters.Be more cool to other posters.
Yeah, it’s common. Still, outside of those with proven deficiency, I don’t like the general idea of taking a supplement because:I guess I find it interesting because so many are in fact Vit D deficient, and most have no idea. Certainly true in northern climes.
The doctor might have better stuff to do than answer non-emergent calls too.ok.
so, basically, the info he was pressing for is that it is still roughly 3 weeks away.
got it.
so, why was it pertinent to come here, rather than the child's pediatrician? could the doc not have divulged the same?
btw, asking the above ^ is somehow now tantamount to needing a mental health professional.
yep, seems legit.
I honestly wouldn't care if the survival rate is 100x better than 99.98% (2 out of 1 million). I'd still get my little ones vaccinated. I sure as heck don't want my child to win the covid lottery if there are other options like a vaccine.Is it true that kids survival rate under 5 is 99.98% for covid? My kids are grown. If so do you vaxx yours?
Latest I read, it's looking like March. Although the 2 shot dosing is not as effective as they wanted, and they're testing a 3rd dose, they are expecting some benefit plus an early start towards getting the 3rd dose (once approved).So what’s the eta on the vaccine for kids under 5? I know i heard that it is close. Do we have a rough eta yet?
Have you seen data on whether the booster is preventing hospitalizations, especially in the ICU? There's no question that the unvaxxed are filling up ICUs and using ventilators - see below from Miami's public hospital. I wonder for those few people who are vaxxed and coming into the hospital for COVID symptoms, how many are boosted.Enough commercials urging people to get the booster due to the surging # of cases. False advertising
Why bother being reasonable?Have you seen data on whether the booster is preventing hospitalizations, especially in the ICU? There's no question that the unvaxxed are filling up ICUs and using ventilators - see below from Miami's public hospital.
Can't remember if I mentioned this in the thread already, but a few weeks ago I was on a Zoom where the Chief Medical Officer from Jackson gave a Covid update. He said basically what this tweet says, but a couple things I found interesting: First, they are still measuring "fully vaccinated" as at least two shots (or one J&J), and are not distinguishing boosted/non-boosted. Second, there is some reason to believe the outcomes for vaxxed vs. unvaxxed may actually be even more skewed than what their data is showing, because it's entirely based on self-reported vax status, and people may be lying out of embarrassment.Have you seen data on whether the booster is preventing hospitalizations, especially in the ICU? There's no question that the unvaxxed are filling up ICUs and using ventilators - see below from Miami's public hospital. I wonder for those few people who are vaxxed and coming into the hospital for COVID symptoms, how many are boosted.
>>Let’s do the numbers: from 360 unvaccinated, most are using our ICU/IMCU (~80%), only 5% of the 49 vaccinated are in ICU/IMCU and here for unrelated symptoms to COVID (heart attack, stroke or chronic diseases) bottom line vaccines work to keep you watching Netflix at home<<
https://twitter.com/david_delaz/status/1478784185225596931?t=NsqBcuQ0jtCIpFFD1OwVSQ&s=19
I'm talking about the commercials referring to a surge of cases which it's not right now. 2.5% positivity rate. The commercials are outdated.Have you seen data on whether the booster is preventing hospitalizations, especially in the ICU? There's no question that the unvaxxed are filling up ICUs and using ventilators - see below from Miami's public hospital. I wonder for those few people who are vaxxed and coming into the hospital for COVID symptoms, how many are boosted.
>>Let’s do the numbers: from 360 unvaccinated, most are using our ICU/IMCU (~80%), only 5% of the 49 vaccinated are in ICU/IMCU and here for unrelated symptoms to COVID (heart attack, stroke or chronic diseases) bottom line vaccines work to keep you watching Netflix at home<<
https://twitter.com/david_delaz/status/1478784185225596931?t=NsqBcuQ0jtCIpFFD1OwVSQ&s=19
Sounds kinda like the "who you gonna vote for polls". People are embarrassed to admit they're voting party with a gross candidate.Second, there is some reason to believe the outcomes for vaxxed vs. unvaxxed may actually be even more skewed than what their data is showing, because it's entirely based on self-reported vax status, and people may be lying out of embarrassment.
