It amazes me how so many seemingly intelligent, successful people can be so bad/undisciplined with money.
People have difficulty in life finding balance.
It's rare to see someone successful in nearly all aspects of their life ranging from business, financial discipline, family, fitness, their own moral code, etc.
Almost always someone extremely successful in one area such as business lack in another area of their life... oftentimes discipline, fitness, or family, or moral code.
Whereas an average joe with an average to below average income might have great financial discipline and family life.
They discuss this in Millionaire next door... how often times doctors and lawyers are horrible wealth accumulators, but educators are frequently excellent wealth accumulators despite the former generating more year to year income.
Pretty good posting here. I've always, since I was probably 13 years old, been a hard worker, a good earner, but a big spender. I went out and got paper routes and always worked and always earned. But I also spent. Never cared much for wealth accumulating.
Now that I'm nearing 40 and have a wife, two kids, and a hefty mortgage, that all is starting to change at least a little bit. I don't spend much money on "stuff" like I used to, but I'm also not naturally a saver. I'm planning on making a big push in that direction this coming year, now that our "forever home" purchase is behind us and we're settled in.
And Otis I had the very opposite experience growing up.
I mowed lawns from about age 12-13 through college. It was hard work and I didn't really enjoy it that much.
And one of the things I learned from the experience was that it's really not money that you're earning/spending.. it's life effort/time from one thing used on something else.
So when I would spend an hour mowing a lawn and earn like $10 or $20 or something.. and then it came time to turn around and spend $50 for a Nintendo game or $8 for a movie ticket, etc... in my head I was always like "wait, is this item I'm about to purchase really worth the X hours I spent mowing that lawn?" Sometimes the answer was yes, but most of the time it was no.
I didn't like mowing those lawns anymore than I like giving someone another shot or doing another root canal..... I imagine money could be easier to spend if you actually got up in the morning really excited to goto your job because your job was also a hobby of yours that didn't bring frustration and stress.
In addition... my parents always had a system for me growing up regarding impulse purchases.. if I saw a toy I wanted at the store and asked if I could have it.. their answer was nearly always yes... provided I still wanted the toy 2-3 weeks later... thus teaching delayed gratification. Sometimes I would in fact still want that toy, but of course, most of the time I forgot about it as most people would with most purchases if a store told them "we'd be happy to sell you this, but let's make sure you want it and we will hold it for you until next week"
It was a good system and I recommend it.