***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (9 Viewers)

[Bankerguy]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

An interesting an plausable theory.Woz???

 

[mr. furley]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

explain

based on what we "know" of you, you're just not the kinda guy who wants to go out meeting random girls, living the single life, carousing, cheating on gf's, sleeping around, finding yourself and what you like/don't like about women.you have an ideal in your head and think you can 1) spot it in women and 2) find that woman and make her feel the same about you as you do her, instantaneously.some people would call you a "romantic".

 

[mr. furley]

I've been talking casually back in forth with sluttymom and some other chick who claims to be bisexual, but I'll never see other of them because that's not what I'm about.

What the hell?!?

I've learned just to move on when he says stuff like this.

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't. sluttymom = chubby with 4 kids. No thanks.

bisexual chick = not super hot and seems weird.

As an average maybe.......as a rule hell no. Some of the best craziest stuff you will ever do is with people you don't necessarily love. While it may not be for everyone's comfort level....taking a walk on the wild side once and a while is great for your face.

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

like i said, idealized notions of the wimmens

 

[code]

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

You're showing your age / experience here Wozzy Bear...consider listening to these guys, you may learn something...

 

[Woz]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

An interesting an plausable theory.Woz???

given his below explaination I'd say he's probably right - although my ex would probably argue that I'm a cheater.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

explain

based on what we "know" of you, you're just not the kinda guy who wants to go out meeting random girls, living the single life, carousing, cheating on gf's, sleeping around, finding yourself and what you like/don't like about women.you have an ideal in your head and think you can 1) spot it in women and 2) find that woman and make her feel the same about you as you do her, instantaneously.some people would call you a "romantic".

Wow, Matt.Nailed that one.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

You're showing your age

:ahem:I'm not old here. Don't put that into my boat. TIA.

 

[strykerpks]

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

You're showing your age / experience here Wozzy Bear...consider listening to these guys, you may learn something...

For the record, how old is woz?

 

[mr. furley]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

explain

based on what we "know" of you, you're just not the kinda guy who wants to go out meeting random girls, living the single life, carousing, cheating on gf's, sleeping around, finding yourself and what you like/don't like about women.you have an ideal in your head and think you can 1) spot it in women and 2) find that woman and make her feel the same about you as you do her, instantaneously.some people would call you a "romantic".

Wow, Matt.Nailed that one.

i done seen it. time and again. nothing wrong with it. it's just in some people's nature and in other it's not.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

You're showing your age / experience here Wozzy Bear...consider listening to these guys, you may learn something...

For the record, how old is woz?

Just turned 24.

 

[strykerpks]

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

You're showing your age / experience here Wozzy Bear...consider listening to these guys, you may learn something...

For the record, how old is woz?

Just turned 24.

I see. I recall being 24. I wanted to do the hibbity dibbity with anything that moved. I still do but am also looking to settle down a tad Like you said, Furley nailed it in his earlier post. I'll probably be updating the Yahoo profile soon so I'll join in the updates shortly

 

[Keys Myaths]

I see. I recall being 24.

You're missing out.It's fun times.

 

[strykerpks]

I see. I recall being 24.

You're missing out.It's fun times.

Hey now, I'm not THAT far removed

 

[Kraft...]

Yeah, and there are certain things you may not be comfortable doing to the mother of your children.

Eh, I disagree. I think if you are close enough to the person chances are you share the same types of sexual fantasies and crap and the comfort level is so high you can do it.

You're showing your age / experience here Wozzy Bear...consider listening to these guys, you may learn something...

For the record, how old is woz?

Just turned 24.

I see. I recall being 24. I wanted to do the hibbity dibbity with anything that moved. I still do but am also looking to settle down a tad Like you said, Furley nailed it in his earlier post. I'll probably be updating the Yahoo profile soon so I'll join in the updates shortly

Does this "hibbity dibbity" you speak of have anything to do with all the confetti being thrown around with such reckless abandon?