When wearing a mask is ‘strongly encouraged’ why are you making the students ‘conditioned into wearing masks’ into the ones that are the problem?Battersbox said:Illinois lawsuit resulted in a temporary restraining order regarding Pritzker's mask mandate for schools, so about 165 school districts are unable to enforce mask mandates beginning tomorrow (including ours).
My wife teaches in the district. I don't envy teachers tomorrow who will have to deal with kids who are conditioned into wearing masks butting heads with kids who are ready to do away w/them. Guidance is that masks are still 'strongly encouraged' but cannot be mandated.
I'm hopeful we won't have issues with staff and students shaming others into wearing them anyway, which would result in angry parents coming over the top at administration and staff, etc. What a mess.
I'm not. I'm worried students who are conditioned into wearing masks will feel compelled to shame students who choose not to wear a mask. I'm hopeful they will not. Teachers and staff could also do the same, but I'm guessing they will receive guidance to avoid that. Not sure the student body at large will receive similar guidance.When wearing a mask is ‘strongly encouraged’ why are you making the students ‘conditioned into wearing masks’ into the ones that are the problem?
So the schools want to have a mask mandate but can’t enforce it now due to a lawsuit. You’re worried about students shaming other students into wearing masks? The conflict is almost always with the parents who don’t want their kids wearing masks. Saying students who continue wearing their mask are ‘conditioned’ into wearing them is disgusting. Maybe they just want to do everything to keep themselves and their classmates healthy while following the preferences of the school district. Nah they’re just conditioned to do it and are probably going to shame others into it.I'm not. I'm worried students who are conditioned into wearing masks will feel compelled to shame students who choose not to wear a mask. I'm hopeful they will not. Teachers and staff could also do the same, but I'm guessing they will receive guidance to avoid that. Not sure the student body at large will receive similar guidance.
The reverse is also true: once mandates are dropped permanently I would worry about kids & staff shaming those who continue to mask. That also shouldn't happen.
I don’t think you need to lose sleep. The shaming will be going the other direction.I'm not. I'm worried students who are conditioned into wearing masks will feel compelled to shame students who choose not to wear a mask. I'm hopeful they will not.
The chain of events he thinks will happen:I don’t think you need to lose sleep. The shaming will be going the other direction.
"Masks are strongly encouraged" has been our district's policy all year. My understanding is that actual mask usage is ~0%. I wouldn't worry too much about kids being shamed for not wearing masks. It's more likely that all the masks will vanish on day one.Battersbox said:Illinois lawsuit resulted in a temporary restraining order regarding Pritzker's mask mandate for schools, so about 165 school districts are unable to enforce mask mandates beginning tomorrow (including ours).
My wife teaches in the district. I don't envy teachers tomorrow who will have to deal with kids who are conditioned into wearing masks butting heads with kids who are ready to do away w/them. Guidance is that masks are still 'strongly encouraged' but cannot be mandated.
I'm hopeful we won't have issues with staff and students shaming others into wearing them anyway, which would result in angry parents coming over the top at administration and staff, etc. What a mess.
YESSSSNJ ending school mask mandate the 2nd week in March. NY better be next.
Some of it is probably classical conditioning. Some of is it little kids taking their cues from neurotic parents.Saying students who continue wearing their mask are ‘conditioned’ into wearing them is disgusting. Maybe they just want to do everything to keep themselves and their classmates healthy while following the preferences of the school district. Nah they’re just conditioned to do it and are probably going to shame others into it.
When you've told kids for nearly 2 years they must do something or bad things will happen to themselves or others, that's kind of the textbook definition of conditioned. It's not disgusting, lighten up.So the schools want to have a mask mandate but can’t enforce it now due to a lawsuit. You’re worried about students shaming other students into wearing masks? The conflict is almost always with the parents who don’t want their kids wearing masks. Saying students who continue wearing their mask are ‘conditioned’ into wearing them is disgusting. Maybe they just want to do everything to keep themselves and their classmates healthy while following the preferences of the school district. Nah they’re just conditioned to do it and are probably going to shame others into it.
