I once dated a girl from Georgia. We went to visit her family over Thanksgiving. They lived a ways outside of Atlanta. We went to her grandmother's house. It's one of these situations where the grandmother owns a plot of land, and it's subdivided and one kid builds a house on an adjacent lot, and the in-laws build next to that, etc.
The arsenal of weapons these people owned was mindblowing. They proudly showed me around the house to the various stashes of guns, pistols, rifles, an AK47, etc. None under lock and key. Children lived all over these homes.
After dinner, they got really amped up to go out and shoot the guns. I was so uncomfortable with the whole scene and wanted to play along and be accepted by the family. So out we go, back behind where the pet hog lives. And there's an area in a big field where you go to shoot guns. They set up some logs and some crap as targets.
And so we go out back with a collection of shotguns, pistols, rifles, AK47 assault rifles, and other things I don't know the names of. And with a million rounds of ammunition. We took turns; even the aunts and grandma got in on the action. And there I was, a good ol' hillbilly, out in the field, shootin' some guns. All the while I was wondering about a bullet ricocheting; about people far out into the woods who might be going for a walk and get hit by a stray bullet; the kids standing around who might just grab one and start firing randomly. I was stunned at how irresponsible this was, and at how cavalier they were about this. And this was just totally normal and fine for them. I have no double that everyone else in the neighborhood would think this is fine and do the same exact things.
Get some horseshoes. A bocce court. Find something else to do after Thanksgiving dinner. This is a ticking time bomb. You're not responsible enough to have a constitutional right to something that potentially deadly.
And it dawned on me how widespread this sort of thing probably is in America.
So you hypersuperduper ultra elite gun nerds who have fancy guns and keep them in a safe and shoot them in your gun league -- you're right, your gun is probably not the one that will be part of the next tragedy. But it may well be. And if it's not, it may be ones that are far more irresponsibly maintained. And that's the problem.
I'm sorry that we're screwing up your Thanksgiving fun, but it's not worth the risk. And I'm not making that decision for YOUR family, I make that decision for MY family.
And I bet the parents of those 20 kids sure wish they could have made that decision to keep guns out of Mrs. Lanza's house.
This is such easy math. I don't understand the pushback and never will.