 

[Keys Myaths]

:confetti:

 

[Pip's Invitation]

:ticker tape:

 

[Keys Myaths]

Just got two text messages from blondie. One saying she had a crappy day, and the next apologizing for complaining.

 

[krista4]

Just got two text messages from blondie. One saying she had a crappy day, and the next apologizing for complaining.

So it's not just Woz who can pull the freaky ones.

 

[BassNBrew]

HUGE UPDATE COMING TONITE!!!

 

[code]

HUGE UPDATE COMING TONITE!!!

 

[krista4]

HUGE UPDATE COMING TONITE!!!

 

[Keys Myaths]

Went out with Latina for the second time...the "thing" just wasn't there. She's great, she's fun, she's very good looking, but meh.

So, unfortunately, we're down to one, which means Keys is firing off a TON of e-mails tomorrow.

 

[strykerpks]

HUGE UPDATE COMING TONITE!!!

Is BassNBrew a Homer alias? That would be a helluvan updateFYI, updated the Yahoo profile. IT takes a day for them to approve it though. Thanks for the input krista! Did some searches tonight and haven't seen much that piques my interest

 

[krista4]

HUGE UPDATE COMING TONITE!!!

Is BassNBrew a Homer alias? That would be a helluvan updateFYI, updated the Yahoo profile. IT takes a day for them to approve it though. Thanks for the input krista! Did some searches tonight and haven't seen much that piques my interest

Not an alias that I know of. I'm clueless w/r/t some of that, though. And thank you for spelling "piqued" correctly.I'm drunk and feel like I should post something stupid. I mean, stupider than this.

 

[Otis]

HUGE UPDATE shtick

 

[Otis]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

So this is my first time trying online dating!! Its so hard to find a good match in the bar scene so I figured I would give this a shot! I’m not one to talk about myself too much but here it goes!! I have an identical twin sister who is also online so don’t confuse us!!! I'm a hardworking accountant--fun and sexy too! Yes those do exist! I love to have fun...spending time with friends and family is what I enjoy the most! I love venturing out in NYC to different lounges and restaurants! During the winter it’s nice to cozy up and stay inside watching movies and during the summer I love laying on the beach! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh-- so I’m looking for someone who can make me smile. My perfect match should be someone who is focused on his career but loves to have fun as well! Thanks to all you handsome men taking the time to read my profile! Hope to hear from you soon!

 

[Slinger]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

Respond back without using an exclamation point. It'll even things out. Some people just write emails funky, but are very normal in real life.Edit to add: She's probably nuts regardless, so good luck!!!!!

 

[Chaos Commish]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

So this is my first time trying online dating!! Its so hard to find a good match in the bar scene so I figured I would give this a shot! I’m not one to talk about myself too much but here it goes!! I have an identical twin sister who is also online so don’t confuse us!!! I'm a hardworking accountant--fun and sexy too! Yes those do exist! I love to have fun...spending time with friends and family is what I enjoy the most! I love venturing out in NYC to different lounges and restaurants! During the winter it’s nice to cozy up and stay inside watching movies and during the summer I love laying on the beach! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh-- so I’m looking for someone who can make me smile. My perfect match should be someone who is focused on his career but loves to have fun as well! Thanks to all you handsome men taking the time to read my profile! Hope to hear from you soon!

You should respond the same way!!!

 

[krista4]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

So this is my first time trying online dating!! Its so hard to find a good match in the bar scene so I figured I would give this a shot! I’m not one to talk about myself too much but here it goes!! I have an identical twin sister who is also online so don’t confuse us!!! I'm a hardworking accountant--fun and sexy too! Yes those do exist! I love to have fun...spending time with friends and family is what I enjoy the most! I love venturing out in NYC to different lounges and restaurants! During the winter it’s nice to cozy up and stay inside watching movies and during the summer I love laying on the beach! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh-- so I’m looking for someone who can make me smile. My perfect match should be someone who is focused on his career but loves to have fun as well! Thanks to all you handsome men taking the time to read my profile! Hope to hear from you soon!

I think you're overlooking the fact that she says she has a twin sister. If she's hot, there is a possibility here of every man's dream, as well as tons of good shtick. YWIA.