Thanks for speaking for me. Give me a break.The chain of events he thinks will happen:
-Mask mandate no longer can be enforced
-Some kids continue to wear masks.
-Other kids see them wearing masks and wear theirs too.
-Anti-mask parents see kids wearing masks and go cause problems at school.
Clearly the issue is the kids who continue wearing their masks.
I wouldn't want shaming to go in either direction.I don’t think you need to lose sleep. The shaming will be going the other direction.
Anyone who wants to mask should be able to do so until they feel comfortable not doing so.The chain of events he thinks will happen:
-Mask mandate no longer can be enforced
-Some kids continue to wear masks.
-Other kids see them wearing masks and wear theirs too.
-Anti-mask parents see kids wearing masks and go cause problems at school.
Clearly the issue is the kids who continue wearing their masks.
It's shameful the kids who choose to mask would ridiculed. Goes both ways.The kids in Florida schools do not wear masks , at least in the 2 schools my GF`s kids are attending. The 16 yo said the kids would make fun of anyone wearing a mask. We moved to Florida in December from Ma where masks are worn by everyone . They love not wearing masks.
i agree ,the choice should be accepted by all. My guess its a trickle down effect from the parents view point on the subject.It's shameful the kids who choose to mask would ridiculed. Goes both ways.
I'm not sure that masks will disappear here, at least not quickly. It's been too long. Which was my original point--we will have a mixture of attitudes about this, and I hope staff and stakeholders can progress through it with as little acrimony as possible."Masks are strongly encouraged" has been our district's policy all year. My understanding is that actual mask usage is ~0%. I wouldn't worry too much about kids being shamed for not wearing masks. It's more likely that all the masks will vanish on day one.
It’s the difference between how you answer the question they ask ‘why do we have to wear a mask?’ If the answer is simply ‘because we said so’ or ‘that’s the rules’, they’re not going understand why they’re doing it. We’ve always made a point to tell them what’s going on and why they have to wear masks some places and not others. Even at the ages of 6 and 3, they understand and don’t mind wearing a mask. Neither of them have socialization or communication problems. Sorry if you think being honest with our kids makes us neurotic but it’s better than keeping them in the dark and just telling them they have to wear it.Some of it is probably classical conditioning. Some of is it little kids taking their cues from neurotic parents.
None of it is elementary school kids reviewing the epidemiological data and concluding that the marginal benefits from widespread masking in local schools stemming from reduced community spread offset the potential marginal costs stemming from hard-to-quantify communication and socialization problems. Any little kid who delivers a speech along these lines is just repeating back something that he heard dad say to mom on the drive to school. (The same goes for kids who have suspiciously adult-sounding arguments for not wanting to wear a mask, of course.)
What words did I put in your mouth that weren’t in your original post?When you've told kids for nearly 2 years they must do something or bad things will happen to themselves or others, that's kind of the textbook definition of conditioned. It's not disgusting, lighten up.
The vast majority of kids in my experience refrain from masking virtually everywhere else they go and they don't think twice about it.
Thanks for speaking for me. Give me a break.
Battersbox said:Illinois lawsuit resulted in a temporary restraining order regarding Pritzker's mask mandate for schools, so about 165 school districts are unable to enforce mask mandates beginning tomorrow (including ours).
My wife teaches in the district. I don't envy teachers tomorrow who will have to deal with kids who are conditioned into wearing masks butting heads with kids who are ready to do away w/them. Guidance is that masks are still 'strongly encouraged' but cannot be mandated.
I'm hopeful we won't have issues with staff and students shaming others into wearing them anyway, which would result in angry parents coming over the top at administration and staff, etc. What a mess.
But that’s all reasonable and certainly makes for a better learning environment. At least the kids don’t have to wear a mask.I live in Citrus County, FL. I played pickleball last weekend with the Dean of Students at our local high school. He told me they've been operating with 40% of faculty out sick. They've had to put 8 classes together in the gym for one teacher to handle.
He said nobody is masking up anywhere in the school.
Another guy teaches networking at the local Technical Institute. He said ditto at his school too.
Most people mask up in the grocery stores but that's about it.
