Donald Trump is openly sexist. We know this because every article about him prominently declares that he is "openly sexist" or "openly misogynist" in precisely those words. Trump is
openly misogynist. Trump is
openly misogynist. Trump is
openly misogynist. Trump shows
blatant misogyny. Trump is
openly sexist. Trump is
openly sexist and gross.
But if you try to look for him being openly anything, the first quote anyone mentions is the one where he says Megyn Kelly has blood coming out of her "wherever." As somebody who personally ends any list of more than three items with "… and whatever," I may be more inclined than most to believe his claim that no anatomical reference was intended. But even if he was in fact talking about her anatomy – the comment is crude, stupid, puerile, offensive, gross, inappropriate, and whatever. But
sexist?
When I think of "sexist" or "misogynist," I think of somebody who thinks women are inferior to men, or who hates women, or who thinks women shouldn't be allowed to have good jobs or full human rights, or who wants to disadvantage women relative to men in some way.
This does not seem to apply very well to Trump. It's been remarked several times that his policies are more "pro-women" in the political sense than almost any other Republican candidate in recent history – he defends Planned Parenthood, defends government support for child care, he's flip-flopped to claiming he's pro-life but is much less convincing about it than the average Republican. And back before his campaign, he seems to have been genuinely proud of his record as a pro-women employer. From his
Art of the Deal, written in the late 1980s (long before he was campaigning):
The person I hired to be my personal representative overseeing the construction, Barbara Res, was the first woman ever put in charge of a skyscraper in New York…I'd watched her in construction meetings, and what I liked was that she took no guff from anyone. She was half the size of most of these bruising guys, but she wasn't afraid to tell them off when she had to, and she knew how to get things done.
It's funny. My own mother was a housewife all her life. And yet it's turned out that I've hired a lot of women for top jobs, and they've been among my best people. Often, in fact, they are far more effective than the men around them. Louise Sunshine, who was an executive vice president in my company for ten years, was as relentless a fighter as you'll ever meet. Blanche Sprague, the executive vice president who handles all sales and oversses the interior design of my buildings, is one of the best salespeople and managers I've ever met. Norma Foerderer, my executive assistant, is sweet and charming and very classy, but she's steel underneath, and people who think she can be pushed around find out very quickly that they're mistaken.
There have since been a bunch of news reports on how Trump was (according to
the Washington Post) "ahead of his time in providing career advancement for women" and how "while some say he could be boorish, his companies nurtured and promoted women in an otherwise male-dominated industry." According to internal (i.e., hard-to-confirm) numbers, his organization is among the few that have more female than male executives.
Meanwhile, when I check out sites like
Women Hold Up Signs With Donald Trump's Most Sexist Quotes, the women are holding up signs with quotes like "A person who is flat-chested is very hard to be a 10" (yes, he actually said that). This is undeniably boorish. But are we losing something when we act as if "boorish" and "sexist" are the same thing? Saying "Donald Trump is openly boorish" doesn't have the same kind of ring to it.
If Trump thinks women aren't attractive without big breasts, then his kink is not my kink but his kink is okay. If Trump is dumb enough to say out loud that he thinks women aren't attractive without big breasts, that says certain things about his public relations ability and his dignity-or-lack-thereof, but it sounds like it requires a lot more steps to suggest he is a bad person, or unqualified for anything, or would have an administration which is bad for women, or anything that we should actually care about.
(If you're going to bring up "objectification," then at least you have some sort of theory for how this tenuously connects, but it doesn't really apply to the Megyn Kelly thing, and anyway,
this.)
What bothers me most about this is that word "openly." Donald Trump says a thousand times how much he wants to fight for women and thinks he will be a pro-women president, then makes some comments that some people say reveal an anti-women attitude even though the connection is tenuous, and all of a sudden he's
openly sexist? Maybe that word doesn't mean what you think it means.