 

[pricklypete]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

So this is my first time trying online dating!! Its so hard to find a good match in the bar scene so I figured I would give this a shot! I’m not one to talk about myself too much but here it goes!! I have an identical twin sister who is also online so don’t confuse us!!! I'm a hardworking accountant--fun and sexy too! Yes those do exist! I love to have fun...spending time with friends and family is what I enjoy the most! I love venturing out in NYC to different lounges and restaurants! During the winter it’s nice to cozy up and stay inside watching movies and during the summer I love laying on the beach! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh-- so I’m looking for someone who can make me smile. My perfect match should be someone who is focused on his career but loves to have fun as well! Thanks to all you handsome men taking the time to read my profile! Hope to hear from you soon!

Top of the morning to you!

 

[JAA]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

So this is my first time trying online dating!! Its so hard to find a good match in the bar scene so I figured I would give this a shot! I’m not one to talk about myself too much but here it goes!! I have an identical twin sister who is also online so don’t confuse us!!! I'm a hardworking accountant--fun and sexy too! Yes those do exist! I love to have fun...spending time with friends and family is what I enjoy the most! I love venturing out in NYC to different lounges and restaurants! During the winter it’s nice to cozy up and stay inside watching movies and during the summer I love laying on the beach! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh-- so I’m looking for someone who can make me smile. My perfect match should be someone who is focused on his career but loves to have fun as well! Thanks to all you handsome men taking the time to read my profile! Hope to hear from you soon!

cmon brotha, this is a fscking no brainer. or are you ?

 

[JAA]

Bass>

 

[Bankerguy]

What do you say to a girl who winks at you, and you check her profile and she ends every sentence with an exclamation point?

So this is my first time trying online dating!! Its so hard to find a good match in the bar scene so I figured I would give this a shot! I’m not one to talk about myself too much but here it goes!! I have an identical twin sister who is also online so don’t confuse us!!! I'm a hardworking accountant--fun and sexy too! Yes those do exist! I love to have fun...spending time with friends and family is what I enjoy the most! I love venturing out in NYC to different lounges and restaurants! During the winter it’s nice to cozy up and stay inside watching movies and during the summer I love laying on the beach! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh-- so I’m looking for someone who can make me smile. My perfect match should be someone who is focused on his career but loves to have fun as well! Thanks to all you handsome men taking the time to read my profile! Hope to hear from you soon!

Cut her some slack....she got one period in there.

 

[BassNBrew]

Opps....must not have hit the post button on the other computer.

 

[JAA]

Opps....must not have hit the post button on the other computer.

ttpb:

 

[code]

slipped to the 3rd page again

 

[Bankerguy]

OK....I'll give an update.

I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

 

[code]

OK....I'll give an update.I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

 

[Woz]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this.

#### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

 

[Bankerguy]

OK....I'll give an update.I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

a) We knew each other before we hooked up.b) We see each other about every 2-3 days.c) I am in from her side (I think anyway). Just for me the secks has been a little PG.

 

[Bankerguy]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

 

[code]

OK....I'll give an update.I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

a) We knew each other before we hooked up.b) We see each other about every 2-3 days.c) I am in from her side (I think anyway). Just for me the secks has been a little PG.

What I was getting at was she might be looking to be "courted" a bit...I'm not expert on the female mind but I could imagine if after that first night she felt a little guilty and was looking to see you show some interest in winning her heart...it would be the natural result of friends-turning-into-lovers scenario...she just wants a little additional confirmation that you are in it for more than the sex...just a thought...maybe lay it on a little thick tonight, see if that heats things up...

 

[Woz]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

We'll see. Meant more of the make a fool of myself by either calling exes all emotional or Otis-texting the hell out of the chicks who stood me up and being a #### about it. I honestly have a hard time "dipping," if you know what I a mean. Reaching a point though where anything is possible.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

OK....I'll give an update.

I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

a) We knew each other before we hooked up.b) We see each other about every 2-3 days.

c) I am in from her side (I think anyway). Just for me the secks has been a little PG.