We have two hospitals, ICUs are at 86% and 97% capacity.
This was happening in schools with mask mandates as wellBut that’s all reasonable and certainly makes for a better learning environment. At least the kids don’t have to wear a mask.
The chain of events he thinks will happen:What words did I put in your mouth that weren’t in your original post?
This has been a thought exercise for me as of late and I have PLENTY of anti-vax people I interact with daily. Lately, I've tried a different approach. I've asked if they would give their kids a gun to play with unsupervised if they knew the chances of their kid getting hurt were < 1%. If I didn't getThe Z Machine said:I honestly wouldn't care if the survival rate is 100x better than 99.98% (2 out of 1 million). I'd still get my little ones vaccinated. I sure as heck don't want my child to win the covid lottery if there are other options like a vaccine.
I got a "no". I also used the scenario of just leaving a gun out for a group of kids to play with....also yielded similar results. I don’t think kids are going to shame others into masking. I’ve never seen nor heard it happening. The opposite happens all the time and happens to my daughters.The chain of events he thinks will happen:
-Mask mandate no longer can be enforced
-Some kids continue to wear masks.
-Other kids see them wearing masks and wear theirs too.
-Anti-mask parents see kids wearing masks and go cause problems at school.
Clearly the issue is the kids who continue wearing their masks.
You made some leaps here. There can be 2 types of kids who continue to mask: those who continue to mask and accept that others won't, and those who continue to mask and actively try to shame others into the same practice.
My issue isn't with kids wearing masks. My issue is with kids who want everyone to continue to mask and who then try to shame others into compliance.
I won't speak for you (I don't like to do that to others) so I'll ask you directly: are you saying it's fine for kids to shame others into compliance despite the absence of a mandate?
That's fine. I'm just asking that people be honest. At that age, kids just repeat back whatever they're being told by adults. It doesn't mean anything beyond that.It’s the difference between how you answer the question they ask ‘why do we have to wear a mask?’ If the answer is simply ‘because we said so’ or ‘that’s the rules’, they’re not going understand why they’re doing it. We’ve always made a point to tell them what’s going on and why they have to wear masks some places and not others. Even at the ages of 6 and 3, they understand and don’t mind wearing a mask. Neither of them have socialization or communication problems. Sorry if you think being honest with our kids makes us neurotic but it’s better than keeping them in the dark and just telling them they have to wear it.
This is a horrible analogy.This has been a thought exercise for me as of late and I have PLENTY of anti-vax people I interact with daily. Lately, I've tried a different approach. I've asked if they would give their kids a gun to play with unsupervised if they knew the chances of their kid getting hurt were < 1%. If I didn't getI got a "no". I also used the scenario of just leaving a gun out for a group of kids to play with....also yielded similar results.
Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with this. (Although I might have said not analagous instead of "horrible, but whatever.)This is a horrible analogy.
There is no risk for NOT giving the kids a gun. There is a risk (albeit slight) for giving kids the vaccine. There is also the unknown risk.
We have no experience with this in my area, because we've universally masked the entire time. I'm hopeful you're right and it won't happen. But from experience with talking with people and reading community forums for our school districts, some who believe in mask mandates are already up in arms and very vocal about the legal ruling. Several districts (including Chicago Public Schools) are supposedly going to defy the law on this. The Chicago Teachers Union is discussing yet another strike. A former teacher of mine (who I'm friends with on Facebook) openly posted she would actively shame kids in her classes who chose to not mask if she weren't already retired.I don’t think kids are going to shame others into masking. I’ve never seen nor heard it happening. The opposite happens all the time and happens to my daughters.
I honestly don’t know where you’re getting the idea that kids are shaming others into masking.
This is highly variable depending on several factors. My two teens are extremely conscientious about wearing masks in public indoor spaces and don't have to be reminded or cajoled.The vast majority of kids in my experience refrain from masking virtually everywhere else they go and they don't think twice about it.
I think you tagged the wrong bromigo.Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with this. (Although I might have said not analagous instead of "horrible, but whatever.)
The risk of giving kids the vaccine is close to but is not zero.
So @The General, it seems like your thought experiment is making an argument for NOT giving the vaccine.