What I was getting at was she might be looking to be "courted" a bit...I'm not expert on the female mind but I could imagine if after that first night she felt a little guilty and was looking to see you show some interest in winning her heart...it would be the natural result of friends-turning-into-lovers scenario...she just wants a little additional confirmation that you are in it for more than the sex...just a thought...maybe lay it on a little thick tonight, see if that heats things up...

Or give her a poem:Roses are Red

Violets are Blue

If the Sex Doesn't Improve,

I Am Through With You

Chicks love poems...

 

[Bankerguy]

OK....I'll give an update.I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

a) We knew each other before we hooked up.b) We see each other about every 2-3 days.c) I am in from her side (I think anyway). Just for me the secks has been a little PG.

What I was getting at was she might be looking to be "courted" a bit...I'm not expert on the female mind but I could imagine if after that first night she felt a little guilty and was looking to see you show some interest in winning her heart...it would be the natural result of friends-turning-into-lovers scenario...she just wants a little additional confirmation that you are in it for more than the sex...just a thought...maybe lay it on a little thick tonight, see if that heats things up...

Yeah, I hear ya. Actually, I have done that. That is my normal game anyway. We did the out for drinks, Italian restaurant for dinner, then did the whole walk after dinner while holding hands deal. Improvements neeeded tonight. I am limiting my alcohol consumption, so there are no excuses.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

We'll see. Meant more of the make a fool of myself by either calling exes all emotional or Otis-texting the hell out of the chicks who stood me up and being a #### about it. I honestly have a hard time "dipping," if you know what I a mean. Reaching a point though where anything is possible.

Why is it you have a hard time just having sex and having a good time with a chick you don't "love," but you have no problem doing things that will emotionally hurt yourself?Just seems weird to me...A bit masochistic IMO...Seems even if it wasn't your favorite thing in the world, meeting some chick in a bar for secks would be better than getting all emotional and doing something you will regret...Just my :twocents:

 

[Kraft...]

OK....I'll give an update.I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

a) We knew each other before we hooked up.b) We see each other about every 2-3 days.c) I am in from her side (I think anyway). Just for me the secks has been a little PG.

What I was getting at was she might be looking to be "courted" a bit...I'm not expert on the female mind but I could imagine if after that first night she felt a little guilty and was looking to see you show some interest in winning her heart...it would be the natural result of friends-turning-into-lovers scenario...she just wants a little additional confirmation that you are in it for more than the sex...just a thought...maybe lay it on a little thick tonight, see if that heats things up...

Yeah, I hear ya. Actually, I have done that. That is my normal game anyway. We did the out for drinks, Italian restaurant for dinner, then did the whole walk after dinner while holding hands deal. Improvements neeeded tonight. I am limiting my alcohol consumption, so there are no excuses.

I really like your no nonsense approach BG, why F around

 

[Bankerguy]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

We'll see. Meant more of the make a fool of myself by either calling exes all emotional or Otis-texting the hell out of the chicks who stood me up and being a #### about it. I honestly have a hard time "dipping," if you know what I a mean. Reaching a point though where anything is possible.

Getting out of your comfort zone is the best thing for you...honestly. Try something you normally wouldn't do. It might just surprise.Good luck gb.

 

[Disco Stu]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

We'll see. Meant more of the make a fool of myself by either calling exes all emotional or Otis-texting the hell out of the chicks who stood me up and being a #### about it. I honestly have a hard time "dipping," if you know what I a mean. Reaching a point though where anything is possible.

Please don't contact your ex.Try not to let those disappearing girls bother you. Chicks (especially those in their early 20s) can be pretty fickle.

 

[Bankerguy]

The plan for tonight is simple because I have my son home with me. She will come by after my son does down to sleep. We are watching a movie and a having couple of glasses of wine. OH, and we joked about watching pron.....we'll see where that goes. I believe she is sensing that my interest levels have been waning. Tonight could be interesting, I am hoping for her A game for sure.

Updates to follow late tonight or early morning.